Please help!

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[Flapjack]

So I've been going out with this boy for over two years and recently we've had problems. Last fortnight we both went to party of his friends at which there was underage drinking, drugs, sex, etc. I don't drink and I knew he drank but I didn't know it was like this. He says that he doesn't want for him and his friends to drink and yet he still does.

I don't know what to do. I don't want to spilt him up from his friends and yet this is clearly not a good environment to be in, which apparently he doesn't want to be in.

Any help appreciated.
Just be honest with him buddy! If he understands it upsets you he may stop but at the end of the day you can't change who people are and if he is a party animal, you can't change that:)

[Anonymous2002]

So I've been going out with this boy for over two years and recently we've had problems. Last fortnight we both went to party of his friends at which there was underage drinking, drugs, sex, etc. I don't drink and I knew he drank but I didn't know it was like this. He says that he doesn't want for him and his friends to drink and yet he still does.

I don't know what to do. I don't want to spilt him up from his friends and yet this is clearly not a good environment to be in, which apparently he doesn't want to be in.

Any help appreciated.

I would suggest sitting him down and having a serious conversation with him, but don't go to his friends because they may talk to him and this can cause fights, he may think you don't trust him or some shit, But don't get into all the drugs, smoking, drinking. If you have to, tell him its either you or the drugs, If he truly loves you he will say you within a split second, Keep in mind he may not get of it instantly, it is an addicting and is hard to quit. If it gets too out of hand, then maybe talk to his parents if they care.
Hope this helps