Awkward Situation

[okonite]

Would you ever have the guts to ask an older sister or your Mom to buy you a vibrator?

[Abbeys]

A sister maybe if I had one but mom never.

Having said that there are people here (or there used to be,ain't been around much lately!!) who have an extreemly open relationship with family members so it probably wouldn't bother them.

[okonite]

A sister maybe if I had one but mom never.

Having said that there are people here (or there used to be,ain't been around much lately!!) who have an extreemly open relationship with family members so it probably wouldn't bother them.

I actually know someone who's Mother bought her one. My friend never asked and it was never spoken about. She was 15 and found it sitting there one morning in her sock drawer.

I remember being jealous.

[feli 99]

Maybe my sister

[Phosphene]

I wish I had an older sister to ask, I would have the guts to do that but my mom? Oh boy, I'd die of embarrassment! :lol:

[ClaraWho]

I've actually read more negative experience than positive with the use of a vibrator. Apparently it desensitises the clitoris over time, and whilst it does recover, it could diminish the pleasure of sexual intimacy with a partner. It's a bit 'extreme' if that makes sense.

~ Clara

[Katie NYC]

I don't have a sister and don't get along with my mom. A friend of mine has an awesome mom and she asked her mom to get her her first toy. She got me mine too.

[Phosphene]

I've actually read more negative experience than positive with the use of a vibrator. Apparently it desensitises the clitoris over time, and whilst it does recover, it could diminish the pleasure of sexual intimacy with a partner. It's a bit 'extreme' if that makes sense.

~ Clara

Yeah, I've heard this too. Vibrators/toys in general aren't that appealing to me, just my curiosity makes me want to try one.

[Abbeys]

I actually know someone who's Mother bought her one. My friend never asked and it was never spoken about. She was 15 and found it sitting there one morning in her sock drawer.

I remember being jealous.


That was a good way to do it.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Mum & aunt

[Taryn98]

I don't have a sister but had my best friend's older sister buy me a vibrator, so that's basically the same thing.

[Uniquemind]

I don't have a sister but had my best friend's older sister buy me a vibrator, so that's basically the same thing.

I have a friend whose family is extremely conservative and I had to basically get her one since my family is more liberal.

There's definitely an underground market there, lots of profit to be made. As far as I know it's not illegal either.

[JessiF]

I would be too shy to ask my mom for something like that , and I dont have a sister. Maybe one day , but now im happy without one.

[Doro15]

I asked an older female student in my school.
I am sure, ask my mother would be embarrassing.

[Kelsey1031]

i don't have a mom or an older sister, so I ask my older cousin (who is like a big sister) for stuff.

[Miss Ophelia]

I just used mail order. :)

[Uniquemind]

I've actually read more negative experience than positive with the use of a vibrator. Apparently it desensitises the clitoris over time, and whilst it does recover, it could diminish the pleasure of sexual intimacy with a partner. It's a bit 'extreme' if that makes sense.

~ Clara

In that case there are a variety of dildos on the market.

Just make sure they are phthalate free and safe.

[Doro15]

I would be too shy to ask my mom for something like that , and I dont have a sister. Maybe one day , but now im happy without one.

I think with 13 y.o. it is still too early for a vibrator

[LITTLEANGEL19]

I think with 13 y.o. it is still too early for a vibrator

I agree with Doro 13 is to young for a vibrator. :yes:

[Lizzielikesboth]

When I turned 14 Mom bought me 4 things and put in a gift box. A pocket rocket vibrator, a "normal vibrator", a 6 inch dildo and a 8 inch one in a strap-on harness. Later she did it for my younger sister.
She told us at least these will not make her a Grandmother.

[Cangirl]

I've actually read more negative experience than positive with the use of a vibrator. Apparently it desensitises the clitoris over time, and whilst it does recover, it could diminish the pleasure of sexual intimacy with a partner. It's a bit 'extreme' if that makes sense.

~ Clara

Thats why my mom wont let me have one. Not proud moment but i got caught with hers and she was pissed lol. I have asked my sis because she has one :)

[Sasha M]

When I turned 14 Mom bought me 4 things and put in a gift box. A pocket rocket vibrator, a "normal vibrator", a 6 inch dildo and a 8 inch one in a strap-on harness. Later she did it for my younger sister.
She told us at least these will not make her a Grandmother.

Cool mom... XD

[sunnieseason]

I have a female cousin who is 21, she bought one for me.

[Laibachd]

Haha maybe

[LITTLEANGEL19]

When I turned 14 Mom bought me 4 things and put in a gift box. A pocket rocket vibrator, a "normal vibrator", a 6 inch dildo and a 8 inch one in a strap-on harness. Later she did it for my younger sister.
She told us at least these will not make her a Grandmother.

Lucky you, you have a cool mum. Am not sure how my mum would react if I asked for one, all I can say is she would not be upset.

[august1999fLower]

no. maybe if i had an older sister but mine is younger

[shana_mac]

I only have a younger sister & I dont think I would have the courage to ask my mom.

My cousin bought me one for my 14th birthday.

[Laibachd]

Yes i would, but i do not need to

[pippa]

i know someone who uses her moms vibrator when her mom is at work!

[JaceySmiles]

older sister (If I had one) but I couldn't ever ask my mom, lol

[dpriest]

I was 16 and walking in the mall with mom, stepdad and a couple of friends, I summoned jp my courage and told mom that I wanted one. She took me into the store and I picked one out.

[saxmatic16]

I don't think so lol to weird for my family dynamic

[Alex1s]

I wish I had an older sister I could ask to buy me a vibrator! I would have asked years ago lol fr though it depends on your relationship. If you're not all that close it would probably be awkward to ask. My mom is super religious and conservative so yeahhh that's never happening lol she could def use one though xD

[Madison78]

My friend got a vibrator from her older sister, so I asked my friend if her sister could buy me one, then handed her some cash for it.

[Linda2001]

my mom bought me one, we got it online. before that I had tried some of hers when she wasn't home.

[sara___]

I would feel to weird asking my mom

[NatteDroom03]

Asking mom is out of the question, but I do plan to ask my sister once she's old enough, which is pretty soon. ;)

[Shin-Ah]

I have an older sister....no never....oh god 13? no too young

[Sweeper]

I think mothers are more understanding than we give them credit for. Mine got one for me without me even asking... Although it was after she found one of hers in my room, so that probably got the wheels turning.

[stoneflowe96]

Asking my mom was out of question and I also did not ask my sister although she had a vibrator. I waited till I was 18 and bought it myself

[Beach_Blonde]

my sis woudl if she was old enough to buy herself one but never my mom

[Albatross13]

I actually had my older sister when I was 13 buy me one

[Jilly]

Um... that seems like kinda odd to me. I mean, with mom, really, I can't even imagine that.

Why do you need them to get you a vibrator? Should be able to get one yourself. I mean, they don't just sell them in sex shops. They have vibrating massagers, which are supposed to be for your back or whatever, but work fine as vibrators. Also, stuff like electric toothbrushes can be used if need be.

[MaeFae]

I've always wanted one but I'm too nervous to ask my mom. Oh well, only have to wait 1 more year to buy my own :)

[amelia_]

I've always wanted one but I'm too nervous to ask my mom. Oh well, only have to wait 1 more year to buy my own :)

if you dont want to wait, like jilly said, many other things can work. trust me :p

[LITTLEANGEL19]

My hand works best for me :yes:

[Snjezana]

My mom bought me some... got my first even without asking, she just gave it to me, saying "i know you need it". well, she had noticed i was using hers :)

[samandra13]

my aunt would for sure and maybe my mom. she has several of her own

[Londongirl01]

I could never ask my mum, no way! My sister I might....
How does this convo actually go though- I wouldn't want to have a detailed convo about types and sizes with her lol

[Living For Love]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: