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Rowlo
February 15th, 2014, 09:10 PM
Look, I really need help and I'm too scared of getting circumcised and stuff. I've never pulled back my foreskin in fear of it hurting me and it's really worrying me i wont be able to have sex or enjoy sexual interaction. Is there any possible way if having it pulled back without me doing it or any excercises which will help it do it on it's own? don't say to me just pull it back because it is worrying me and is scary for some awkward reason haha

Swagging god
February 15th, 2014, 09:14 PM
Do it slowly...just stay calm and use lube or do it in the warm shower to relax the skin. Each time it should get better. Do it at your own pace. I'm cut btw, been since a baby.

MechaSniper
February 15th, 2014, 09:21 PM
Take it easy bro. Foreskin can stretch. When you get circumcised you can still have sex. you just won't have the "natures lube". for the pulling back part it's just excess skin. You have to pull it back yourself because it has no muscles.

TapDancer
February 15th, 2014, 09:22 PM
You can google exercises to help. I would advise you go to a doctor for advise, they normally prescribe a steroid cream of some sort, and that can help loosen it up. My partner has this problem, but I made him see a doctor, and it's getting better. If you want, you could just walk into a sexual health clinic, and they could help you. Thats if you want to do this anonymously. But rarely would a doctor recommend circumcision at a later ages, its seen as far too evasive.

Fireangel
February 15th, 2014, 10:04 PM
Donīt worry, you are young boy, take your time, your foreskin will stretch after 2 or 3 years. Don't force it please.

AlexOnToast
February 16th, 2014, 05:52 AM
Look, I really need help and I'm too scared of getting circumcised and stuff. I've never pulled back my foreskin in fear of it hurting me and it's really worrying me i wont be able to have sex or enjoy sexual interaction. Is there any possible way if having it pulled back without me doing it or any excercises which will help it do it on it's own? don't say to me just pull it back because it is worrying me and is scary for some awkward reason haha

What you might have is Phimosis, which is where the opening of the foreskin is tighter than it should be and in most cases restricts the ability to retract the foreskin. Luckily, circumcision is only really needed for drastic cases and a lot of the time it can be treated without professional medical attention. One way of doing this is to do simple stretching exercises in the bath or shower or somewhere else with warm water that will help relay and loosen the skin. Try stretching the skin to the point where it hurts a tiny bit (but dont go further and force it) and then repeat. After repeated use of this method, many people find that the results are useful.
What can also do is go to a GP or urologist and explain your full situation - and stress the fact that you dont want a circumcision. What they might recommend in that case is a procedure where a small slit is made at the opening of the foreskin which allows for unrestricted movement of the skin over the head. From what i can tell, the procedure would be quick, painless and has a quick recovery time, and doesnt effect the sensitivity or function of the foreskin :)
But as I said there are many options to choose from before you begin to debate any surgical procedures, and it is worth doing a bit of research and trying a few things first.
Good luck bro, hope I could help :D

deregisterme
February 16th, 2014, 06:06 AM
Look, I really need help and I'm too scared of getting circumcised and stuff. I've never pulled back my foreskin in fear of it hurting me and it's really worrying me i wont be able to have sex or enjoy sexual interaction. Is there any possible way if having it pulled back without me doing it or any excercises which will help it do it on it's own? don't say to me just pull it back because it is worrying me and is scary for some awkward reason haha

What you might have is Phimosis, which is where the opening of the foreskin is tighter than it should be and in most cases restricts the ability to retract the foreskin. Luckily, circumcision is only really needed for drastic cases and a lot of the time it can be treated without professional medical attention. One way of doing this is to do simple stretching exercises in the bath or shower or somewhere else with warm water that will help relay and loosen the skin. Try stretching the skin to the point where it hurts a tiny bit (but dont go further and force it) and then repeat. After repeated use of this method, many people find that the results are useful.
What can also do is go to a GP or urologist and explain your full situation - and stress the fact that you dont want a circumcision. What they might recommend in that case is a procedure where a small slit is made at the opening of the foreskin which allows for unrestricted movement of the skin over the head. From what i can tell, the procedure would be quick, painless and has a quick recovery time, and doesnt effect the sensitivity or function of the foreskin :)
But as I said there are many options to choose from before you begin to debate any surgical procedures, and it is worth doing a bit of research and trying a few things first.
Good luck bro, hope I could help :D

Alex has pretty much hit the nail on the head here. Can you pull it back when soft?

DarkHorse4eva
February 18th, 2014, 04:39 PM
go to the doctor, he can help

Zanman11
February 18th, 2014, 05:10 PM
I had the exact same fear... Just take it slow and just feel at first... Then pull back slightly and then just stretch it as far as you feel comfortable with every day