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Ineedyou
May 30th, 2016, 07:19 PM
Ive been bestfriends with this guy for over 3 years, he literally know everything about me. We used to hang out everyday we could and talk nonstop, but recently it's changed. We were talking once and he called me a "douchebag", I asked him what did I do and he just says "your just annoying". I was just completely shocked, out of no where he says this. I havnt changed anything about me so was just so confused.

Later we talk again and he doesnt seem mad, but ever since he said that, our relationship isnt the same. We used to talk non stop, but now its hard to even hold a conversation with each other. I dont want to lose him, but i feel we are growing apart day by day. We used to talk everyday, now we barley talk once a week. What can I do to fix our relationship?

Just JT
May 30th, 2016, 08:06 PM
Could be a couple things. He might of just been messing with ya and giving you some shit about something, and you didn't get it, or your being hyper sensitive about it
Either way, you could try n talk to him about it, and see what is goin on
The other thing to think about, people change, friends come and go, in and out. So might just be a change thing going on or something

Body odah Man
May 31st, 2016, 02:39 AM
Ive been bestfriends with this guy for over 3 years, he literally know everything about me. We used to hang out everyday we could and talk nonstop, but recently it's changed. We were talking once and he called me a "douchebag", I asked him what did I do and he just says "your just annoying". I was just completely shocked, out of no where he says this. I havnt changed anything about me so was just so confused.

Later we talk again and he doesnt seem mad, but ever since he said that, our relationship isnt the same. We used to talk non stop, but now its hard to even hold a conversation with each other. I dont want to lose him, but i feel we are growing apart day by day. We used to talk everyday, now we barley talk once a week. What can I do to fix our relationship?

Maybe you are one and he only now realized it?

Tim987
June 7th, 2016, 05:44 AM
Maybe you are one and he only now realized it?

That's real nice of you...


I think give it a rest a bit cut off communication and then invite him out for coffee or somthing do somthing with him not a date just a casual hey we are friends so of thing