Weird Question But..

[cariggy]

For awhile now my neighbors daughter and I have been flirting we've been friends ever since we were younger at least 10 years. She's starting to show more signs of maturing and I know she's liked me for awhile. I think she is quite good looking and really cute. She's like 4 years younger than me..would it be weird to try stuff with her?

[Flapjack]

For awhile now my neighbors daughter and I have been flirting we've been friends ever since we were younger at least 10 years. She's starting to show more signs of maturing and I know she's liked me for awhile. I think she is quite good looking and really cute. She's like 4 years younger than me..would it be weird to try stuff with her?
Depends how old you are and she is but if she's just maturing and you're 4 years older... back the hell away dude.

[Cadanance00]

Yeah, give it a pass.

[Big L]

For awhile now my neighbors daughter and I have been flirting we've been friends ever since we were younger at least 10 years. She's starting to show more signs of maturing and I know she's liked me for awhile. I think she is quite good looking and really cute. She's like 4 years younger than me..would it be weird to try stuff with her?

I think it's fine if you both are up for it.

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[Skylark]

I think it's fine as long as it's definitely both consensual. Above all, make sure her parents don't find out about it. Stress to her the importance of secrecy. There's all sorts of stigma about an older guy "molesting" a defenseless little girl.

[Just JT]

sounds like your 4 years older that her, and you've been flirting g with her since she was 10?
So if she's 13 then your like 17?
Idk maybe it's me but I think that age difference is to much
Or maybe I'm misunderstanding something

[Devinsoccer]

For awhile now my neighbors daughter and I have been flirting we've been friends ever since we were younger at least 10 years. She's starting to show more signs of maturing and I know she's liked me for awhile. I think she is quite good looking and really cute. She's like 4 years younger than me..would it be weird to try stuff with her?

I would and wouldn't think it would be weird. Her parents allowed you to be with her for ten years, they have to know something might happen. If you want to do it you have to keep it a secret, however I would wait however many years till she turns 18 if your either almost 18 or an adult.
sounds like your 4 years older that her, and you've been flirting g with her since she was 10?
So if she's 13 then your like 17?
Idk maybe it's me but I think that age difference is to much
Or maybe I'm misunderstanding something
They have been flirting with each other for 10 years just to clarify that. So I'm guessing he's an adult

[ska8er]

Before u start thinking of messing around
with her-make sure she is not too young
for u.

[ClaraWho]

I think it's fine as long as it's definitely both consensual. Above all, make sure her parents don't find out about it. Stress to her the importance of secrecy. There's all sorts of stigma about an older guy "molesting" a defenseless little girl.

NO NO NO NO NO!! :eek:

Sorry but awful idea! Imagine if it came to light that you told her to keep it just as your secret? That makes everything sound even worse... That's what people with illicit activities to hide say...

In terms of a 4 year difference, that's a huge age gap under the age of 18. As you both get older it will matter less and less, but for now it's a vast void. If it's any consolation, most 'dating' teenage relationships are doomed to fail as both parties personalities change so drastically over those few years. I'd say stay her friend, but only a friend for now.

If you can say your ages it may help the ambiguity for other posters.

~ Clara

[infantlunos]

go for it man

[Skylark]

NO NO NO NO NO!! :eek:

Sorry but awful idea! Imagine if it came to light that you told her to keep it just as your secret? That makes everything sound even worse... That's what people with illicit activities to hide say...

In terms of a 4 year difference, that's a huge age gap under the age of 18. As you both get older it will matter less and less, but for now it's a vast void. If it's any consolation, most 'dating' teenage relationships are doomed to fail as both parties personalities change so drastically over those few years. I'd say stay her friend, but only a friend for now.

If you can say your ages it may help the ambiguity for other posters.

~ Clara

Hmm.... reading it back again, it does seem kinda bad. OP please ignore!

[lliam]

just forget about it.

[cariggy]

Yeah I guess most of you are right. And to clarify no flirting for 10 years. Just our families have been really close. Idk. I guess it's just a random thought..

[Vilnius]

Assuming you're no older than 19, I don't think that's appropriate.

[Bull]

NO NO NO NO NO!! :eek:

Sorry but awful idea! Imagine if it came to light that you told her to keep it just as your secret? That makes everything sound even worse... That's what people with illicit activities to hide say...

In terms of a 4 year difference, that's a huge age gap under the age of 18. As you both get older it will matter less and less, but for now it's a vast void. If it's any consolation, most 'dating' teenage relationships are doomed to fail as both parties personalities change so drastically over those few years. I'd say stay her friend, but only a friend for now.

If you can say your ages it may help the ambiguity for other posters.

~ Clara
Clara and I do not always agree, but on this I am in total agreement with her. Pay attention. She is absolutely correct.

[everlong]

How old are you? I'd say no.

[jamie_n5]

You don't state your ages as others have said. I also agree that you should probably not do anything with her.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

NO NO NO NO NO!! :eek:

Sorry but awful idea! Imagine if it came to light that you told her to keep it just as your secret? That makes everything sound even worse... That's what people with illicit activities to hide say...

In terms of a 4 year difference, that's a huge age gap under the age of 18. As you both get older it will matter less and less, but for now it's a vast void. If it's any consolation, most 'dating' teenage relationships are doomed to fail as both parties personalities change so drastically over those few years. I'd say stay her friend, but only a friend for now.

If you can say your ages it may help the ambiguity for other posters.

~ Clara
Clara says it better than I ever could. It's good advice, so you both don't get into any trouble.

[SethfromMI]

Depends how old you are and she is but if she's just maturing and you're 4 years older... back the hell away dude.

absolutely agree. doesn't sound right at all. whatever thought you (the OP) might have, do not act upon them. when you are both adults (over 18) and you have those same feelings, that's different. as it is, if she is that much younger than you, at your ages, you could get into some serious trouble. just don't go there

[Falcons_11]

I know I wouldn't. It could lead to a lot of problems in the future especially when you get to be an adult and she's still a minor. It's cool to be just good friends and all. But to become romantic with her isn't a cool idea.

[nicole97]

idk honestly. It would help to know how old you are but if you're young enough to be here 4 years is a pretty big difference in terms of maturity and development (and also might be illegal). I don't doubt that she might be flirty with you, but it just sounds like taking advantage a little bit since it's pretty common for girls who are 12-14 or so to feel attracted to guys 4 years older.

[Jameson9]

I think it would with the age difference, but that is just my personal opinion

[Beach_Blonde]

I honestly don't think four years is that big of a gap. I mean High School freshman are usually four years younger then senior. With that being said I would try and stick to that. If she is like 14 and a freshmen and you are a senior that ins't really that bad of an idea.
Anything younger then 14 and I would not pursue it. I also wouldn't pursue it if you are out of high school. It doesn't seem worth it

But if you do decide to try and flirt back I would let her set the tone and let her make the decisions on how far she wants to go. And don't try and push your limits respect her boundaries

[Zachary G]

well it all depends on how old you both are, that would be the determining factor of it all.

[ThomasD]

Ok if your both over 16 or both under- otherwise I'd say no.

[lockness]

How old are both of you's?
I think that it would be all right if you were both at a mature like around 16-18 but any younger I wouldn't recommend it. Also it would depend on the sort of stuff you would do as well, like if she is under age no sex or anything like that.

[jxxx_z]

Just be safe and don't go there until you're both legal and she consents...