Gay relationship questions

[Alex342]

Yesterday at work, I had this gay guy come through my lane at the register. I want to get to know him better but i don't know how to approach it. I didn't say anything because I had a few other people in my line, and I wasnt sure if he was into me. He works at the business right next to the one I'm at.

Should I go over one day after I get off work and "act " like I'm shopping and try to strike up a conversation or if anyone else has an idea that would be great.

FYI, I've been in a relationship with a guy before and it ended badly, and I don't want to mess anything up if we have a chance.

[Bull]

Just ask him if he would like to get a drink, ice cream, after work. Nothing creepy about that and opens a door to see if he comes through.

[SpicyCurryyy]

Just ask him if he would like to get a drink, ice cream, after work. Nothing creepy about that and opens a door to see if he comes through.
yeah I think that's a good idea. Something casual like that can't cause any harm.

[Alex342]

Awhile back,one of my friends who I'm particularly open with, said that if I'm interested, that I could write down my number, give it to him, and say something like " hey, if you want to get coffee or just hang out, txt or call me" . Would that be an option or would you not recommend I do that.

[Bull]

Personally, I would not give my number until after I knew there was interest. Just me.

[Zachary G]

Just ask him if he would like to get a drink, ice cream, after work. Nothing creepy about that and opens a door to see if he comes through.

excellent idea. Its the most casual way to break the ice and open dialogue between the two of you. Dont go in with any expectations, just go in with an open mind this way you dont get your feelings hurt if he turns you down or something like that. Good luck.

[Emerald Dream]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

This is probably better suited here. :)

[Alex342]

excellent idea. Its the most casual way to break the ice and open dialogue between the two of you. Dont go in with any expectations, just go in with an open mind this way you dont get your feelings hurt if he turns you down or something like that. Good luck.

I know this sounds stupid, but I have always had a hard time introducing myself to someone I like. How would I introduce myself without possibly scaring him away if he is interested in me.

[zaccary]

go for it yolo man

[SethfromMI]

Just ask him if he would like to get a drink, ice cream, after work. Nothing creepy about that and opens a door to see if he comes through.

best and easiest way of doing it

[Just JT]

Just ask him if he would like to get a drink, ice cream, after work. Nothing creepy about that and opens a door to see if he comes through.

I'm in agreement here, seems like the best option. And really no risk involved either. Wouldn't offer my number that easy either

I know this sounds stupid, but I have always had a hard time introducing myself to someone I like. How would I introduce myself without possibly scaring him away if he is interested in me.

I wouldn't make that a big enough deal really. If you work at a store, and so does he, you probably my both have a name badge on or something. So your kinda already past that. And no need to stress over it.

Just do a quick and easy invite like said above like "hey you wana grab a coffee or something" and see what he says

[Zachary G]

I know this sounds stupid, but I have always had a hard time introducing myself to someone I like. How would I introduce myself without possibly scaring him away if he is interested in me.

do like you said and goto his store and pretend youre looking around or actually buy something and when you get to him say something like, "I see you come into my store a lot, I didnt know you worked here. Thats cool, my name is ____, maybe Ill see you around again." If hes not wearing a name tag, ask him his name if he doesnt offer it and then just carry on.