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ZzeWatermelon
June 14th, 2016, 02:49 PM
So I was walking with two guys and eventually I wanted to turn right to go home, and one of them asked if I could just walk them home so we can talk some more, and then he would walk me home back…
And he talked about sex. Mainly. Like how he has sex with friends but doesn't get involved more (no dating/marriage etc). But it seemed like a platonic conversation. And generally we joke about sex all the time.
And then it kinda made me panick. Plus it was 10 in the evening. And I said that I really have to get going. And he just shook my hand. Like what the hell is that.

Any explications? am I understanding right that he wants to get in my pants? And what's up with the shaking hands? (Also he looked kinda annoyed when I said I'll leave)...

SethfromMI
June 14th, 2016, 03:16 PM
yea I think he was trying to see how you would react to see if you wanted to possibly have sex with him or not. I could be wrong, but that's the vibe I got.

ZzeWatermelon
June 14th, 2016, 04:01 PM
That creeped me out so much haha xD And I'm 16 and he's 19/20 what the hell.

ska8er
June 14th, 2016, 04:08 PM
Hes older-Hes talking about sex with u-its 10 pm-
b thankful u just got a handshake from him-lose him.

Cadanance00
June 15th, 2016, 08:58 AM
What a dork.

You don't talk about sex the first time you walk a girl home. When you do, you don't tell her how you don't form relationships.

lliam
June 15th, 2016, 11:35 AM
I bet, he suffered that day of a hormonal attack. Cause what guy speaks just about sex with a girl he hardly knows ?

ZzeWatermelon
June 15th, 2016, 03:34 PM
I've known him for 2 years and a half haha.

FlyOnTheWall
June 15th, 2016, 04:02 PM
RUN RUN AWAY

stop dont touch me there that is my no-no square
stop dont touch me there these parts i do not share
R-A-P-E get your penis out of me!!

Cadanance00
June 15th, 2016, 05:00 PM
I've known him for 2 years and a half haha.

He should know better than that. Was he always like that?

Microcosm
June 15th, 2016, 06:58 PM
Please be careful if you see this guy in the future. He might not be a total creep, but it does seem like he was testing the waters with you in that conversation. He wanted to see if casual sex to fulfill his own hedonistic desires was an okay thing to you. He probably wants to use you.

ZzeWatermelon
June 16th, 2016, 04:18 AM
He should know better than that. Was he always like that?

Not really, but I don't see him often. And I grew a lot the past two years, and I look older.. And I think physical appearance had a thing on him.
Well anyway I'm careful, and it wasn't a pleasing experience.

jamie_n5
June 29th, 2016, 08:50 PM
Yeah he was truly feeling you out to see if you would be an easy conquest and telling you he wants to f**k and run and I would definitely steer clear of him. He may even try rape who knows.

DoodleSnap
June 30th, 2016, 07:13 AM
I shake hands with friends all of the time :P - I just like being polite, it's no big deal.

As for him communicating anything - you shouldn't read into his actions too much. Unless he says something explicitly, don't assume anything. He could just be talking to you as a friend, or he could be wanting to try and do something sexual, who knows?

Just treat him as a friend, and enjoy your time without reading into it too much. And remember, you never have to do anything you're not comfortable with.