Fat Fetish, it is NOT A JOKE

[Darkbisco]

Hello guys, I made a post about fat fetish some days ago but it was in the wrong thread. I repost it with new details. So...

I'm sexually actracted by overwight or obese people (both men and women) and I usually have a boner also by eating tons of calories. I've a "eating friend" who eats junk food with me.
I want be fatter ( I'm 13 years old, 142lbs and 5'5'' tall), about 180lbs. I eat a lot of junk food in secret at the night ( like 50-100g of Nutella, biscuits...) and when I go to restaurant or to friends home without my parents I usually eat as much as I can, but it's quite hard weight gain beacause my parents buy only ealthly food and they want to be fit.
I also follow on internet other teen gainers like me.
Should I tell about my fat fetish to my parents (only for have helps to gain weight, maybe they'll understand me and buy me junk food)? Is it probabily that my parents understand me?

I'm not english, I hope you understood at the same.

[ska8er]

Like I told u in ur other thread-ur
threading dangerously.

[dxcxdzv]

13 yo you want to weigh 180 lbs (+80 Kg)?
Do you even realize this really sucks for your health?

[Jinglebottom]

13 yo you want to weigh 180 lbs (+80 Kg)?
Do you even realize this really sucks for your health?
Wow. I'm 15 and weigh like 43 kg (95 lbs).

[Leprous]

Hello guys, I made a post about fat fetish some days ago but it was in the wrong thread. I repost it with new details. So...

I'm sexually actracted by overwight or obese people (both men and women) and I usually have a boner also by eating tons of calories. I've a "eating friend" who eats junk food with me.
I want be fatter ( I'm 13 years old, 142lbs and 5'5'' tall), about 180lbs. I eat a lot of junk food in secret at the night ( like 50-100g of Nutella, biscuits...) and when I go to restaurant or to friends home without my parents I usually eat as much as I can, but it's quite hard weight gain beacause my parents buy only ealthly food and they want to be fit.
I also follow on internet other teen gainers like me.
Should I tell about my fat fetish to my parents (only for have helps to gain weight, maybe they'll understand me and buy me junk food)? Is it probabily that my parents understand me?

I'm not english, I hope you understood at the same.

Alright, to you it might seem good but being obese is extremely unhealthy, if not deadly at one point. You'll loose the abilty to move properly, get allot of health problems like diabetes etc. The chances of you getting bullied are also high at your age.

If I were you I'd go on a diet ASAP. Gaining weight like this is dumb, extremely unhealthy and there is no reason to do this at all.

You have a few options here, continue and probably die young with allot of problems. You will have been bullied allot at that point and you will most likely be depressed.

Or you can stop right now and get healthy.

You're only 13 and what you're doing right now is ruining your entire future.

Choice is yours.

[Phosphene]

Listen to the people who posted above, it is incredibly unhealthy. Especially at this stage in your life, while your body is still growing, it is crucial to keep in good habits; the toll gaining weight will take on you will impact the rest of your life.

[kevenity]

I'd say not to do this. Repeatedly said, this is dangerous to your body and overall health. You should also stop binging late at night when you should be sleeping. You'll regret it once you're overwhelmimgly overweight or diagnosed with multiple illnesses like diabetes or heart disease. Think about trying to gain muscle instead. Please reconsider or try to get help to solve this.

[everlong]

It's a bad idea. Very unhealthy, like everyone else said.

[Darkbisco]

Guys, I've tought about health issue connected with be fat hundreds of times.
Try immagine to be me: you're sexuallity actracted by fat people and you want to begin fat like them. You (like me) have a very bad feel with your thin body, would you take some health risk or not? Everyhow your parents are fit, they want that also you make a lot of sport and eat healthy things (they don't now about your fetish), would you say to the, about your fetish or you would eat in secret? Try to put you in me, after leave a reply.
Bullism is the last of my problem, I've good friends, I'm not worried about it.
Everyhow, thanks for your reply.

[ska8er]

Guys, I've tought about health issue connected with be fat hundreds of times.
Try immagine to be me: you're sexuallity actracted by fat people and you want to begin fat like them. You (like me) have a very bad feel with your thin body, would you take some health risk or not? Everyhow your parents are fit, they want that also you make a lot of sport and eat healthy things (they don't now about your fetish), would you say to the, about your fetish or you would eat in secret? Try to put you in me, after leave a reply.
Bullism is the last of my problem, I've good friends, I'm not worried about it.
Everyhow, thanks for your reply.

:confused: Sorry to b so blunt-I'm not putting u down-its not
my intention and I feel sorry for u-BUT-not only do u need to
c a medical doctor and a dietician but a mental health one also. :(

[Darkbisco]

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[Flapjack]

Hello guys, I made a post about fat fetish some days ago but it was in the wrong thread. I repost it with new details. So...

I'm sexually actracted by overwight or obese people (both men and women) and I usually have a boner also by eating tons of calories. I've a "eating friend" who eats junk food with me.
I want be fatter ( I'm 13 years old, 142lbs and 5'5'' tall), about 180lbs. I eat a lot of junk food in secret at the night ( like 50-100g of Nutella, biscuits...) and when I go to restaurant or to friends home without my parents I usually eat as much as I can, but it's quite hard weight gain beacause my parents buy only ealthly food and they want to be fit.
I also follow on internet other teen gainers like me.
Should I tell about my fat fetish to my parents (only for have helps to gain weight, maybe they'll understand me and buy me junk food)? Is it probabily that my parents understand me?

I'm not english, I hope you understood at the same.
Please do not do this my friend! I understand it is a fetish but some fetishes are unhealthy and must not be indulged in. This is one of them.

Please do tell your parents, I hope they can help and support you to lose the weight.

Is it the weight you want or the fat?

[BrokenWingedPegasus]

I understand it's a fetish, but fetishes aren't exactly a good way to build your life on... Some people have some worse fantasies, and they're an example why it's not a good thing to do. Liking fat people is ok, but you should keep in mind that being fat yourself, just because you want to is not much of a good thing. Please don't take this as an insult or anything of that sort, but as trying to help.

[Darkbisco]

Please do not do this my friend! I understand it is a fetish but some fetishes are unhealthy and must not be indulged in. This is one of them.

Please do tell your parents, I hope they can help and support you to lose the weight.

Is it the weight you want or the fat?

I'm going to think about this possibility, but I think it'll be a no, I like to much fat.

I now that not all fetishes aren't good but this is bad only for me and I've think about healthy issue a lot of time and I conclused that them are not a problem for me ( living 60 years or living 80 years don't make a difference for me).

Why lose weight? Actuallity I'm not overweight.

I'm actracted by fat, the weight is only a objective way to say how much fat.

So you think is impossible my parents help me to weight gain or that them almost anderstand me?

Serch on Internet or youtube "fat teen fetish" or "gainerteen/kid", you'll see that I'm not alone (probabily you'll disgusted :D)

[Darkbisco]

I understand it's a fetish, but fetishes aren't exactly a good way to build your life on... Some people have some worse fantasies, and they're an example why it's not a good thing to do. Liking fat people is ok, but you should keep in mind that being fat yourself, just because you want to is not much of a good thing. Please don't take this as an insult or anything of that sort, but as trying to help.

I now that all people who say to me "It's dangerus" want just to help me, they're reasonable. I'll think about stopping gain weight, but I think I'm not going to stop it.

[BrokenWingedPegasus]

I now that all people who say to me "It's dangerus" want just to help me, they're reasonable. I'll think about stopping gain weight, but I think I'm not going to stop it.

There's nothing wrong with having that fetish. And you may like it, and see videos of fat people eating for example, that's fine. Just try your best to not damage your health a lot, okay? :)

[Flapjack]

I'm going to think about this possibility, but I think it'll be a no, I like to much fat.

I now that not all fetishes aren't good but this is bad only for me and I've think about healthy issue a lot of time and I conclused that them are not a problem for me ( living 60 years or living 80 years don't make a difference for me).

Why lose weight? Actuallity I'm not overweight.

I'm actracted by fat, the weight is only a objective way to say how much fat.

So you think is impossible my parents help me to weight gain or that them almost anderstand me?

Serch on Internet or youtube "fat teen fetish" or "gainerteen/kid", you'll see that I'm not alone (probabily you'll disgusted :D)
That is not how being fat works buddy! It's like smoking, you could live to 120 with nothing but a cough, but you also could develop lung cancer after a month and die. Similar thing with what you're doing and the odds are stacked against you.

Liking fat women is your thing buddy but purposefully making yourself fat is another thing. Do you know the effects it has on your heart and circulation? Even if the weight dosen't kill you soon, you will suffer.

Do you actually know the science behind the diabetes and the effects on the heart?

Please watch these vids buddy
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[Darkbisco]

There's nothing wrong with having that fetish. And you may like it, and see videos of fat people eating for example, that's fine. Just try your best to not damage your health a lot, okay? :)

Ok, I'm going to think about. I'll take you informed about my choices

[Matryoshkasystem]

Darkbisco are you sure its not being influenced by your parents, what I mean by that. You know something is forbidden from you, so it makes you want it even more. Also, what exactly is it that makes you like it? Do you like overweight people, or do you like bigger/heavier people? There is a difference and that could be it. Some people are naturally heavier, and they are healthy. My parents, are an example of that. They would be classified as obese off charts, but in real life they can't go down to the actual recommended weight without becoming deadly anorexic. Also with eating, are you sure its that you just don't want to be bigger in some way, cause if you work out that actually can make you put weight on. Maybe, go to your parents and ask if they can become a bit more lenient with eating, not too the point you seem to want it. I guess like you eat healthy main meals-lunch, breakfast, dinner. And get to have junk food for snacks. It too a point, may be just your way of rebelling. Not saying it can't be a fetish, it may be, but you might be jumping to conclusions way too fast. Your only 13, and not been through much, look deeper than just your reactions. The sexual reaction may just be the Andrenaline rush of doing something considered bad for you or not allowed. There are guys-and gals- who get aroused in the face of danger. Also how long has it been like this, it could just be a phase. Just wait until your an adult, if you still feel like this, then do it. You are young and possibly not looking at it completely, do you want satisfaction now-a possibly only short term, and dangerous-, or wait and get satisfaction later-and it more likely be safer and longer-. Also are you sure its not a your body wanting energy for growing and you've misinterpreted it. Sorry I ask so many questions, but unless we know more, I know you'll just get more defensive on your part, and them on their part.

[Darkbisco]

Darkbisco are you sure its not being influenced by your parents, what I mean by that. You know something is forbidden from you, so it makes you want it even more. Also, what exactly is it that makes you like it? Do you like overweight people, or do you like bigger/heavier people? There is a difference and that could be it. Some people are naturally heavier, and they are healthy. My parents, are an example of that. They would be classified as obese off charts, but in real life they can't go down to the actual recommended weight without becoming deadly anorexic. Also with eating, are you sure its that you just don't want to be bigger in some way, cause if you work out that actually can make you put weight on. Maybe, go to your parents and ask if they can become a bit more lenient with eating, not too the point you seem to want it. I guess like you eat healthy main meals-lunch, breakfast, dinner. And get to have junk food for snacks. It too a point, may be just your way of rebelling. Not saying it can't be a fetish, it may be, but you might be jumping to conclusions way too fast. Your only 13, and not been through much, look deeper than just your reactions. The sexual reaction may just be the Andrenaline rush of doing something considered bad for you or not allowed. There are guys-and gals- who get aroused in the face of danger. Also how long has it been like this, it could just be a phase. Just wait until your an adult, if you still feel like this, then do it. You are young and possibly not looking at it completely, do you want satisfaction now-a possibly only short term, and dangerous-, or wait and get satisfaction later-and it more likely be safer and longer-. Also are you sure its not a your body wanting energy for growing and you've misinterpreted it. Sorry I ask so many questions, but unless we know more, I know you'll just get more defensive on your part, and them on their part.

I like overweight and obese people: touching fat body, in boys I love male tits particularly.

Maybe it's just a phase, but actuality each pounds added makes me happier (now I'm 143) and my feelling with my body begins better.


I think that it's quite hard that a conflit with parents makes sexual actracted by something. But maybe a intresting thing could be that the only point of conflit with my parents it's about sports and food.

Do you study psicology or is it just for ask?

[Darkbisco]

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=118321

In the same forum, he's like me

[Matryoshkasystem]

Darkbisco No don't study in traditional sense, more like study as a hobby. So yes I do study it, but too young to actually study it professionally. Well the only reason I brought up the conflict, is cause you subconciously know your parents won't agree with you, so your body is getting an adrenaline rush resulting in an adrenaline boner.Also considering they haven't made action against the weight change, maybe you actually need more weight. Some people actually become unhealthy when at what's considered healthy. Cause how did you look before, did you look all that healthy-as in could you see bones easily, did you just overall looking back seem as healthy as you do now-. Sorry for sounding like a doctor or psychologoist, just I spent so much time around them, its rubbed off on me. Also not trying to make you feel attacked, but want to make sure I know everything before suggesting anything. Though I am glad you are happier with your body, just make sure to keep your health in mind through this whole process. Happiness is not an excuse to let your health degrade. Just promise me you will try and find yourself a good balance between the two.
Edit:Okay, after seeing that depending how similar you are you might have a binge eating disorder, seems like he does.

[Darkbisco]

Darkbisco No don't study in traditional sense, more like study as a hobby. So yes I do study it, but too young to actually study it professionally. Well the only reason I brought up the conflict, is cause you subconciously know your parents won't agree with you, so your body is getting an adrenaline rush resulting in an adrenaline boner.Also considering they haven't made action against the weight change, maybe you actually need more weight. Some people actually become unhealthy when at what's considered healthy. Cause how did you look before, did you look all that healthy-as in could you see bones easily, did you just overall looking back seem as healthy as you do now-. Sorry for sounding like a doctor or psychologoist, just I spent so much time around them, its rubbed off on me. Also not trying to make you feel attacked, but want to make sure I know everything before suggesting anything. Though I am glad you are happier with your body, just make sure to keep your health in mind through this whole process. Happiness is not an excuse to let your health degrade. Just promise me you will try and find yourself a good balance between the two.
Edit:Okay, after seeing that depending how similar you are you might have a binge eating disorder, seems like he does.

I don,t understand the part about "cause how did you look...." and the edit in your last post. Sorry I'm not english can you repeat it with a easier language?

My parents react to my weight gain:

I understand that I like fat people when I was 11, in that time my parents just put some attentions to my health, more than some parents less than others. At the time I was obviusly too young for buying food in secret, so I only ate in secret and in small quantities the food that was at home. Doing this the weight gain time were so long.
When I was 12 and a half my parents started to buying strange and healthy biscuits, don't buy Nutella, make less pasta at lunch and other thing. And, remember, I wasn't overweight! Only a little fatter than before.
I tried to resist at this "hide" diet. I haven't already buying junk food in secret, but just ate a lot at the party, when I took pizza with out my parents buying always the most fat and ate more food at home. Doing this the weight gain time was very slow. Recently ( like last three weeks) they started to be more strict with deit, but I started buying junk food and eat it at night. I gained 5 pounds (so happy) in only three weeks!
So that is the story about the evolution of parents' diet and of the my gaining strategy. Maybe this will help you.

However 180lbs at 5'5'' it's overweight, not obese, so maybe that could be a good weight.

[Matryoshkasystem]

Darkbisco The Edit: means it wasn't there at first-sorry bad habit from anther Forum. Also what I mean by how did you look, basically did you look like you were too skinny-anorexic-, skinny, normal? Also it depends on how you view it but, by the binge eating disorder, for the other guy, it seems like is the case. I was wondering how similar you two are, is it almost identical, or slight diffrences. Also its okay not to understand, full grown native speaking adults do not sometimes.

Hmm, seems like you and your parents are actually just feeding into one another, maybe try explaining it to them. They just want the best for you, and seeing you gain weight for no reason scares them. Why they want you to try and stay away from those foods, since all they know is that their son won't stop putting on weight, and they don't know the cause. Also reaize this, you aren't done growing, this isn't your final height, so it might end up actually being the weight you need eventually-boys usually weigh more-. Also all this fat might go away some when you start rapidly growing.

[Darkbisco]

Darkbisco The Edit: means it wasn't there at first-sorry bad habit from anther Forum. Also what I mean by how did you look, basically did you look like you were too skinny-anorexic-, skinny, normal? Also it depends on how you view it but, by the binge eating disorder, for the other guy, it seems like is the case. I was wondering how similar you two are, is it almost identical, or slight diffrences. Also its okay not to understand, full grown native speaking adults do not sometimes.

Hmm, seems like you and your parents are actually just feeding into one another, maybe try explaining it to them. They just want the best for you, and seeing you gain weight for no reason scares them. Why they want you to try and stay away from those foods, since all they know is that their son won't stop putting on weight, and they don't know the cause. Also reaize this, you aren't done growing, this isn't your final height, so it might end up actually being the weight you need eventually-boys usually weigh more-. Also all this fat might go away some when you start rapidly growing.

It's quite embarassing, but still don't understand the edit.

No, I never was anorexic and I've never had a situation like " I want to lose weight but I'm unable", and this is the fist difference beetwen me and the other guy. The second it's that I also like showing my (little) fat belly in pubblic using thig shirt or when I'm at the beach (however, I repeat, actuality I'm not overweight).

I think you're right. My parents are just seeing their son getting fat without any reason, because they think that I eat only healthy food and they are scared by this situation. If I tell to them all story their reaction could improve the situation but, if don't, I'll be full of shit probabily. I think that solution is to much risk.

I'm going to search other teen gainer story to send to you, I think them help understand.

[Darkbisco]

http://www.gainerstories.com/biographies/pregrowth.shtml

Another one

[Matryoshkasystem]

Darkbisco well can you tell me what you don't understand about the edit. Also, while I still don't fully understand it. Seems like it, while a bit more dangerous -in terms of medical health-of the kinks, is a kink. Just promise me this, that if this starts to take a toll on your health you will stop and recuperate. Also, not trying to sound mean, but certain parts sound border obsession. Also do realize, certain people won't accept this, some people were abused by being forced into a gainer lifestyle-i was, never worked-, or like that other boy have binge eating disorder-or well possibly-, and can't figure out how something they had to get help for can be seen as healthy, or countless possibilities. Not saying don't follow it, but its not a popular route now.

[Microcosm]

Darkbisco,

Your health is way more important than your sexual urges and desires. Making life decisions like this based on sexual desires is legitimately what animals do.

Don't be an animal, mate. Be a human. Be healthy and don't focus on these fetishes. There are so many better things to think about and act on.

[jamie_n5]

Well down the road when you are older it can pose a great health risk for you. Diabetes and heart problems top the list. I think that you really need some help to beat this fetish.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

As someone that is fat and wants to loose it, don't do it

[City Kid]

Discussion of sexual fetishes is NOT allowed!

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