Pretenidng straight?

[Gay Paul]

Does it happen that presented themselves, a friend, as a person who is 100% heterosexual, but deep down you know that it is not that really are not even bisexual, but just gays that dream of strong guys with whom you could talk from the heart about various things.

think that many men are ashamed to identify with the LGBT community, as gay in a classic release are portrayed as effeminate and not very manly.

But the are some exception like this guy :D
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d7/Bundesarchiv_Bild_102-15282A,_Ernst_R%C3%B6hm.jpg/170px-Bundesarchiv_Bild_102-15282A,_Ernst_R%C3%B6hm.jpg

[Hermes]

I admit I don't know who that picture is of but I do note the swastica on his arm. On that alone I think he is a bad role model for anyone.

I'm sure some people do present a facade but I think that has more to do with how homophobic those around them are rather than how well the person fits into old stereotypes.

Also bear in mind that even straight, bi, gay is a simplication of people's real sexuality - check out the Kinsey scale, as one example, and you can keep adding dimensions. At the end of the day the most important thing is that people should be free to be themselves.

[Bull]

At the end of the day the most important thing is that people should be free to be themselves.

Very true. However, one must gage the environment in which they exist and not put themselves in harm's way. It is not so much "pretending straight" as not revealing too much when unsure of surroundings. PDA, gay or str8, is not always well received in certain settings. Restraint does not equal pretending.

[Gay Paul]

I admit I don't know who that picture is of but I do note the swastica on his arm. On that alone I think he is a bad role model for anyone.

I'm sure some people do present a facade but I think that has more to do with how homophobic those around them are rather than how well the person fits into old stereotypes.

Also bear in mind that even straight, bi, gay is a simplication of people's real sexuality - check out the Kinsey scale, as one example, and you can keep adding dimensions. At the end of the day the most important thing is that people should be free to be themselves.

The guy in the picture it's Ernst Röhm, and he "loved" his SA-boys very much :D
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ernst_R%C3%B6hm
But you right he is hardly role model for gay youth and young adults :)

[Just JT]

I'm sure some guys do out up a front to hide who they really are. I feel bad for them. I mean, they have their reasons and all, but today, it's not a big deal really. Their just insecure and not confident enough to come out for what ever reason. Good reasons, for them, and difficult, but still.

[ska8er]

I'm sure some guys do out up a front to hide who they really are. I feel bad for them. I mean, they have their reasons and all, but today, it's not a big deal really. Their just insecure and not confident enough to come out for what ever reason. Good reasons, for them, and difficult, but still.


I know a few guys who act feminine but have girlfriends
not just to talk with-deep steadies-but u don't know if they
r hiding something-if its a front they r not making it clear but
if they think they r going to hide something they r not doing a
good job of it. I don't understand some guys-if u act that way
u might just as well say ur bi or gay and not straight-Btw these
guys say they r straight. In a lot of cases being gay today is no
big deal to SOME guys but others I wont say they r insecure just
maybe careful to stay in their own zone. :confused:

Does it happen that presented themselves, a friend, as a person who is 100% heterosexual, but deep down you know that it is not that really are not even bisexual, but just gays that dream of strong guys with whom you could talk from the heart about various things.

think that many men are ashamed to identify with the LGBT community, as gay in a classic release are portrayed as effeminate and not very manly.

But the are some exception like this guy :D
image (https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d7/Bundesarchiv_Bild_102-15282A,_Ernst_R%C3%B6hm.jpg/170px-Bundesarchiv_Bild_102-15282A,_Ernst_R%C3%B6hm.jpg)


Gay guys that just dream of strong guys that they can talk heart
to heart about various things usually have other things on their
minds but I'm not saying that a straight guy and a gay cant b just
friends but I'm sure it is hard on both.

[Just JT]

I know a few guys who act feminine but have girlfriends
not just to talk with-deep steadies-but u don't know if they
r hiding something-if its a front they r not making it clear but
if they think they r going to hide something they r not doing a
good job of it. I don't understand some guys-if u act that way
u might just as well say ur bi or gay and not straight-Btw these
guys say they r straight. In a lot of cases being gay today is no
big deal to SOME guys but others I wont say they r insecure just
maybe careful to stay in their own zone. :confused:

I don't think that just cause a guy acts gay that he is, or if acts straight then he is. Don't think that has much to do with it, that's more perception really, unless they are acting that way on purpose. And if that's the case then yeah, they aren't hiding it to good lol!!

But I do see your point about insecure, not sure what to call it. Inside their comfort zone? Yeah, maybe, I just try n not judge is all, really wish nobody did

[ska8er]

I don't think that just cause a guy acts gay that he is, or if acts straight then he is. Don't think that has much to do with it, that's more perception really, unless they are acting that way on purpose. And if that's the case then yeah, they aren't hiding it to good lol!!

But I do see your point about insecure, not sure what to call it. Inside their comfort zone? Yeah, maybe, I just try n not judge is all, really wish nobody did


Its true today u don't know really who is gay or straight
or telling the truth or hiding unless u have gaydar or flying
below cover. I don't judge either-I have one gay friend who
I just talk bout music with and a best bud who keeps telling me
hes straight-acts straight but sometimes I wonder. They r just
friends-if that's their way-its ok. As for me I'm debating my
orientation but I'm not going to tell anyone that I'm this that
or something else for them to like me or judge me.

I'm really :confused:

[Just JT]

Its true today u don't know really who is gay or straight
or telling the truth or hiding unless u have gaydar or flying
below cover. I don't judge either-I have one gay friend who
I just talk bout music with and a best bud who keeps telling me
hes straight-acts straight but sometimes I wonder. They r just
friends-if that's their way-its ok. As for me I'm debating my
orientation but I'm not going to tell anyone that I'm this that
or something else for them to like me or judge me.

I'm really :confused:


Sounds like a good plan bro, it's nobody's business anyways, unles you wana share with them. Confused is normal and ok to, just roll with it

[Dannyboy01]

i don,t know what to call my self i like to give head but thats it i am discusted with anal and would never do it top or bottom i also think i would never be able to kiss a guy i like girls pussy and vagina and would only kiss them . maby because im small down there that i give head to see how big guys get.

[logan4sho]

You seem to know a lot about nazis.

[Living For Love]

Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[jamie_n5]

Could very well be but I think in the last 15 years that the old sterotype of gays has kind of gone away. You should be ashamed of the Nazi picture they were horrible monsters. Especially Hitler.

[DoodleSnap]

Plenty of people put up a front to hide their sexuality, because there are still people in society that would see them differently and even treat them differently because of it.

[Bull]

Plenty of people put up a front to hide their sexuality, because there are still people in society that would see them differently and even treat them differently because of it.

Unfortunately this is all too true. A legislator here in Oklahoma pushed a bill to make it legal to slap someone who was homosexual. Pretty sure she was not among the thousands who turned out in support for the awesome Pride Festival in OKC! Plenty of people out there who dislike anyone who is different from them. Bigots (Trump included) are all too plentiful.

[Just JT]

i don,t know what to call my self i like to give head but thats it i am discusted with anal and would never do it top or bottom i also think i would never be able to kiss a guy i like girls pussy and vagina and would only kiss them . maby because im small down there that i give head to see how big guys get.


Your likes or dislikes are actually pretty common. Just cause someone's gay or bi doesn't automatically mean they are I to anal sex. And just cause they identify as straight, they are not into some sort of same sex activity. It's all a matter of what you like and who you are. And personally, I wouldn't be to concerned with identifying with anything g right now. It's just to complicated and only gets confusing.

If you like performing oral sex on guys and girls, then go with that, nothing g wrong with that at all. You'll probably have pleany of people willing to help you perfect your skill