Friend staying over

[MakeACake98]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?

2. Is it ok to have a routine like this

[SethfromMI]

well, on the one hand, it can be a problem to be dependent on jacking off to go to bed, in case your in a situation you are not able to

but as far as your friend coming over you could either ask him if you feel comfortable doing so, do it somewhere else, or just not do it

[ComfortableInChaos]

I wouldn't worry about it. Just talk to him, chances are, he does it too and he might want to but not say anything to you. Or you can just go to the bathroom and beat it off in there and go to bed.

[Zachary G]

1) you can always ask him if it would bother him if you continued with your routine
2) theres always they bathroom
3) you can wait until hes asleep then give it a try
** I think a good discussion about what your night time routines are would help both of you.

[Harrier]

You can go a day without jacking off. It will even make the next session that much more intense!

[Sports Boy]

1) you can always ask him if it would bother him if you continued with your routine
2) theres always they bathroom
3) you can wait until hes asleep then give it a try
** I think a good discussion about what your night time routines are would help both of you.

I like Zach's response. These are the best options.
And your routine seems pretty harmless to me unless, as Seth said, you're not able to go to sleep without jacking. That could cause some problems as you have stay overs or even go to college.

[ethan-s]

I would just do it quietly so he don't know you are even doing it.

[Devinsoccer]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?

2. Is it ok to have a routine like this

I would just ask your friend if its okay. I'm sure he jacks off. For the other question I think its normal to have that routine.

[jamie_n5]

I am with the guys saying talk to him and ask him if he is a close enough friend and you are comfortable with talking to him. He might join you lol.

[Kyle37]

Just do it quickly in the bathroom.

[BobJefferson]

Can't you go without it?

[Leningradyets]

I wonder how could you ask him without feeling embarassed...

[Just JT]

1) you can always ask him if it would bother him if you continued with your routine
2) theres always they bathroom
3) you can wait until hes asleep then give it a try
** I think a good discussion about what your night time routines are would help both of you.

Best answer here as far as I'm concerned

You can go a day without jacking off. It will even make the next session that much more intense!

I agree, if he's a good friend, you should be able to go one night if it means making an embarrassing situation

I am with the guys saying talk to him and ask him if he is a close enough friend and you are comfortable with talking to him. He might join you lol.

If you guys are that close yeah, plus, you both could discover something you both enjoy doing together and become closer friends. That's pretty common actually....

[Canadian Dream]

You can always ask him if he's ok with you doing it, otherwise if you really to do it before going to bed maybe use the bathroom or some other place.

[bojack]

Having a routine is fine. Either ask if he's ok with it, or just dont do it that night. or use the bathroom

[Harrier]

I agree that there is nothing wrong with having a routine, but routines can always be broken ... actually if you can't break them then perhaps there is a problem. I too prefer to jack off at night and when I wake up, but I never do when I go to my friends house. Am I alone on this??? It sounds like I am, which is making me very nervous ... jk

[jerrydevo2]

Well there shouldn't be a big problem with you asking a good friend (seeing that there in your home) if there ok with you beating off in your room and heck they might want to join secondly most guy jerk off to sleep but a dependency to it can become a problem

[Big L]

Either try jacking off when they are asleep.
Or if your game ask him if he wants to join in and turn it into a game.

[Skylark]

I would just do it after he falls asleep. if he wakes up, just explain it to him and finish in the bathroom or somewhere else.

[Bull]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?

2. Is it ok to have a routine like this

So, how did the sleepover go/how did the masturbation issue get resolved? :what:

[Canadian.Teen]

Just don't jerk off for one night...or you could try to jerk off and maybe your friend will join you..:D;)

[GeneralSkrubz]

Id say, honestly, that while this routine is okay, if you feel the URGE you NEED TO EVERY NIGHT, then maybe its time to take a break. You can actually be addicted to masturbation, and that doesnt sound so fun man. Go ahead for tonight, and yeah, if he isnt THAT close, and you aren't attracted to other men, run to the bathroom. If youre into that stuff, and think he might be, go for it. I feel like Im alone, considering Im straight, a lot of these comments are saying join him lol, I dunno how Id react if a friend asked me. Not rudely of course, probably surprised.

[everlong]

Just skip it for the night. You can skip one night.

[chris01J]

Like other people said, just ask him.. "hey, do you mind if i jerk off real quick before bed? If not I can just go in the bathroom". Chances are he wants to also, and maybe is too nervous to ask about it cause its not his house. I have been in this position before, I just went ahead and asked, and my friends had no problem with it. The next time, i just went ahead and just did it, Noone minded.

[Hermes]

** I think a good discussion about what your night time routines are would help both of you.

That could be a good way to open the discussion if you don't want to jump straight in and say "Do you mind if I jack off?" If he doesn't mention jacking off before going to sleep you'd have to bring it up, though.

The only time I have someone sleep round mine in the same room is when we had previously been camping together (with others) and during the camping, at just we'd all jack off last thing before sleeping but inside our sleeping bags rather than making an exhibition of it.

[Bull]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?

2. Is it ok to have a routine like this

So, Alex, what did you decide to do? How did it work out?

[coolio120]

I think I am almost sure that your friend jacks off too.

i would personally just wait until he sleeps and do the deed... If he happens to be awake and sees me... His problem. Lol.

I've jerked off on the same bed with my friends and brothers before while they were sleeping lol

[MakeACake98]

In the end I waited until I thought he was asleep but turns out he wasn't :p. He asked me if I was masturbating and I said yeh and then after I finished we talked about it loads. I guess that turned out ok in the end.

[Just JT]

In the end I waited until I thought he was asleep but turns out he wasn't :p. He asked me if I was masturbating and I said yeh and then after I finished we talked about it loads. I guess that turned out ok in the end.

See, wasn't that big of a deal after all huh? Cause we all do it, and now you guys probably feel a lot closer, like a more solid bond, cause you guys shared about something so personal, and shows a new level of trust you have with each other.

Good job bro!!!

[Hermes]

In the end I waited until I thought he was asleep but turns out he wasn't :p. He asked me if I was masturbating and I said yeh and then after I finished we talked about it loads. I guess that turned out ok in the end.

That seems like a pretty good outcome to me.

The whole thinking he is asleep thing is great because had he been offended rather than ok about it you could always say you thought he was asleep and it would be obvious you weren't trying to make him uncomfortable.

[Innuendo]

You could just ask him if it would be a problem and if it is well there's always the bathroom

[chasechris63]

If you can't sleep without jerking off, it could be a problem. Just ask him if he's okay with it.

[joshua123]

I think you can go for it and ask him if your comfortable to. If he okay with it then go to town lol. Also its normal to masturbate everyday i do more then once even.

[Biomicro]

Ask him its ok or not with it and sure he will say ok cuz i experience it before that i masturbate in front or him and he is ok with it and also he show me his penis he sleep with me in the same bed (but not like gay or whatever)

[Glis25]

you could ask him if he was okay with it or you could try to do it while he was asleep

[HANDsum]

I masturbate every night before i go to sleep and every morning.

1. My friend is coming over to stay the night and was wondering about how i should go about this. We will be staying in the same room (but not in the same bed lol). Should I ask him if he is ok with it or wait until I think he's asleep?

2. Is it ok to have a routine like this

Wow there are so mant ways you can go about this bro. !st lets get the routine outta the way. I jerk off multi times a day too so I reckon that bits fine;) abot your mate.... ( probs by the time you read this youve had the sleep over so this is irrelevant hehe.... anyway, if it was me Id start your usual wank and if he notices see how he reacts n go from there. Thats how I did it with my mate n it worked out perfect.... gotta a cool jerk off bud outta it :D

[Jtyler]

I've been in the same situation, I just wait for the to sleep, just been caught once or twice but he doesn't mind

[BoyOBoy]

ask him

[ItsFootballnotSoccer]

If it's a friend who you're comfortable with talking to, I'm sure he'll understand. If not, do it somewhere else or after you turn off lights (if you're quiet)

[Perc.man_1]

If you want to strengthen your bond, you can ask if he would jack off too, it builds the bond between guys. It seems like a good routine, but don't depend on that in case you're on a group trip or something.

[NewLeafsFan]

I find it very strange that masturbating is such a routine with you. While I like to jack off once or twice a day I wouldn't consider it an emergency if I couldn't.

I don't suggest that you mention it to your friend unless masturbation comes up by itself in conversation because if your friend isn't comfortable with it he might think it is a strange question. If you must do it, go to the bathroom or leave the room.

[Atlantis]

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