How do you find out?

[ValentinClarke]

How do you find out about someone's sexuality? This is a really difficult thing for me, especially as many people don't even know it at this moment in time. There's been people in the past who I've liked, who have turned out to be straight, and there's this cute guy again that I wanna see how things go, but I need to find out his sexuality first. BTW, I'm Bi-curious

[Just JT]

Well, depending on how open your school or community is about different sexualities, and how close you are with him, you could ask him.

If that's not an option, ask someone else who knows him and you. But, if he is gay, his friend may not tell you.

You could also try to become friends first, get to k is him, and as time moves and you become better aquaintenses, etc. I'll bet you'll find out somehow

Are you open about your sexuality?
If you are, and you try to befriend him, he'll let you know if he's interested, and open about his sexuality.

Bottom line, there's really no good easy way to find this out. Someone has to take a plunge and go for it really

[Zachary G]

determining someones sexuality is very difficult unless you just come out and ask someone. I would say dont stress it and just continue being friends with this guy you like and see where things go between you -- let things happen naturally -- at some point you will be able to figure him out. Patience.

[Elysium]

There is no way to know for certain and you definitely shouldn't make assumptions or guesses. The best and only way is by hearing it from them and only them. In other words, you can ask or just bring it up in conversation and hope they volunteer the information themselves.

[lliam]

How do you find out about someone's sexuality?


I don't. cause I usually don't care. Cause mostly just a person's character counts to me.



Of course there are those situations where you will be directly confronted with the sexuality of someone.


Then I say to the guy: Sorry, I'm not gay.
or ... the girl tells me: Sorry, I'm not into guys.



All in all, it's pretty easy to handle.

[Katie NYC]

You ask. Asking doesn't imply judgment, unless you're a judgmental douche.

[ska8er]

U make friends with someone and as the
friendship grows u get to know more about
the person and what they like and what other
friends they have-I call it scoping out. U never
ask someone personally what they r or even hint
at it-u just might weird them out-play it cool.