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nestau
May 31st, 2016, 02:50 PM
Hey everyone!

I literally just registered onto this website, because I've had this question on my mind for quite some time now. I'm male and currently 17 years old. It took me quite some time to kind of "accept" that I'm sort of attracted to the male physique. For a long time I argued with myself saying that I only compare myself with those body types. I've had body image issues and I would always compare myself to other bodies. An attractive male physique is basically the body I wish I had, so I'm pretty confused, am I attracted to it? :what: I wouldn't say that I could have feelings for a guy.

Whenever I think of my future I picture myself with a wife and kids. I imagine myself falling in love with a girl and I see myself being with a girl. I've never been in a relationship before btw.

My current situation: I have feeling for this girl that I've had feelings for before. I feel like she's the one if you know what I mean.

I thank everyone in advance for helping me in any way! :)

lemondrop
May 31st, 2016, 02:56 PM
nah you're not bi, you just compare yourself to others... same example would be to compare your grades with someones else ;) so don't worry you're str8 as a winding road :DD jk ,jk supposed to be <<arrow.

ValentinClarke
May 31st, 2016, 03:13 PM
Hey everyone!

I literally just registered onto this website, because I've had this question on my mind for quite some time now. I'm male and currently 17 years old. It took me quite some time to kind of "accept" that I'm sort of attracted to the male physique. For a long time I argued with myself saying that I only compare myself with those body types. I've had body image issues and I would always compare myself to other bodies. An attractive male physique is basically the body I wish I had, so I'm pretty confused, am I attracted to it? :what: I wouldn't say that I could have feelings for a guy.

Whenever I think of my future I picture myself with a wife and kids. I imagine myself falling in love with a girl and I see myself being with a girl. I've never been in a relationship before btw.

My current situation: I have feeling for this girl that I've had feelings for before. I feel like she's the one if you know what I mean.

I thank everyone in advance for helping me in any way! :)
It's like you feel a lot how I feel. I've never had a relationship either... It's difficult, especially when you develop feelings...

Flapjack
May 31st, 2016, 03:15 PM
Hey everyone!

I literally just registered onto this website, because I've had this question on my mind for quite some time now. I'm male and currently 17 years old. It took me quite some time to kind of "accept" that I'm sort of attracted to the male physique. For a long time I argued with myself saying that I only compare myself with those body types. I've had body image issues and I would always compare myself to other bodies. An attractive male physique is basically the body I wish I had, so I'm pretty confused, am I attracted to it? :what: I wouldn't say that I could have feelings for a guy.

Whenever I think of my future I picture myself with a wife and kids. I imagine myself falling in love with a girl and I see myself being with a girl. I've never been in a relationship before btw.

My current situation: I have feeling for this girl that I've had feelings for before. I feel like she's the one if you know what I mean.

I thank everyone in advance for helping me in any way! :)

Sexuality is a spectrum my friend. You could be 99% straight and 1% gay:)

Bull
May 31st, 2016, 03:31 PM
Admiring a well developed body does not have to include sexual feelings. It is just appreciating the look. Now if you see a well built guy and think to yourself that you would like to do something sexual with him, that is a whole different discussion. Sound to me you are just looking. So, no, I don't think you are bi.

Cadanance00
May 31st, 2016, 05:01 PM
I think you're straight. Admiring a male physique doesn't make you bi, or even finding a male sexually attractive. Kinda normal I think.

SethfromMI
May 31st, 2016, 05:03 PM
it sounds like you are just wishing you had a body another guy has. if you want to have sex with them, then I would say you are at least bi curious. saying you wish you looked like them instead of you, naw that does not make you attracted to guys

Just JT
May 31st, 2016, 06:46 PM
I agree with the Adobe posters. Even if yiu were sexually attracted to a really good looking guy, but only sexually, really means not much really.
Your 17, still puberty, hormones, if that
Follow the girls bro

ashdaniel
May 31st, 2016, 10:25 PM
Hey everyone!

I literally just registered onto this website, because I've had this question on my mind for quite some time now. I'm male and currently 17 years old. It took me quite some time to kind of "accept" that I'm sort of attracted to the male physique. For a long time I argued with myself saying that I only compare myself with those body types. I've had body image issues and I would always compare myself to other bodies. An attractive male physique is basically the body I wish I had, so I'm pretty confused, am I attracted to it? :what: I wouldn't say that I could have feelings for a guy.

Whenever I think of my future I picture myself with a wife and kids. I imagine myself falling in love with a girl and I see myself being with a girl. I've never been in a relationship before btw.

My current situation: I have feeling for this girl that I've had feelings for before. I feel like she's the one if you know what I mean.

I thank everyone in advance for helping me in any way! :)

Wow, I am the exact the same feeling. Growing up, I am attracted to male and always horny about it but I cant see myself with a guy in the future. I imagine getting married to a girl and have children. It was so complicated. I have try things with guy earlier teen to try things out. I first date a guy two years ago and it was my first relationship then my second ex bf which I break up six months ago. Believe me, it is hard to choose or decide. I still confuse what I am into, sometime I am totally sick of getting with same sex but I havent date any girl yet. The best advice I can give is try things out and dont give yourself pressure. What will happen will happen.