Best friends gf

[swimjoey1]

My best friend asked if I want a bj from his gf. He knows I am a virgin and I guess he feels bad for me cause I haven't done anything. He's been with like 6 girls. His gf is pretty and I kind of want to get a bj from her. I do have insecurity with the size of my penis. I am 4.5 and my best bud is 6.5. He is much bigger than me, and she might laugh when she sees it.
What do you guys think should I just go for it. Is it weird my best bud wants to share his gf? No sure if he will be watching or we will be in his room.

[kissban]

my advice: do it!

[Cadanance00]

Nope. Better not. It doesn't sound like a good setup to me. If you all got together and it just happened I would be more comfortable with it but it sounds like he's probably coercing her to do something she wouldn't do otherwise.

As far as you having a small dick, what I'm hearing from girls is that the smaller the better for bjs and when it comes to sex you're not at that much of a disadvantage if you know what you're doing.

[Phosphene]

Best not to.
I was in a situation sorta like this a few months ago; a friend of mine asked if I'd be fwb with her boyfriend because he told her he wanted to, and I said no. It just wouldn't feel right.

[Cadanance00]

Best not to.
I was in a situation sorta like this a few months ago; a friend of mine asked if I'd be fwb with her boyfriend because he told her he wanted to, and I said no. It just wouldn't feel right.

^^ right. I think it totally depends on the situation. If the both of them want to do something for you to help your self confidence, that would be one thing, and I wouldn't have a problem with it but it kinda sounds like he's just lending her out which is exploitation.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

My best friend asked if I want a bj from his gf. He knows I am a virgin and I guess he feels bad for me cause I haven't done anything. He's been with like 6 girls. His gf is pretty and I kind of want to get a bj from her. I do have insecurity with the size of my penis. I am 4.5 and my best bud is 6.5. He is much bigger than me, and she might laugh when she sees it.
What do you guys think should I just go for it. Is it weird my best bud wants to share his gf? No sure if he will be watching or we will be in his room.

There is nothing wrong with Ur size. If U do go for it, unless U really want him there, he should be out of the way. If she laughs, it's her issue

[saxmatic16]

I agree with everybody else. If she didn't come to you herself and ask you while he was there I'd be looking for red flags. But on the other hand ask him his motives for why he would let his gf do that. It's rare that a friend would be that generous, but sometimes they are and it could be a good experience for you. My final thought would be to play it by ear. You can always back out at any moment nobody is forcing you to do anything you don't want. Go for it and see. If it gets weird then leave!

[PaleBoy]

You should talk to them both.

[playfull-qt]

First of all your penis size is just fine !!

I'm sure you really want a bj but you should wait till you meet a girl that wants to give you one without a 3rd party asking her to do it.

[SethfromMI]

although he might be offering and with what he believes are good intentions, I could see this going badly in so many ways. don't do it

[Just JT]

Nothing wrong with your size at all, trust me....
As far as your best friend offering his girl to blow you....how is it he's offering the sexual services of someone else? Doesn't seem right to me this way
But if this is a legit deal, and she wants to, with out him talking her into it, then maybe go for it. But I'd be most concerned about if she's being pressured at all. it might also be that your best might have a little bi side?

[ClaraWho]

This sounds repulsive :/. And what is up with the 'his girlfriend', as if he has ownership over her as property to 'lend out'. You hear all sorts of coercion horror stories, and even if not, are you really that pathetically desperate? Imagine explaining to a future partner you care about, that your first time was pity sex with a best friend's partner in an open relationship. Does nobody have any self-respect, decency or standards anymore?!

No. Just No.

~ Clara

[Just JT]

This sounds repulsive :/. And what is up with the 'his girlfriend', as if he has ownership over her as property to 'lend out'. You hear all sorts of coercion horror stories, and even if not, are you really that pathetically desperate? Imagine explaining to a future partner you care about, that your first time was pity sex with a best friend's partner in an open relationship. Does nobody have any self-respect, decency or standards anymore?!

No. Just No.

~ Clara

I agree....to a point. I think it's wrong in a sense that he offered his girl like that, yeah, but, some people have an open relationship like that and they might of already talked about it and she might be ok with it.
If not, and she's not ok with it, then yeah.....wrong

[jamie_n5]

Yeah I think it is a bit odd. Maybe your friend is trying to be nice but I would opt out of his offer and wait until you can find your own experience with someone else.

[Skylark]

I wouldn't really go through with it. It sounds like he's only doing it out of pity and like she doesn't really want to do it.

[sweettayla]

First of all your penis size is just fine !!

I'm sure you really want a bj but you should wait till you meet a girl that wants to give you one without a 3rd party asking her to do it.
This. Doing something with someone's girlfriend is unlikely to end well no matter whether she's willing and he approves or otherwise. Has she actually spoken to you about whether she wants to do it or not?

[Just JT]

This. Doing something with someone's girlfriend is unlikely to end well no matter whether she's willing and he approves or otherwise. Has she actually spoken to you about whether she wants to do it or not?

Exactly!!!
She should at least be a part of this conversation IF this is going to actually happen.
But I agree, I'd probably wait I think, make it something more than something arranged by someone else. Does sound kinda cheap, like a pimp and a pro or something more I think about it

[Uranus]

Free head? Go for it! Why turn down some action?

[Ranpo]

Have a little more self respect, you'll thank yourself later for not doing this.

[everlong]

I'd say no. That situation's way too weird to me.

[kyrocks03]

Have a little more self respect, you'll thank yourself later for not doing this.

This and if you are a true friend to him you won't do this. It will lead to nothing but bad jealousy, resentment, and drama.

[Cadanance00]

This and if you are a true friend to him you won't do this. It will lead to nothing but bad jealousy, resentment, and drama.

Good point. Waay too much potential for drama & bad shit there.

[swimjoey1]

My best friend asked if I want a bj from his gf. He knows I am a virgin and I guess he feels bad for me cause I haven't done anything. He's been with like 6 girls. His gf is pretty and I kind of want to get a bj from her. I do have insecurity with the size of my penis. I am 4.5 and my best bud is 6.5. He is much bigger than me, and she might laugh when she sees it.
What do you guys think should I just go for it. Is it weird my best bud wants to share his gf? No sure if he will be watching or we will be in his room.

So i didn't take most of your advice and my horniniess got the best of me. I got the bj from my best bud's gf a few days ago. I didn't last too long and I it happen i left. I will be seeing her in a few days at the pool. Now I am nervous on what to say when I see her. The BJ was awesome despite I came like super fast. Hopefully I don't pop a boner when I see her at the pool. My best bud acts if everything was kool. She I just try to ignore her when I see her?

[Student of Magic]

I don't think you should try to ignore her at all after what she did to you. I mean, wasn't that bj what you longed for?

I guess it would be a bit (or more than a bit) awkward to meet her now, but... What do you think about not minding what happened? Do you think that she will bring up this subject many times? I don't know her, but I reckon she probably won't. And, anyway, if she does, I suggest that you stay calm and be open about it. Take it easy and stay positive :)

Perhaps it would be a good idea to ask her some day if what happened was her wish as well or not.

[Harrier]

Now that it's done it is best to be open about it. Ask him if she said anything about it and if you really didn't talk to her afterwards, just apologize for not saying anything afterwards, that you felt weird and nervous, but say she was really good. Why didn't you talk to her after wards? Didn't you talk before? You took a sorta awkward thing and made it more awkward by not talking lol ... but you can move past it if you talk now.

[volleyballer13]

If you need one that bad then go for it but wouldnt it feel better to have a girl just want to do it on her own? if its a threesome then that might be cool and if thats what you want go for it!

[Just JT]

Just my feeling here and don't take offense ok? If your having a hard time facing her and talking to her, feeling all awkward about it, then I do t think you were ready, and mature enough to handle sex

Sex is a big deal, and it's something people do with and for people, it's personal, and to ignore her or not talk to her after.....
Idk, just sayin....

If I were you, when you see her, I'd greet her like a good friend, look her in the eye, address her by her name, give her a hug, say something like hey it was nice seeing you the other day, so what's new?

If your worried about boning up, jerk off before you go, man up, deal with it, she did....

[sweettayla]

So i didn't take most of your advice and my horniniess got the best of me. I got the bj from my best bud's gf a few days ago. I didn't last too long and I it happen i left. I will be seeing her in a few days at the pool. Now I am nervous on what to say when I see her. The BJ was awesome despite I came like super fast. Hopefully I don't pop a boner when I see her at the pool. My best bud acts if everything was kool. She I just try to ignore her when I see her?

lf you've done it and everything seems cool you might as well ask if she's up for doing it again.

[Living For Love]

This is a bit inappropriate and has apparently been resolved, so I'm locking it. :locked: