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Ainsleyshea
February 15th, 2014, 07:56 PM
I've told some people that im gay but some of my best friends are homophobic and they wont approve of it or I will be beat up should I stay in the closet or should I just say ?

Elysium
February 15th, 2014, 07:57 PM
If there's actually a threat that anyone would physically harm you for saying something, it's probably best that you don't.

MechaSniper
February 15th, 2014, 08:03 PM
Wow tough decision. I don't know man. If they were your true friends they wouldn't care.

chrisjenkins
February 15th, 2014, 08:19 PM
If you fear for your well being then don't tell them. And they might not be the best friends of they won't accept who you are.

KiyoshisIsland
February 15th, 2014, 11:36 PM
Beat you up? That seems really harsh but some people really are cruel. If they would beat you up you should probably stay in the closet

AlexOnToast
February 16th, 2014, 03:40 PM
I'm afraid you are going to come out luckless either way in this situation.
If you are afraid for your safety, I'm afraid self-supression around your peers may be the bast way to go :(

Croconaw
February 16th, 2014, 04:34 PM
They are not your real friends.

JamesSC
February 16th, 2014, 04:37 PM
Tell them, if they don't like it, beat the fuck into them.

ImAurora
February 16th, 2014, 09:04 PM
They're not your friends if they would do that to you simply because of your sexuality. Or at all.

everlong
February 16th, 2014, 11:27 PM
Friends that will harm you for being gay are not your real friends

PinkFloyd
February 16th, 2014, 11:37 PM
You should tell them. If they don't approve then they aren't worth being around by any means. Tell them that they shouldn't tell you how to live your life. If you're afraid for your safety, defend yourself however you feel you should. Good luck. :)

DarkHorse4eva
February 17th, 2014, 05:17 AM
you shouldn't tell them if they're gonna beat you for it.