Matryoshkasystem
June 19th, 2016, 02:32 AM
My parents literally refuse to accept I can define myself.Basically it seems like, if they aren't the ones assigning it to me, its not correct. I know parents are sorta supposed to be annoying, but I feel like if I don't hide something from them, I can't do it. My mom has flat out said to my face, all conflict would end if I would just follow her every word basically. The only way they'll accept it, is if they are forced to, and even then it has to be someone they fear will get me away from them. I want to do family counseling, since I hope that it will help end their identity policing-and it affects how I dress, interact with, etc-, and give me and my sis a voice, my mom again said, that me and her have no say. I feel like my parents, have forgttoen I'm a teen, they litter ally told me to shut up, keep quiet, and keep to myself online, about everything. No, I litter ally was told to my face I'm not allowed to talk about my family life, and that it was never supposed too be leaked out. My mom also is stuck in the past to the point, and severely, she's very progressive with my sis, but into with me, gentleman, no emotions, etc, she just feels like a weird mix between past,present,and future all in one, and they always clash, and its always because of me. I feel something is way off in this house, but not sure what-other than power-.