First makeout and handjob in a group... its that bad...

[RSDYoungster]

Hey guys,

So I just wanted to bring up a problem ive been having since my first makeout.

I can not talk in isolation with a girl I already know.

Ever since the middle school I have been good with girls.

There has always been one problem though, with or without girls if I am alone with somebody, I have nothing to talk about. This only happens with someone I already know though. Like if it is a new girl I meet or guy I am the shit and connect instantly, but the second time I see them there is nothing to talk about.

Its so bad that even my first makeout in 8th grade was a bunch of couples hanging out which turned into makeout with me and my gf at the time.

Even my first handjob was in a gathering, as I would talk to everyone then talk to the girl and was really cool and such to her, which led her to giving me a handjob in secret while poeple were around us. How I got a blowjob is still a mystery lol.

I do not trust myself in isolation with a girl and that is one of my biggest problems.... What can I do!?

I live in New England to if that makes any difference lol.

Thanks!

[Anonymous2002]

Hey guys,

So I just wanted to bring up a problem ive been having since my first makeout.

I can not talk in isolation with a girl I already know.

Ever since the middle school I have been good with girls.

There has always been one problem though, with or without girls if I am alone with somebody, I have nothing to talk about. This only happens with someone I already know though. Like if it is a new girl I meet or guy I am the shit and connect instantly, but the second time I see them there is nothing to talk about.

Its so bad that even my first makeout in 8th grade was a bunch of couples hanging out which turned into makeout with me and my gf at the time.

Even my first handjob was in a gathering, as I would talk to everyone then talk to the girl and was really cool and such to her, which led her to giving me a handjob in secret while poeple were around us. How I got a blowjob is still a mystery lol.

I do not trust myself in isolation with a girl and that is one of my biggest problems.... What can I do!?

I live in New England to if that makes any difference lol.

Thanks!

I could never get a handjob in public or with anyone around, it would be way to noticeable, but i'd suggest not letting it get too out of hand

[ashdyn]

It's all in your head dude. Just don't automatically think "oh shit I'm gunna have nothing to talk about" when you get to a one on one situation. Relax. And be your same charming self that you seem to be when you're in a group setting.

[Zachary G]

It's all in your head dude. Just don't automatically think "oh shit I'm gunna have nothing to talk about" when you get to a one on one situation. Relax. And be your same charming self that you seem to be when you're in a group setting.

Yeah, just relax and let things happen naturally. There is always something to talk about - I always star out with a small round of questions to see if I can find a topic then go from there. Youve got this dude, no stress

[Cadanance00]

Work on conversational skills. Make a list of all the questions you can think of to ask a girl that can't be answered with one word. And a lot of "how do feel about....?/What do you think of......?/What's wrong with ......?/What do you like about.......?" questions. And find out what she's interested in and learn all you can about it so you can talk to her about it.

And what it is that you don't trust yourself about when you're alone with a girl?