View Full Version : Did i ruin the first date ?
helpme.
June 23rd, 2016, 04:54 PM
I went out with a friend I haven't seen in 6-7 years ( she wasn't living in my country and we both forgot about each other so we didn't talk at all) and she also had a friend from the US so I had to speak in English because of that friend. I know how to write in English, I understand English but my accent is not so good and I am kinda shy so I was very very quiet and i almost didn't say nothing for the whole date. ( I said Hi and i answered some of her questions tho but she still had to talk the whole time). But it's important to say that I think she likes me. On a scale from 1-10 how bad did I fuck up and do I have any chance to make it right? (0- very very bad)
dPain
June 23rd, 2016, 10:29 PM
You did not fuck up, I have an accent and girls love it!
Tesserax
June 24th, 2016, 09:11 AM
7/10. It's fine, you didn't talk much which isn't the best thing, but you listened which makes up for it.
Try to converse more, express yourself and talk about your shared interests. You're currently suffering from shyness and nervousness, nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, some girls kind of like it, because it shows interest and investment.
Good luck, hope everything goes well :)
ashdyn
June 24th, 2016, 12:05 PM
It's fine. I think bringing her American friend she pretty much understood there would be at least a little language barrier
kevenity
June 24th, 2016, 09:47 PM
I highly doubt you ruined anything. you just need to open up more and try to even out the talking balance. the only way you'll ruin it is if you continue being quiet after a few more dates. If you think she likes you, then you must be doing a pretty good job so far :) but just try and conversate more.
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