How to have more confidence in my looks and body?

[bpk1234]

I have always struggled with confidence in my own looks and body. Whenever I see another guy who I think is attractive ( Im gay btw) I just feel sort of envious like I am not good enough.

I watched a lot of porn when i was younger so I got this notion in my mind that my penis isnt big enough. Its 6in and a quite thick.

How do I over come this and have more confidence in myself?

[Flapjack]

I have always struggled with confidence in my own looks and body. Whenever I see another guy who I think is attractive ( Im gay btw) I just feel sort of envious like I am not good enough.

I watched a lot of porn when i was younger so I got this notion in my mind that my penis isnt big enough. Its 6in and a quite thick.

How do I over come this and have more confidence in myself?
Porn does not depict normal average healthy bodies:) Many have surgeries to make them look better!!
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[Skylark]

Dude, there's nothing to worry about. Your dick is a nice size, I'd like to be that thick. You'll know you're with the right when they don't care about the minute details of how you look, especially when they first have sex with you ;)

[Just JT]

So what is it that you don't think is good enough? Is it that you think their in better shape or something? Because that's something you can work on to some degree

But your dick size?
Bro, I'm gay to FYI, and tbh, that's a nice freakin dick lol!!

Besides, it's length and girth really mean nothing irl. Seriously, in sex, it's how you use it, it's knowledge and skill lol!!
If you know your partner well enough, it won't matter cause it'll satisfy him just fine

[ska8er]

Be clean-act friendly and b urself when
u meet people also smile even if u cant
just nod ur head. If u have low self esteem
because u think ur penis is small then think
again cause u r average size. Mostly all of us
have some kind of hang up on the way we look
or feel so don't b concerned that u r alone-like I
said just be urself.

[jamie_n5]

I think you sound very well equipped to me. As far a confidence I think once you find that special guy and get into a relationship that your confidence will build along with the relationship. I am sure that you will be just fine.

[Harrier]

Its sorta hard to tell someone how to have confidence if they don't have it for themselves. Confidence is SO important though so try to work on it. As for your dick, it's fine. Amateurs should never compare themselves to pro's. Don't compare your looks to a model, your brains to a college professor, Your basketball skills to LeBron or your dick to a Porn star.

[Corvonius]

For me, a big part of confidence is thinking about how i view myself. The majority of guys you talk to are never going to see your penis, unless you use communal showers or something. So just focus on making yourself awesome in your own eyes. Oh, and FYI, i'm jealous cuz i'm only like 5 inches long. <_< To be honest i have the same problem though, so feel free to message me if you want to talk about it. Good luck!

[bruhh15]

Ok no one is perfect, putting that out there...what u see in porn is unrealistic. Everyone likes different and all kinds of people....shouldn't compare your self to everybody because everyone has flaws. If u are great in one department, be like hey I have a badass personality and style. It's okay to compliment yourself...btw 6 inches is average for everyone! Keep it you!

[Biomicro]

Have a look in the mirror and with you are naked when in the morning just naked watch yourself in the mirror do that every day morning

[Glis25]

Porn is usually trying to display both genders as perfect so nobody is expected to be like a pornstar. 6 inches is a little bit above adverage so do not be ashamed about the size of ur penis

[jerrion]

I have always struggled with confidence in my own looks and body. Whenever I see another guy who I think is attractive ( Im gay btw) I just feel sort of envious like I am not good enough.

I watched a lot of porn when i was younger so I got this notion in my mind that my penis isnt big enough. Its 6in and a quite thick.

How do I over come this and have more confidence in myself?

hey buddy just think of the bright side in life , you can still change what you dont like on yourself just be strong

[BravoZulu]

Well 6" is around the normal size, so if you're quite thick then you're definitely above average and should be happy with it.

[Slashman1]

pretty much every guy thinks that even the good looking ones and you have nothing to worry about size yours is really good size

[Ragle]

I have always struggled with confidence in my own looks and body. Whenever I see another guy who I think is attractive ( Im gay btw) I just feel sort of envious like I am not good enough.

aside you are gay, i think that's a usual thing in puberty you've to deal with.


I watched a lot of porn when i was younger so I got this notion in my mind that my penis isnt big enough.

I have also seen a lot porn. But the folks in those videos never impressed me. And as phat as my friends find porns, I got quickly enough of it.

I would say you have to learn to living with what you got.



How do I over come this and have more confidence in myself?


Actually I've no idea. I have a family, I can live quite well with - despite the usual bitching, quarrels etc. And when it comes to bad things happen or so, I know they all will always stand by me.

Probably this is the secret, if someone can trust, no matter how often life fucks him to hell.

Maybe you just have to try, seeing the positive side in negative things. Hard work, but good luck with it.

[ThomasD]

Don't worry about other peoples looks. If your confident that's all that'll matter.

[Kyle37]

I'm a bit confused about what the OP is asking. He talks about seeing other guys and worrying about his body, but mostly when it come's to OP's dick. I'm not sure in what relevant scenario OP and another guy would both have their dicks out. In public, your dick is covered anyway so you wouldn't have to worry. But if you're thinking in the locker room, your dick probably won't be fully erect anyways so nobody can compare. If you're thinking in the bedroom, then thats a whole other case.