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[benlodge123]

Hey there,

A few months back a girl messaged me (Ruby was her name) she randomly said i was her world, i found this weird as i only new a little about her. the days past and we spoke, then out of the blues she said she wanted have sex with me. I was puzzled. I said yeah why not, since then she hasn't left me alone. Its messing with my head. The problem arose when I realized i had never liked her. How do I tell her? I won't to get on with my life. It doesn't seem bad here but in my head it does. We had traded nudes and carried on talking. I had jumped the gun and not took into account the problems that would appear when people found out, i am easily irritated. I don't know what made me hate her, i just hid myself away from her, as i like someone new. I don't know how to end that pointless friendship with Ruby and get on with the girl i now like (Millie)

Any help??

[Just JT]

Was this like a Fwb relationship or was this like a BF/gf type deal?

[Jane Eyre]

I bet this girl wants something more from you than mere physical intimacy... I don't mean to scare you but I have seen many guys whose lives were literally messed up like hell only due to some kind of friendship with 'strange' people... so be very careful.

[benlodge123]

Was this like a Fwb relationship or was this like a BF/gf type deal?

It was like a BF/GF relationship

[Just JT]

It was like a BF/GF relationship


So basically you were fucking her and never liked her?
Sorry bro, don't mean to be judgemental here but.....
Think about it....


Just saying, you brought it up, not sure what to say. Talk to her, ask her where she wants this to go, who knows, maybe she feels the sa,e way and don't know how to tell you...

[Tesserax]

Just tell her the truth. "Actually, I'm really sorry I didn't mean to lead you on but I kind of realized that I don't really like you in that way. I'm really sorry, and I wasn't thinking"

[benlodge123]

So basically you were fucking her and never liked her?
Sorry bro, don't mean to be judgemental here but.....
Think about it....


Just saying, you brought it up, not sure what to say. Talk to her, ask her where she wants this to go, who knows, maybe she feels the sa,e way and don't know how to tell you...

I said i no longer wanted to have anything to do with her. I want to get on with my life and now i like someone else! She said "okay x" and left it there.
Probably a bit sad but what else can i do!