Girls don't care about your dick!

[Cadanance00]

I had a hilariously frank discussion with three girls about boys and sex. Turns out girls really don't care about your dick. They say when they see a guy they don't wonder what his dick looks like. It's just there and okay already. One girl asked me why guys are so preoccupied with it and I couldn't think of any thing to say right away so my sister said, "Because it's right in front and his arms are just long enough to reach it." *uproarious peals of laughter*

It's true. It's not in the forefront of their consciousness, so to speak. I know this will come as news to some guys.

[Katie NYC]

Hmmmm.....is what three girls said truly representative of all 3.5 billion girls on the planet? Speaking for myself, I disagree with them. So there's 1.

[HououinKiyoma]

Still 3:1 in the OPs favour.

[Katie NYC]

Still 3:1 in the OPs favour.

Victory shall be mine. Size queen for the win.

[ska8er]

I had a hilariously frank discussion with three girls about boys and sex. Turns out girls really don't care about your dick. They say when they see a guy they don't wonder what his dick looks like. It's just there and okay already. One girl asked me why guys are so preoccupied with it and I couldn't think of any thing to say right away so my sister said, "Because it's right in front and his arms are just long enough to reach it." *uproarious peals of laughter*

It's true. It's not in the forefront of their consciousness, so to speak. I know this will come as news to some guys.

Some of u girls r preoccupied with ur boobs-guys dicks
r their best bros and girls boobs r their best sisters. :rolleyes:

[ClaraWho]

I asked my brother, years ago, why he didn't stare at girls boobs/butts when they wear revealing clothes, like other guys do.

He jokily pointed out that chests and butts are all rather generic, once you've seen a handful, you've seen them all. He was much more interested in a checking out a pretty face, a smile and most of all her eyes.

A lot of truth is said in jest. My point is it runs both ways, I too have never really given it any thought. If I don't love the individual, it will never get to that stage.

~ Clara

[deepthroat_tacos]

Size queen here to

[Taryn98]

I agree with the OP, size is meaningless. If I like a guy, I will be pleased no matter the size, and if I'm not that into a guy, the sex always sucks. The emotional connection is more important to me.

[everlong]

It seems that it depends on the girl

[Meron]

Pretty much hoes who only took you as a sex material make that their number one priority, so no shit.

Yet, this is a big factor in relationships, but it's not that important anyhow.

I actually talked about this to my ex, she also said it's my personality and care that made her love me, not the pole.

[Uniquemind]

Again like I've said in the past, as long as it's in the average range, size really doesn't matter that much UNTIL the "equipment" poses a performance problem in a sexual situation.

There are certain mixes and matches between female and male anatomy that work, and some that don't so size, shape, thickness (especially thickness), does impact sex life, which in turn can affect the relationship.

However guys ARE overblowing the importance penis size plays into a relationship, more often or not it's a personality and chemistry conflict that makes a relationship break.

[The Boom]

Wow I'v never actually seen things that way... I never try to talk about sex with girls. I think it's rude. My point of view has always been that girls always care more about the emotional part. Sex is mostly because without it, you become crazy.

[playfull-qt]

Speaking for myself I don't put "size" at the top of my "do I like this guy" list. Don't get me wrong, If things get to the point where the relationship is sexual It would be a "plus" if the guy had a nice size penis.

[Cadanance00]

Sex is mostly because without it, you become crazy.

I think there's some truth in that.

[Doro15]

a large penis is nice to look, but not important for good sex

[kiratchix]

tbh dicks actually look so gross

[ClaraWho]

So for those commenting on being 'size queens' (makes me think of a weightloss TV show), how exactly does that work in a relationship?

The steps;

1). Develop and crush, slowly realise you are falling in love with a guy.
2). You think he may fancy you too, you start talking and you feel butterflies.
3). After a few weeks he asks you if you'd go out with him! Yay!
4). You say maybe, but first you must know his penis length and girth.
5). He lies about it, exaggerating like 99.9% of all men.
6). Knowing guys do this you demand he show up for a 'measuring session'. That's a thing now.
7). On an arranged time and date he shows up, you provide stimulation then he drops it on a desk. You whip out a tape measure and set to work.
8). He isn't long enough. You turn off your romantic attachment to everything else about him, you decline the date.

I mean there doesn't seem to be any sane way of living da vida loca... Ahem... Of living a lifestyle based on that principle. Unless by 'partner' you just mean 'fwb'?

~ Confused Clara

[RJH98]

I think the reason guys worry about their size so much is because of other guys. Guys who have a "big" penis, brag about it. You don't really hear guys with an "average" penis so guys with a average penis think they are small, while only like 10 of the guys is "big". It doesn't matter one bit.

At least that's my experience as a guy who is average, whatever that means

[rioo]

unless if u are nudist.

[LanaPole]

Not all girls don't care about size. I do. big hard ones are great turn ons.

[Cadanance00]

So for those commenting on being 'size queens' (makes me think of a weightloss TV show), how exactly does that work in a relationship?

The steps;

1). Develop and crush, slowly realise you are falling in love with a guy.
2). You think he may fancy you too, you start talking and you feel butterflies.
3). After a few weeks he asks you if you'd go out with him! Yay!
4). You say maybe, but first you must know his penis length and girth.
5). He lies about it, exaggerating like 99.9% of all men.
6). Knowing guys do this you demand he show up for a 'measuring session'. That's a thing now.
7). On an arranged time and date he shows up, you provide stimulation then he drops it on a desk. You whip out a tape measure and set to work.
8). He isn't long enough. You turn off your romantic attachment to everything else about him, you decline the date.

I mean there doesn't seem to be any sane way of living da vida loca... Ahem... Of living a lifestyle based on that principle. Unless by 'partner' you just mean 'fwb'?

~ Confused Clara


Whaaaaat?! I sincerely hope you're not serious.

[czechmate]

There is so much to this its ridiculous. I need to have nothing going on to write about this. SO MUCH depends on this. To be continued...

[Mina]

Mmm if I dun like da thing da dick is attach to then I won't care da dick :p buuttttt i hafta say it's weird cos I do like dick but dun like boys.... like I love futanari so much (dickgirl) n big n hard ones on a cutie girl will drive me crazzyyyy hahah

[sara___]

Honestly unless when I'm with a guy and he pulls his underwear down for the 1st time with me and I see he has some horribly deformed penis I really don't care what it looks like.

[Uniquemind]

So for those commenting on being 'size queens' (makes me think of a weightloss TV show), how exactly does that work in a relationship?

The steps;

1). Develop and crush, slowly realise you are falling in love with a guy.
2). You think he may fancy you too, you start talking and you feel butterflies.
3). After a few weeks he asks you if you'd go out with him! Yay!
4). You say maybe, but first you must know his penis length and girth.
5). He lies about it, exaggerating like 99.9% of all men.
6). Knowing guys do this you demand he show up for a 'measuring session'. That's a thing now.
7). On an arranged time and date he shows up, you provide stimulation then he drops it on a desk. You whip out a tape measure and set to work.
8). He isn't long enough. You turn off your romantic attachment to everything else about him, you decline the date.

I mean there doesn't seem to be any sane way of living da vida loca... Ahem... Of living a lifestyle based on that principle. Unless by 'partner' you just mean 'fwb'?

~ Confused Clara

I have a friend who is a self-admitted size queen, and we actually talked about this.

What you posted was a very "nightmarish" scenario and is more blunt than what occurs in reality, and obviously signs like that would indicate that girl would have a pretty sour or superficial personality.


If it becomes an issue the relationship just slowly simmers down sexually and emotionally, and a transition from partner A to partner B will occur until inevitably an official "breakup" happens and the guy is wondering why.

It's a very common breakup tactic to kinda let things drift apart naturally, without having to be confrontational about the why we have to issue a break-up. There can be a lot of anxiety about what the aftermath is going to be.


Not to mention it's very common for emotional bonds in dating to drift one person to person, and that happens really fast for a lot of people especially from age 9-17.

In fact I could argue that for some subsets of older teens and even adults, feelings change, although people attempt to make more settled commitments (i.e. the affair rate and divorce rate).

[ClaraWho]

I have a friend who is a self-admitted size queen, and we actually talked about this.

What you posted was a very "nightmarish" scenario and is more blunt than what occurs in reality, and obviously signs like that would indicate that girl would have a pretty sour or superficial personality.


If it becomes an issue the relationship just slowly simmers down sexually and emotionally, and a transition from partner A to partner B will occur until inevitably an official "breakup" happens and the guy is wondering why.

It's a very common breakup tactic to kinda let things drift apart naturally, without having to be confrontational about the why we have to issue a break-up. There can be a lot of anxiety about what the aftermath is going to be.


Not to mention it's very common for emotional bonds in dating to drift one person to person, and that happens really fast for a lot of people especially from age 9-17.

In fact I could argue that for some subsets of older teens and even adults, feelings change, although people attempt to make more settled commitments (i.e. the affair rate and divorce rate).

Whilst I disagree with a lot of that, I don't really see what it has to do with size?

My post was simply highlighting how absurd and unrealistic caring about size is. Nobody is going to do what I laid out. Nobody can just 'turn off' emotional attraction based on size. That's not to say it would/wouldn't work long term. Just that penis size isn't really as big an issue as guys seem to think.

~ Clara

[Living For Love]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: