Can you have your gf/bf spend the night?

[Cadanance00]

Or are you able to spend the night at his/her place?

A friend of my mom's lets her daughter have her bf spend the night with her once a week. She says that way she knows she's not someplace dangerous, knows who she's having sex with, more likely they use protection, etc. etc.

My mom says I can have my girlfriend spend the night if it's okay with her 'rents when I'm 16 - or "we'll talk about it." (only problem is I don't have a gf now).

Are you able to have your SO in your room with your parent's knowledge?

[StoppingTom]

She's allowed in my room, but my room separates the rest of the house from the laundry room, so my mom will come in about 15 times to "check on the laundry".

I can't imagine my parents (or hers) ever giving me permission to have her stay the night.

[Melodic]

I wouldn't even feel comfortable asking my dad something like that. Even 10 years from now.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

I wish I had a G/F :-(

[Sublime Demonz]

My parents let my girlfriend spend the night frequently, the same goes for her parents as well.

[Devinsoccer]

Or are you able to spend the night at his/her place?

A friend of my mom's lets her daughter have her bf spend the night with her once a week. She says that way she knows she's not someplace dangerous, knows who she's having sex with, more likely they use protection, etc. etc.

My mom says I can have my girlfriend spend the night if it's okay with her 'rents when I'm 16 - or "we'll talk about it." (only problem is I don't have a gf now).

Are you able to have your SO in your room with your parent's knowledge?

Well, saying that I don't have a GF, I don't know. I'm not allowed to have a sleepover with a girl so I take it I can't do that with a GF.

[ClaraWho]

Parents enabling, and therefore encouraging their children to have sex... The whole 'they'd just do it somewhere else' is equivalent to saying 'I don't know how to parent'. It's assuming your children are screw ups and making compromises. It's incredibly insulting.

Also that gives far too much involvement of parents into their child's sex life... Some things are best kept private... There is such a thing as over sharing... I mean what must be going on in their heads seeing both the next morning, I couldn't do it ._.

~ Clara

[Barbara.]

If i had a bf my parents probably would on two conditions.
1. That we slept in different rooms.
2. If the doors had locks and they are the only ones that had the key.

[Cadanance00]

Parents enabling, and therefore encouraging their children to have sex... The whole 'they'd just do it somewhere else' is equivalent to saying 'I don't know how to parent'. It's assuming your children are screw ups and making compromises. It's incredibly insulting.

Also that gives far too much involvement of parents into their child's sex life... Some things are best kept private... There is such a thing as over sharing... I mean what must be going on in their heads seeing both the next morning, I couldn't do it ._.

~ Clara


"Methinks the Lady doth protest too much."

[Dalcourt]

I can bring over someone for spending the night and it is never questioned by my Dad what we do in my bedroom.
There's no official you can bring someone over for sex but as I'm pretty sure he knows what happens and he doesn't object it it's okay for him.

[jamie_n5]

Yeah my boyfriend and I stay at each others a lot now in summer especially.

[ClaraWho]

"Methinks the Lady doth protest too much."

If only your quotes made actual sense, hmm.

~ Clara

[Typhlosion]

Yes, I can, but I'm also 19, a bit off the target demographic...

As for sex, I'm not allowed to have it at my parent's, but it has happened anyways.

[Vilnius]

I'm not exactly in a relationship at the moment, but if I were, it probably would not be allowed.

[mattsmith48]

My mom doesnt care as long were using protection and my gf isnt living with her parents

[Michelle98]

The reality is if two people want to have sex, they are going to find a way to do it even if they are not allowed to sleep at each others house. At least at home it is in a safe environment.

[City Kid]

Neither my parents nor my boyfriend's mum have ever had a problem with us spending the night together. I know that my father really dislikes the fact that I have a boyfriend at all but even he allows it. I'm 16 and my boyfriend's 19, by the way.

[Sports Boy]

I stay at my gf's house and she stays at mine but in separate bedrooms. It's a little silly because we'll have sex in the basement then go up and go to sleep in different beds.

[Phosphene]

If I had a boyfriend no, he wouldn't be allowed to

[Claire Asteroid]

I stayed over at my ex boyfriends house a couple of nights but we never had sex.

[Bull]

Not a problem for me, have done it several times. Again, I think ages of involved parties makes a difference/we are both 19. Might have been (likely) a problem if either was under 18.

[lliam]

Or are you able to spend the night at his/her place

both is possible, both happened

[DarkHorse4eva]

Seeing as I'm in a long distance relationship, we don't spend much time together in person, but we've visited each other 5 times so far, and live together side by side that way in periods from 5 days to 2-3 weeks, neither parents interrupt or mind it

[DoodleSnap]

I am allowed to have people I am involved with romantically stay over, but I'm not sure about sex - I guess that it would be more of a 'Don't ask, don't tell' situation than anything officially discussed.

[bandofbros20]

Lol I'm not sure if I'm in a relationship or if we would do it ever. But my parents are divorced so my dad's would probably be fine except I wouldn't really want to take her there. It's shitty and we aren't on great terms. And my mom's is absolutely no way

[Just JT]

Mine can sleep over, but in a seperate room, and I'm allowed to sleep over ther, but his parents don't care. And my rents know that, so I say I'm staying somewhere else when I sleep over.
It's not like they don't know, they just don't want to openly condone it.
I mean, we've gone camping together so.... Yeah....

[german_boy]

It has never been a problem. My mom told me to protect before a gf spent the night at my house for the first time.

[rokyrok1]

If they know she is my GF no, but if they think she is just a normal friend can

[pjones]

yes because he's also my best friend and my parents love him

[volleyballer13]

my parents have allowed my gf at the time to sleep over in my room in the same bed. we arent together anymore but it was nice!