Sexuality

[AnsaarD]

Hi.

I'm new and I wanted to ask everybody that has ever questioned their sexuality a question. This is especially for the boys. Have you ever felt physically attracted to men, but emotionally attracted to women.

Because right now, I've told my female friend that I'm gay. But when she tells me about her boyfriends . I feel jealous. Because I want her. She is beautiful.

But I don't understand. Because I still am attracted to men. But I want her. I want to take care of her. And love her.

I don't know. Any help will appreciated.

Thanks in Advance

[AlexOnToast]

Hello fellow South African :)
What you are feeling is normal. While there doesnt need to be a label for it, the closest ones I can think of are Bisexual and Homosexual-Heteroromantic.
It's just how you are and you should embrace those feelings if they are your true feelings. You are not alone and there is nothing wrong with you :)

[JamesSC]

That is exactly how I am.

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[MortimerB]

Seems like some hormones not having quite decided yet. As far as I can tell you sound relatively bisexual but since you are now in a situation, where you can't quite figure out your main attraction, I would just let time pass on and see where you end up. It worked for me anyhow. And just Alex said, it's perfectly normal to be in doubt and also perfectly normal to be bi- or homosexual. I hope the worries of this don't trouble you too much. Best of luck.

[Philleeep]

Seems like some hormones not having quite decided yet. As far as I can tell you sound relatively bisexual but since you are now in a situation, where you can't quite figure out your main attraction, I would just let time pass on and see where you end up. It worked for me anyhow. And just Alex said, it's perfectly normal to be in doubt and also perfectly normal to be bi- or homosexual. I hope the worries of this don't trouble you too much. Best of luck.

I agree with this

[AbyssalLight7]

I totally get that and I hate it in myself, I honestly don't know if I'm Bisexual or Gay but I know I'm Bi-romantic so I just say bi, I don't say I'm bisexual, just bi. I know I like girls emotionally but I feel all morally screwed-up like, is it right to try to date a girl I don't know if I could ever like like -that-, I totally understand this.

[DarkHorse4eva]

i have felt it a bit once, but it was just a crush