does this make me gay or bi?

[sdavid54321]

sometimes when i jerk off i think about other guys like my friends naked does that make me gay? i like girls too tho maybe i am bi?

[Flapjack]

sometimes when i jerk off i think about other guys like my friends naked does that make me gay? i like girls too tho maybe i am bi?
you sound bi buddy

[lemondrop]

You're 13 so it shouldn't worry you and i don't think that you're gay or bi, just curious,don't rush,everything will come

[Abhorrence]

Fuck labels man. I know it's great to be able to come under one but at your age you really don't need to worry about labelling it. Seriously, thinking into labels fucks you up. Just leave it as "wow I like to jerk off about guys naked" for now and see in the future what ya wanna call yourself.

[pconnor2001]

I wouldn't worry about a label at age 13. There is nothing wrong with being curious.

[ska8er]

Ur curious-a lot of emotions r going
thru ur head now with starting puberty
so when u jack u could be thinking about
anything at the moment.

[Just JT]

Like everyone said, besides, it's pretty normal, even if your straight really. It's sexual, and people just get turned on by stuff sometimes and don't know why. So just roll with it and have fun and don't stress over it

[FlyOnTheWall]

your just a young teenager your in the stage of questioning your probably just exploring your sexuality, seeing what fits and what doesnt, I would say its too early on to say if your bi or not

[Dalcourt]

yes as the others said don't stress yourself over labels that might or might not be ... you still need time to explore yourself.

[pjones]

sometimes when i jerk off i think about other guys like my friends naked does that make me gay? i like girls too tho maybe i am bi?

you're 13 and going through puberty. just enjoy yourself, you have plenty of time to figure it out. thinking about your friends naked when you're masturbating is pretty normal, even doing it together is.

[SethfromMI]

Fuck labels man. I know it's great to be able to come under one but at your age you really don't need to worry about labelling it. Seriously, thinking into labels fucks you up. Just leave it as "wow I like to jerk off about guys naked" for now and see in the future what ya wanna call yourself.

wise words. no reason for a label. if you like both guys and girls right now you like guys and girls

[kyrocks03]

sometimes when i jerk off i think about other guys like my friends naked does that make me gay? i like girls too tho maybe i am bi?

I started out like this when I first started to jerk it, but for me it was a lot different because before I even did that, I always thought about boys and never really girls. It's hard to say what you are and only you will really ever know for sure and it may take some time. Some boys know for sure whether they are gay, bi, straight from an early age and some boys take a while to figure it out, and don't even know for sure until they are adults.

[GCcavie]

sometimes when i jerk off i think about other guys like my friends naked does that make me gay? i like girls too tho maybe i am bi?

I do the same. I don't think it makes us gay....but maybe? I don't know. Do you think that's a bad thing?

[pjones]

I do the same. I don't think it makes us gay....but maybe? I don't know. Do you think that's a bad thing?

nothing bad about it at all, perfectly natural. when i was 13/14 i was fascinated by boys bodies and how my friends were developing.

at your age hormones kind of take over and anything can get you excited. wait awhile until your body settles down before you worry about your sexuality, and if thinking of your friends when you jerk off gives you pleasure, go for it. no harm in that and perfectly normal.

[jamie_n5]

You are only 13 so you are in the very curious and highly experimental stage of puberty you very normal and will discover your true sexuality soon.

[DoodleSnap]

I'd urge you not to worry about labels like straight, bisexual, or gay for the time being. They just put people into boxes and attach certain connotations which aren't always true.

Instead, just keep an open mind, and let yourself be yourself for the time being. You'll work out what and who you like over time as you gain more experience. Just enjoy what you enjoy, and get to know yourself and your attractions with an open mind.

Good luck.