Boys would you date an asexual?

[FlyOnTheWall]

teen boys would you date an asexual girl?

That means not interested in sex/no sex
but everything else is ok?

[Cadanance00]

I'd have to wonder why she was asexual.

[FlyOnTheWall]

I'd have to wonder why she was asexual.

Just never had a desire for sex/find it repulsive

[Cadanance00]

Just never had a desire for sex/find it repulsive

See. That's what I would have to wonder about what turned you against sex.

[Harrier]

Maybe if everything else is good. But tbh I doubt it would last long.

So no oral or kissing or holding hands or anything? Or just no penetration? I can't imagine a person wouldn't want to be affectionate with their bf/gf ... if you're not affectionate, then aren't you just friends then???

[FlyOnTheWall]

Maybe if everything else is good. But tbh I doubt it would last long.

So no oral or kissing or holding hands or anything? Or just no penetration? I can't imagine a person wouldn't want to be affectionate with their bf/gf ... if you're not affectionate, then aren't you just friends then???

just no penetration

[Harrier]

just no penetration

If everything else was ok but penetration than ya maybe since oral can go a long way imo. I think waiting in general is good for a relationship anyway. My current gf and I waited like over 5 months. But could I imagine not having sex with her now ... that would be hard. And if an asexual girl dated a boy who liked sex I bet he would be thinking in the back of hios mind that he could talk her into eventually having and liking sex.

[Canadian Dream]

Well if it's just not penetration then yes I think a relationship could go pretty far with me. To me the sex aspect of it is only a small part, and the romantic/emotional part is much more important, so I think I would be able to handle my sexual urges.

[ska8er]

Depends on what is "something else"?

[NZPerson]

Yes, as somone who is romantically attracted to females and sexually attracted to guys thad be fine. Maybe better if some play outside of the relationship was allowd aha.

[Matryoshkasystem]

Uhm...asexual guy here! Also guys, it deals strictly with sexualized stuff, she isn't an aromantic. Even then there are ranges on it just no sexual attraction but like sex-sex positive- , no sexual attraction and not one way with sex-sex neutral- , or no sexual attraction and hates/disgusted by sex-sex negative- I'm guessing she's asking from an repulsed point . Also Cadanance00 it could be trauma, or just natural for them-like being gay,bi,straight-.

[Emerald Dream]

Let's keep on-topic with the actual point of the thread, please. Unnecessary and irrelevant posts have been deleted.

Also -

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

(this probably fits better here)

[indoxyl]

See. That's what I would have to wonder about what turned you against sex.

This makes no sense. That's like wondering why a gay guy is against having straight sex lmao

[Typhlosion]

If my current gf revealed to me that she is asexual/doesn't enjoy sex, I could try to live with it. Otherwise, for me sex isn't that small of a deal and there are plenty of other people to date. Nothing against it, but no point investing time on an incompatability.

[indoxyl]

Also if you're not interested in sex then maybe try looking for another person that's not interested in it either?

[MakeItRain]

yeah sure if she has a nice personality

[Meron]

It's all about her personality and the time we spend together most likely, not about the intercourse. So yeah, I wouldn't mind.

[Tesserax]

It depends. If I can at least kiss and hold hands then maybe. But I believe that sex is an important part of a healthy relationship, which can be difficult. If you can find some kind of conpromise where you can help the guy release sexual tension (because when we really are in love with a girl our natural tendency is to want to have sex eventually), whether it be pictures, stripping in real life, anything to help him would be very helpful. Of course only do this if you were truly faithful and in love.

However, if you were truly amazing as a girlfriend, I would personally would find other ways to deal with the sexual tension. I would prefer to stay with a girl who is lovable than find another unfaithful girl just for sex. So don't lose faith if you can't bear to do it, you'll find a guy to love you who is willing to sacrifice sexytimes to be with you, I know I would if I believed you were worth it.

[SpicyCurryyy]

I think if you really loved her, you would want the sex eventually and without getting it, I don't think it would be a very healthy relationship

[everlong]

I would think it'd be better for an asexual girl to date an asexual guy.

[Darkslidex7]

Yeah I agree, I wouldn't mind dating an asexual girl, sex really doesn't matter.

[Hollywood]

Okay, I guess I'm not a teen boy anymore, but...

I absolutely would date someone that's asexual. Hell, I'm not exactly a sexual person either. I'm not asexual, but I have a low sex drive, so sex isn't very important to me.

[Ragle]

not dating, but meeting as friends or so

[PaleBoy]

Depends, maybe if she agreed to an open relationship