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synergy
February 16th, 2014, 11:36 PM
Last night me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time. We are both 17 and we were both virgins. We made sure we had lots of foreplay before we started so everything went smooth. It was very painful for her at first we even stopped twice but then decided to go through with it since we had already started. At first I had problems trying to break her hymen because my erection for some reason wasn't that strong so i think that was part of the problem but then finally it went in. but when i tried to go all the way in she felt pain and i felt like i was hitting something but i'm sure the hymen was broken by then. After a while she got comfortable and enjoyed it but me myself couldn't even finish and my erection still wasn't that strong. Now she is telling me that her vagina feels like i am still inside of her, is this normal? does this mean her hymen didn't fully break or is it just her vagina getting used to the feeling and stretching out.
Elysium
February 16th, 2014, 11:39 PM
For Christ sake, the hymen does not break. It doesn't work that way. Period. End of story. It's a membrane that gets stretched out, so yes, I'd hazard a guess and say that it's probably normal for her to feel that way since her vagina just experienced penetration for the first time.
ImAurora
February 16th, 2014, 11:44 PM
What Elysium said.
airjordan97
February 16th, 2014, 11:51 PM
You are one lucky young man! I have not had sex yet and im not a girl so I can't really weigh in on this much but all I got to say is hopefully you didn't finish (cum) inside her and if you did; hopefully she was on the pill; or you used a condom.
Karkat
February 25th, 2014, 04:39 PM
Depending on how long you are, you could've possibly hit the cervix, but it's doubtful that she'd even feel that, so who knows.
I think that's just a thing that happens with first-time penetration for girls. Seems pretty normal to feel a little sore down there for a day or two after.
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