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[Zbmrnb16]

So there's this girl, and I'm head over heels in love with her. We've been together for around 8 months now, but there's still someone else in the back of my head. You see, I was in a non-romantic sexual relationship with someone else before all of this happened. We agreed to stop once I got with girl A, but even after 8 months, I can't help but think about sex with girl B nearly everyday. I don't regret ending our little fuckbuddy relationship, but I also don't want it to haunt my fantasies for any longer. Should I talk to both of them about it, or is it time to find a way to move on?

[Flapjack]

So there's this girl, and I'm head over heels in love with her. We've been together for around 8 months now, but there's still someone else in the back of my head. You see, I was in a non-romantic sexual relationship with someone else before all of this happened. We agreed to stop once I got with girl A, but even after 8 months, I can't help but think about sex with girl B nearly everyday. I don't regret ending our little fuckbuddy relationship, but I also don't want it to haunt my fantasies for any longer. Should I talk to both of them about it, or is it time to find a way to move on?
If you're only interested in sex with her then go for the girl you have real feelings for. Do not be a dick and talk to your gf about it!

[Zbmrnb16]

If you're only interested in sex with her then go for the girl you have real feelings for. Do not be a dick and talk to your gf about it!

Trust me, that's what I want to do, but I still can't get this person out of my thoughts.

[Flapjack]

Trust me, that's what I want to do, but I still can't get this person out of my thoughts.
You're just going to have to bury them thoughts buddy although it might be a sign you don't really love your gf?

[Abhorrence]

Not gonna lie, the best bet is not to talk to either of them about it. If you speak to your current girlfriend she will be hurt by it and it could damage your relationship. If you talk to your ex-fuckbuddy then that could initiate even more lost feelings and end up with you cheating on your current girlfriend. Honestly, if these feelings are so overwhelming then you should just end your relationship. Unless you are fully committed to it, then there really is no point. I know I'd absolutely hate if my boyfriend was thinking about other guys whilst he was with me. Seriously, unless you can bury these feelings I'd discontinue it.

[Zbmrnb16]

Not gonna lie, the best bet is not to talk to either of them about it. If you speak to your current girlfriend she will be hurt by it and it could damage your relationship. If you talk to your ex-fuckbuddy then that could initiate even more lost feelings and end up with you cheating on your current girlfriend. Honestly, if these feelings are so overwhelming then you should just end your relationship. Unless you are fully committed to it, then there really is no point. I know I'd absolutely hate if my boyfriend was thinking about other guys whilst he was with me. Seriously, unless you can bury these feelings I'd discontinue it.

I couldn't thank you enough for the advice. I truly do love my girlfriend more than I've ever loved a girl before, and I don't want that to end. I've already cut off contact with girl B, and I feel like I might finally be ready to leave her behind. If these thoughts continue, I might have to end things, but for now, I'm gonna try to forget about any of this, and focus solely on the girl that I love.