Feeling emotionally attached

[Tesserax]

Is it weird to feel really emotionally attached to somebody after just 1 date? Like, even before the date I could feel like I really connected with her and really liked her, but after the date all of that just amplified. We haven't kissed, or held hands, or said anything that might make both our intentions clear yet, but I felt really elated being in her presence and I'm kind of afraid. I don't want to rush things, I know where that can lead, but at the same time I kind of want to.

Anyway, back to the main question. Does anybody just know they've found somebody right for them just from one date, or the moment they meet? We've talked a lot and it just feels right. I'm not sure how to explain this without using the word, which I'm reluctant to use because nothing's really happened yet, but I feel it.

Thanks for reading guys, and thanks for your answers :)

[SpicyCurryyy]

yo I feel the same way with a girl at school. whenever school ends, I look forward to seeing her the next day. But at the same time, we have only technically gone on one date but I feel like we have known each other forever.

[Uniquemind]

I've felt that with my BF.

I call it the "Cozy-Flow" feeling.

To my memory it is a very close emotional feeling to the safe security feeling you felt as a very small child cuddling up to your parents. The only difference would be subject matter of conversation, the setting in where you meet, and interests and hobbies that keep conversation flowing.

Is that what you're feeling, if not I might be wrong.

[Tesserax]

I've felt that with my BF.

I call it the "Cozy-Flow" feeling.

To my memory it is a very close emotional feeling to the safe security feeling you felt as a very small child cuddling up to your parents. The only difference would be subject matter of conversation, the setting in where you meet, and interests and hobbies that keep conversation flowing.

Is that what you're feeling, if not I might be wrong.

Kind of? It's kinda like "Oh my god I love this hooman dis is da best hooman eva I just wanna cuddle and we can have snacks and watch movies and do stuffz and watch movies and eat pizza and cuddle and just spend late nights talking n cuddlin and it'll be awesome" that kind of feeling, but like, you WANT to rather than you enjoy it already (because it hasn't happened). It's hard to explain, especially after that random explanation. In all seriousness it's just something where I know I could live the rest of my life with her, and I want to. She's just amazing and gorgeous and I could do it, I could commit to that absolutely and completely

[Uniquemind]

Kind of? It's kinda like "Oh my god I love this hooman dis is da best hooman eva I just wanna cuddle and we can have snacks and watch movies and do stuffz and watch movies and eat pizza and cuddle and just spend late nights talking n cuddlin and it'll be awesome" that kind of feeling, but like, you WANT to rather than you enjoy it already (because it hasn't happened). It's hard to explain, especially after that random explanation. In all seriousness it's just something where I know I could live the rest of my life with her, and I want to. She's just amazing and gorgeous and I could do it, I could commit to that absolutely and completely

To be honest if I were in either of your shoes (hers or yours) I'd give commitment a shot for a year then.

If it's still this intense for her and for you then it actually might be something special.

Sure maybe on the upside neither of you experience the statistical average of "other people" but in my view, if you found a diamond in a haystack, would you throw it away to see if you could repeat the process with another haystack?

The only thing that matters in the end is if you actually DO find someone else, or have reasons your current partner is hurting where you want to grow as an individual. The power dynamic has to be balanced.

[Tesserax]

To be honest if I were in either of your shoes (hers or yours) I'd give commitment a shot for a year then.

If it's still this intense for her and for you then it actually might be something special.

Sure maybe on the upside neither of you experience the statistical average of "other people" but in my view, if you found a diamond in a haystack, would you throw it away to see if you could repeat the process with another haystack?

The only thing that matters in the end is if you actually DO find someone else, or have reasons your current partner is hurting where you want to grow as an individual. The power dynamic has to be balanced.

Well, I'm not 100% sure how she feels yet. But I think the next time we get out I'm going to tell her that I really feel something, and just hope that she feels the same way. But I'm willing to give this a shot

[Uniquemind]

Well, I'm not 100% sure how she feels yet. But I think the next time we get out I'm going to tell her that I really feel something, and just hope that she feels the same way. But I'm willing to give this a shot

Remember not to come on too strong, instead be slow steady and consistent.

[Just JT]

Kind of? It's kinda like "Oh my god I love this hooman dis is da best hooman eva I just wanna cuddle and we can have snacks and watch movies and do stuffz and watch movies and eat pizza and cuddle and just spend late nights talking n cuddlin and it'll be awesome" that kind of feeling, but like, you WANT to rather than you enjoy it already (because it hasn't happened). It's hard to explain, especially after that random explanation. In all seriousness it's just something where I know I could live the rest of my life with her, and I want to. She's just amazing and gorgeous and I could do it, I could commit to that absolutely and completely

Thins there's a lot to be said about a relationship being a strong friendship. And from what I'm reading, seems yeah, your attracted to her in that way, but also, you just wana be with her, in any way. And that's cool.

Id just follow what you feel and roll with it so long as your both enjoying each other's company what ever that means, and have a great time. Sounds like your really into her.