is this wrong?

[mixed kid aaron]

one of my friends are gay & we have a streak going. I know he's really attracted to me but like I've made it really clear I'm not gay and we're still friends and stuff. is it leading him on/ giving him the wrong idea if I sent a shirtless pic of me at the beach?

[Jay21]

I would think that would be leading him on a bit. Posting it on social media or something is one thing, but sending it directly to him might give him the idea you're interested in him. Unless he sent you one first

[volleyballer13]

yeah that could be leading him on if you just sent it to him as a way to show off or brag.

[Sports Boy]

What do you mean when you say you "have a streak going?"

And why do you want to send him a picture of you with no shirt on?

[ValentinClarke]

one of my friends are gay & we have a streak going. I know he's really attracted to me but like I've made it really clear I'm not gay and we're still friends and stuff. is it leading him on/ giving him the wrong idea if I sent a shirtless pic of me at the beach?

Hey, coming from someone who is perceived as the gay friend, I could give some advice in this situation.
No need to go full shirtless, just like shoulders to just above nipples would be like a neutral zone. Any further, I dunno how your friend would react, especially as he is attracted to you.

[SethfromMI]

yea that could def be considered leading him on. it is one thing like Jayson said to post it to facebook or whatever, but it is another to specifically send it to him

[coolio120]

one of my friends are gay & we have a streak going. I know he's really attracted to me but like I've made it really clear I'm not gay and we're still friends and stuff. is it leading him on/ giving him the wrong idea if I sent a shirtless pic of me at the beach?

Uhhhhh Yeah it's pretty wrong. But you're probably just helping him get off. If you make it explicit that you're not interested, then that's his problem if he sees something else.

[Jtyler]

Sending it directly to him may be leading him on but sending it to others, posting somewhere more local wouldn't be a prob at all

[Just JT]

Not sure why your asking this tbh, if you have doubt, then you question your own intentions. And if that's true, why tempt a friend like that when you know he's into you, but yiur straight, unles.....idk, just sayin...

[chasechris63]

It's not necessarily wrong, but it could be misleading. Did he reply with another back? If he did he might believe you are of interest

[Skylark]

It might be a little lead-on-y. With people who really like someone even the smallest scrap is a feast from the gods.

[Zachary G]

Yes, it would be considered leading him on if you sent the picture directly to him, even if to just brag about your bod or whatever. You know he has feelings for you, so why tease him with something he will never have? Thats just wrong. It would be one thing if you posted it on social media or sent it to many people, but totally another if you did it just for him. Thats not fair and its not being a good friend.

[Just JT]

Sorry bout a spam post, but tbh, ^^ zack.zack
He's right...

[jamie_n5]

What do you mean when you say you "have a streak going?"

And why do you want to send him a picture of you with no shirt on?

What kind of a relationship do you have? Is it an online thing or do you know each other and physically see each other in person? If you are friends it may not be leading him on but if it's an online thing I think it could be. If you are personal friends and curious about experimenting then tell him you want to but that is all you want to do out of curiosity but don't lead him on without being truthful.

[Second Chance]

one of my friends are gay & we have a streak going. I know he's really attracted to me but like I've made it really clear I'm not gay and we're still friends and stuff. is it leading him on/ giving him the wrong idea if I sent a shirtless pic of me at the beach?

Sending the guy a shirtless photograph of yourself will definitely lead to problems and make him think you are interested in him. Send him a photograph of something else like seashells, a lighthouse, etc. because if you directly send him a shirtless photograph of yourself, then you are basically inviting him to be more than friends. It is one thing if he sees a shirtless photo of you, but it is quite another if you send him the photograph. If you want to fool around with him or have a friend with benefits, then sending that photograph will put oil in the fire especially since you know that he is strongly attracted to you. Don't play with his feelings especially if you have no intention of being more than friends with him so that he can find someone who really would want to be with him.

[Canadian Dream]

I would honestly be a bit confused if a girl made it clear that she wasn't attracted to me and then sent a picture of herself in bikinis at the beach so I would think it's not the best idea to do that with your friend especially if he's attracted to you. It's best to make yourself clear that you're not attracted to him and limit the friendship to just texting and pictures of you fully clothed.

[Hankster65]

I agree only send him that pic if you want something more... and you've made it clear that you don't so yeah don't send a shirtless pic of yourself directly to him

[Biomicro]

If he send you first than you send him back that show him that we are just best brother or something like that and dont send itttttt !