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SpicyCurryyy
July 1st, 2016, 04:02 PM
hey guys so I recently got a girl's number (about 1 month ago) and I want to text her again. I want to text her because I left the friendzone back when I got her number because she hugs me a lot and stuff but I never really entered the bf/gf stage because we haven't gone on a date or anything. Now i am kind of in the middle somewhere because school is out and I don't see her anymore but I don't want whatever I "started" to go stale. I want to text her but I don't want to be lame and say "hey what"s up?" because she has never texted me first. I aLways start the conversation. I want something that might get her interested do you guys have any suggestions for a creative first text conversation starter? And given my situation, is there any way I shoukd steer the conversation towards once it has begun? Like is there something you would recommend me to start bringing up??

Devinsoccer
July 1st, 2016, 04:21 PM
You can say Hey, [topic here]. That is what I normaly do. You can say Hi [random question]. If you have something in common, you can talk about that. I think you should say who you are if you haven't texted eachother in a long time. Just be yourself!

zzzzzzzzzz
July 1st, 2016, 05:16 PM
Do U live near her, could you meet up? Try somethink like Hi, how R U? I enjoyed our time when we were together. Fancy meeting up?

SpicyCurryyy
July 4th, 2016, 02:13 PM
thanks for the replies guys I went with the standard "Hey how's your summer going?" she hasn't responded but I think she could be at camp where they don't allow phone usage. idk I guess thats the most appropriate

henners
July 20th, 2016, 01:48 PM
Good luck mate

DoodleSnap
July 21st, 2016, 07:29 AM
That's a good place to start. Don't get too nervous and intimated - make a friend before anything else. That's the basis of a good romantic relationship. Be yourself, and be honest.

Darkslidex7
July 22nd, 2016, 01:50 AM
And also, just relax, don't stress yourself out. The conversation should be spontaneous, but keep in mind to not make the conversation boring, she has to enjoy talking to you.

Oh yeah and... Good Luck!

Cadanance00
July 22nd, 2016, 06:29 PM
Dnt B afrd 2 txt hr

jamie_n5
July 22nd, 2016, 07:00 PM
I would begin with something like Hey how are you doing? I miss seeing you around. Then go into something like, I would like to get together and go out to lunch or a movie or just go for a walk and talk or something. I think you will get the hang of it. No need to be shy.