In a thing/hooked up - What to do from here?

[Bridlemaple1]

Back Story

Last weekend I decided to go to a party and after the first hour I'd drank way too much. I ended up talking to this girl who was equally (if not slightly more intoxicated) and we ended up making out/hooking up. We also had a good conversation and spent the rest of the party together sitting in each other's arms and having general life conversation. I added her on facebook and decided to send her a message the next morning, we've been talking a lot now for the past five days.

What I don't know/need advice on

I'm not sure what to do from here, I hadn't known this girl prior to this but now we're messaging pretty much constantly. She lives roughly 50km away but that's not much of a problem. I could imagine it being something. But I'm not sure where to take it from here, when a girl keeps messaging you after something like that is it a good sign?

My overall goal is to turn this hook up into something more, but I'm not sure how long I should talk to her more, whether I should meet up with her a little more or whether I just flatly ask her out?

Any advice?

[Cadanance00]

I don't see what's the problem here. Why don't you ask her out and let things develop if they do.

[Sports Boy]

^^What Cadanance said. Ask her out. Go out to lunch somewhere. Ask to go for a walk at some place nice. Sounds like she would be into it. If she's not, then you can decide if you just want to be friends.

[ashdyn]

Just keep doing what you're doing lol baby steps.
The good news is she's actually talking to you which means you weren't a drunken mistake lmao

[FuTo]

Boy if a girls messages you everyday then go for it.

[Tesserax]

This is like, the dream man. She's interested in you, she talks to you every day, and you two had a somewhat meaningful conversation while drunk? That's rare, and special. Don't be afraid, go for it and shoot for the stars! Good luck man :)

[Flapjack]

Back Story

Last weekend I decided to go to a party and after the first hour I'd drank way too much. I ended up talking to this girl who was equally (if not slightly more intoxicated) and we ended up making out/hooking up. We also had a good conversation and spent the rest of the party together sitting in each other's arms and having general life conversation. I added her on facebook and decided to send her a message the next morning, we've been talking a lot now for the past five days.

What I don't know/need advice on

I'm not sure what to do from here, I hadn't known this girl prior to this but now we're messaging pretty much constantly. She lives roughly 50km away but that's not much of a problem. I could imagine it being something. But I'm not sure where to take it from here, when a girl keeps messaging you after something like that is it a good sign?

My overall goal is to turn this hook up into something more, but I'm not sure how long I should talk to her more, whether I should meet up with her a little more or whether I just flatly ask her out?

Any advice?
Don't ask her out yet buddy! Get to know her more first:)

[Bridlemaple1]

Thanks for the advice all of you. It was going well for a little bit, we hung out again after the party and she actually moved locally. We talked more but it went silent for a good while. Just found out on facebook today she's just entered a relationship. Little bit surprised but happy she found someone. Such is life I guess.

[jamie_n5]

I think it's a good sign that she is messaging you. It shows she likes you and is interested in you. I would just tell her in your texting that you really like her and would like to date her. Then however she reacts from that go ahead from there. Good Luck.

[Just JT]

Seems you already know what to do, so follow your instincts and have a good time. You'll know what, if anything, or how much of what ever she wants in time. So go for it and have fun.

[DoodleSnap]

My best advice is that you shouldn't think it through too much. You are in the first stages of getting to know each other, and you are talking regularly, so just enjoy that for the time being. If you feel the time is right for both of you, you will know it. Just remember that the key to a healthy relationship is good communication and honesty.

Good luck.

[hesaidhesaid]

Boy if a girls messages you everyday then go for it.

What he said. FOR GOODNESS SAKE GIVE IT A GO.
You have nothing to lose.