Make Women Chase You For Dates

[jaydenjohnson]

One thing you should understand that women have an image of an ideal man in their mind, and they are naturally drawn toward guys that fit that archetype. However, even if you're not her "type" you can still connect with a woman by appealing to her emotions. All you need to do is make her feel safe and comfortable when she's with you.

Once you've gotten that far, you will stick in her mind and she'll want to spend more time with you. By now, you're probably wondering how exactly you make this emotional connection and get her to fall for you. read on to find the three 3 key tactics you'll need to use to get any woman you desire

Strategy #1 "Be Bold". Be daring and put yourself out there with confidence and character. You must banish all fear of rejection and be ready to approach even the most gorgeous women in the place without hesitation.

Strategy #2 "Be A Peacock". If you have good qualities, don't be afraid to show them off. Even if you don't have anything all that special, that doesn't mean you can't be confident. I'm not suggesting you have to walk around shirtless to show off your abs. Rather, just be confident in yourself and you'll make a great first impression on any girl.

Strategy #3 "Use Fractionation". Once you've started to make a small connection with a woman, you can try using the mesmerizing technique known as fractionation. You probably have never heard of it, but it basically just involves chatting with a woman and hypnotizing her to feel greater attraction for you.

[Uranus]

Lol you're funny
What next, do I owe you $29.99?

[Sailor Mars]

tf up with all your posts bruh... fr, stop generalizing every fuckin stereotype about women n men and relationships

If someone wants to be w someone, they don't need to "make them chase" them or some shit. they fkin ask them out like a regular person.

"these three key tactics you'll you'll need to use to get any woman you desire"
Yeah just b creepy, flaunt yourself, and you're good with any woman u want lmfao

dude stop. these have been your past 10 posts, pls

[Croconaw]

You shouldn't boast about everything you have done to get a girl to like you. You can tell her you work out everyday, but that implies you have big muscles you are trying to show off. I'm not saying you can't be confident, but you just have to love yourself before someone else can. Girls like confidence, so smile and put yourself out there. I'm just saying that implying is worse than actually saying these things. I mean, saying you work out everyday implies you have big abs. You may not mean it in that way, but some girls would think you were trying to show off.

For your information, these tactics don't work. You are stereotyping women. It is not funny.

[Uniquemind]

Lol you're funny
What next, do I owe you $29.99?

This post had me laughing for a full 5 minutes.


Talk about a leaf from a "self-help money grubbing scheme".

I got a friend who buys into this stuff all the time. His loss of money on advice he should be getting for free and for better quality.

To criticism the OP this is generally horrible advice and based on observations I say this:

Unstable flirting practices will attract unstable or abusive types of relationships. Being an ass like the above advice tends to work for those guys who are sleeping around, but other than that....

[StoppingTom]

**Insert Confused Nick Young Here**

or you could just be yourself and put yourself out there instead of resorting to ""hypnotizing"" idk tho

[Uniquemind]

**Insert Confused Nick Young Here**

or you could just be yourself and put yourself out there instead of resorting to ""hypnotizing"" idk tho

The problem with that advice is that it is technically wrong.

There are situations where one MUST improve their behavior or habits to become more successful in dating.

Saying comments like "just be yourself" really is copout advice. It's politically correct but it's also stating that one isn't take the effort to really analyze one's own points of failure and rising and improving.

Ex: if your smelling horrible all the time because that's your hygiene habit, you are going to statistically significantly lower the "yes" answers you'll get for dates.

If your super tense and guarded and you drop verbal lines that makes other people tense around you that's also a problem.

Being fun and being relaxed with a reasonable amount of stress and being a good communicator or learning that skill of how to make sure your body language communicates what tone you want conveyed that matters.

[ClaraWho]

The problem with that advice is that it is technically wrong.

There are situations where one MUST improve their behavior or habits to become more successful in dating.

Saying comments like "just be yourself" really is copout advice. It's politically correct but it's also stating that one isn't take the effort to really analyze one's own points of failure and rising and improving.

To the OP - I hate people like this. They are so obvious and sex offender style creepy.

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On which 'technicality'?

I think you're misinterpreting what that poster meant UniqueMind, but they'll correct me if I'm wrong.

By 'just be yourself' it's commonly assumed to mean 'don't act/pretend to be someone/something you are not'. The reason for this is obvious, at some point the truth will come out, and you won't be able to connect on any meaningful level. This is why creepy tactics work only for one night stands with vulnerable girls.

'Just be yourself around girls' in this context doesn't mean don't self-improve, a task we should all constantly be doing, but rather don't be fake.

~ Clara

[Uniquemind]

To the OP - I hate people like this. They are so obvious and sex offender style creepy.

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On which 'technicality'?

I think you're misinterpreting what that poster meant UniqueMind, but they'll correct me if I'm wrong.

By 'just be yourself' it's commonly assumed to mean 'don't act/pretend to be someone/something you are not'. The reason for this is obvious, at some point the truth will come out, and you won't be able to connect on any meaningful level. This is why creepy tactics work only for one night stands with vulnerable girls.

'Just be yourself around girls' in this context doesn't mean don't self-improve, a task we should all constantly be doing, but rather don't be fake.

~ Clara

Exactly. I know what it means but I specify further for clarity's sake.

I've helped a lot of people (specifically guys) with how to communicate better when flirting, and I've noticed they almost all tend to interpret things super literally.

So to them, the people that need the advice most, "just be yourself", will not be heard to them as what you easily understand the deeper meaning to be.


Haven't you had situations where when giving advice the person your giving advice too gets defensive and says things like "well what's wrong with that?" Or perhaps more mildly has a bad turnoff habit that explains everything?


Maybe I'm a bad friend, but if I have to be blunt in telling a friend that behind closed doors the reason they aren't doing well with girls is because "he's fat", I do tell them.

People are shallow in this world, we forget that sometimes.

[StoppingTom]

The problem with that advice is that it is technically wrong.

There are situations where one MUST improve their behavior or habits to become more successful in dating.

Saying comments like "just be yourself" really is copout advice. It's politically correct but it's also stating that one isn't take the effort to really analyze one's own points of failure and rising and improving.

Ex: if your smelling horrible all the time because that's your hygiene habit, you are going to statistically significantly lower the "yes" answers you'll get for dates.

If your super tense and guarded and you drop verbal lines that makes other people tense around you that's also a problem.

Being fun and being relaxed with a reasonable amount of stress and being a good communicator or learning that skill of how to make sure your body language communicates what tone you want conveyed that matters.

You're right, and ClaraWho helped clarify the idea I was trying to get across, which was that anyone, of any gender, can tell when you're being fake and unless you're a Grade A Shitboy/girl, there is probably someone who your personality is compatible with. I'm not saying that just being yourself will guarantee you dates with everyone you want, because that's silly and unrealistic, but at least those people will respect you for taking pride in who you are and how you present yourself. I don't really consider things like bad breath to be part of someone's personality, and changing that is just a simple service to yourself and others.

I'm gonna leave it off there, because you and other people are probably more informed on the subject, but I just wanted to include my 2¢.

[BrokenWingedPegasus]

First of all, generalizing is something ignorant to do, no one is the same, and that's why every one likes different things and there aren't any "ultra techniques" for getting everyone you want. If they were true, wouldn't that mean that everyone dated everyone?... Second, judging someone based purely on their looks, money, cars, etc is also stupid and ignorant... Who knows, the person can luckily be someone good, but most likely things won't work out and they might be terrible people. Why do you think poor "ugly" people are the ones with the steady relationships that last a lifetime? Because they judge the other on their personalities, since they don't have anything else to judge. Plus, I'm sure that many girls don't like guys like that, that's just being arrogant and overconfident. Not trying to insult you, but if you have the need to resort to 'hypnosis' to get someone to like you or to get something, that just means you're too bad yourself to get that thing. That you can't do anything by yourself, and have to resort to such sad ways.
...By the way, if you're not her type, you won't be successful in dating her. If she doesn't like guys like you, you can't do 'techniques' to make them like you...

[Cadanance00]

I know some guys that works for. With some girls. Other girls think they're being conned and make fun of him ("coolest shit that ever hit the ground").

He should have a younger sister to tell him what he's doing wrong, which she'll be delighted to do. My sis says it's a gilrs decision who she likes and if doesn't like you there's not a lot you can do about it except get to know her and convince her you're not who she thought you were. Except when.......

[Uniquemind]

I know some guys that works for. With some girls. Other girls think they're being conned and make fun of him ("coolest shit that ever hit the ground").

He should have a younger sister to tell him what he's doing wrong, which she'll be delighted to do. My sis says it's a gilrs decision who she likes and if doesn't like you there's not a lot you can do about it except get to know her and convince her you're not who she thought you were. Except when.......

So either way you're going to have a mixed bag with such flirting tactics.

[Meron]

How much do they pay you to do this?

[Derek951]

Well, gotta agree with the first two steps. Heck, that's just a great way to help live your life in general. And yeah, never heard of "Fractionation" before.

[Flapjack]

One thing you should understand that women have an image of an ideal man in their mind, and they are naturally drawn toward guys that fit that archetype. However, even if you're not her "type" you can still connect with a woman by appealing to her emotions. All you need to do is make her feel safe and comfortable when she's with you.

Once you've gotten that far, you will stick in her mind and she'll want to spend more time with you. By now, you're probably wondering how exactly you make this emotional connection and get her to fall for you. read on to find the three 3 key tactics you'll need to use to get any woman you desire

Strategy #1 "Be Bold". Be daring and put yourself out there with confidence and character. You must banish all fear of rejection and be ready to approach even the most gorgeous women in the place without hesitation.

Strategy #2 "Be A Peacock". If you have good qualities, don't be afraid to show them off. Even if you don't have anything all that special, that doesn't mean you can't be confident. I'm not suggesting you have to walk around shirtless to show off your abs. Rather, just be confident in yourself and you'll make a great first impression on any girl.

Strategy #3 "Use Fractionation". Once you've started to make a small connection with a woman, you can try using the mesmerizing technique known as fractionation. You probably have never heard of it, but it basically just involves chatting with a woman and hypnotizing her to feel greater attraction for you.

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I'll say the same things I said on all your other threads giving dating advice. All women are different. This means they're attracted to different thing so there is no uniiversal guide. Besides you want your partner to love you for you!

[Emerald Dream]

OP banned. :locked: