Good idea or Bad idea?

[Croconaw]

So, my dad met this girl at a car dealership on May 27th. She seemed to be flirty with him pretty much the entire time and they talked the whole time. She said "I'll remember you, come see me at work! I work at _______" in a flirty voice. She didn't say what her name was. We tried to go see her three times in the morning, each day being a different day, but she ended up not being there. We are trying again in the afternoon today. I really like her as a person and she seems really cool to be friends with. I ended up finding her Facebook page because we have her name, but if she isn't there today, my dad wants to send her a friend request and tell her what happened. This girl said she was thirsty to him, but he didn't have money with him to buy her a drink. A little while later, she said she was hungry. My dad thought she wanted to go out to eat or something. We got her name from her coworkers. It would basically say something along the lines of:

"We met at the car dealership. I tried to visit you four times at work but you weren't there. I searched every possible spelling of your name to find you. I hope you remember me."

I'm not sure if that's what it will say, but my dad really wants to meet up with her again. I also think we have a lot in common, so I could do things with her like go to hockey games and stuff.

Would you think it was weird if you got a message like that after what happened? The thing is, it has been a month and he does not know if she would remember him. Is it a good or bad idea to send her a message?

[Tesserax]

I'd go for it. Nothing to lose really (just be careful with your cash and don't let her trick you into anything). She probably just meant "I work here" as in she did, but probably just not every day and forgot to tell, just a miscommunication. Just see how it goes, and eventually it might go well :)

[Anonymous2002]

So, my dad met this girl at a car dealership on May 27th. She seemed to be flirty with him pretty much the entire time and they talked the whole time. She said "I'll remember you, come see me at work! I work at _______" in a flirty voice. She didn't say what her name was. We tried to go see her three times in the morning, each day being a different day, but she ended up not being there. We are trying again in the afternoon today. I really like her as a person and she seems really cool to be friends with. I ended up finding her Facebook page because we have her name, but if she isn't there today, my dad wants to send her a friend request and tell her what happened. This girl said she was thirsty to him, but he didn't have money with him to buy her a drink. A little while later, she said she was hungry. My dad thought she wanted to go out to eat or something. We got her name from her coworkers. It would basically say something along the lines of:

"We met at the car dealership. I tried to visit you four times at work but you weren't there. I searched every possible spelling of your name to find you. I hope you remember me."

I'm not sure if that's what it will say, but my dad really wants to meet up with her again. I also think we have a lot in common, so I could do things with her like go to hockey games and stuff.

Would you think it was weird if you got a message like that after what happened? The thing is, it has been a month and he does not know if she would remember him. Is it a good or bad idea to send her a message?

If she works there I would be really careful, it's there job to sell cars, and if it's flirty to do this then they will. It's horrible but true

Otherwise she might just be busy, I know some girls who have gone out of their way setting up dates just to never go. But as she is older it may be different. If she blocks you however then she may have change in plans but don't give up

[Croconaw]

She doesn't work at a car dealership. She works at a restaurant. We MET her at a car dealership.

[Uranus]

I'd say go for it. Although it does seem a little strange in a way, but it wouldn't hurt to try

[Dalcourt]

Yeah I'd say just go for it...what should happen? there's nothing much to lose.

[Melodic]

He should go for it. If he doesn't, he'll just keep thinking of what would happen instead of what did happen.

[Croconaw]

So, he messaged her on Facebook around seven hours ago. She hasn't replied, even though she they both have messenger (or whatever it's called, I don't have it). Anyway, hopefully she replies and doesn't think it's too weird.