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beebs
July 10th, 2016, 07:26 PM
A few months ago I found out my partner had been sexting other girls (graphic sexual talk, pictures, videos etc etc) and as you can imagine I was furious, but we remained together, because yes, i'm stupid.

Its been 4 months since then, and yesterday I discovered that he has a few cam girls on snap chat, so basically they just send nudes and its very graphic. I have no idea if he has been talking to them or just follows their stories, either way, i'm mad. After all this, after him practically cheating on me he goes and does this.

I don't know what to think, on one hand its ANOTHER betrayal of trust, but on the other hand it can be considered porn (which we are both fine with each other watching).

Any advice would be great, im so confused.

jamie_n5
July 10th, 2016, 07:40 PM
I think you need a long sit down talk with each other. Discuss what is happening and how you feel. Set some ground rules of what is alright to do and what is not alright. We all have other friends and interact with others. I don't think sexting is probably acceptable behavior when in a relationship. Both my boyfriend and I talk to other guys and trade pictures with them and stuff but that is about it. I think we all need to have other friends and do things with them too. I hope that you can set down rules with him and all goes on well from there.

Melodic
July 10th, 2016, 07:42 PM
I would've broken up with him when he was trading pictures with other girls but you're not stupid for staying with him through that.

You are in a unhealthy relationship. Regardless if he's directly talking to those girls or not, you don't trust him. I don't blame you after what he did to you. I know this might be hard to hear but I feel it's best for you to let him go. You are worth more and deserve more than a guy like him.

SethfromMI
July 10th, 2016, 07:47 PM
I would cut my ties with him. if he is going to keep doing the same thing to you, he is clearly not going to change.

Just JT
July 10th, 2016, 07:50 PM
Dump him, he can't be trusted. Sorry to be so blunt, but tbh, it's true, you already gave him a chance and he fucked that up, he doesn't deserve you.