** urgent boy problems **

[Girl12345]

Okay, so I've known this boy for 4 years (weren't extremely close during the 2 first) but got chatting on our 3rd year of knowing each other. I like him and everyone does say that he likes me back but I'm never sure. Our relationship is strong (very) and I don't want to lose it by asking him out. He also mad a bet with his friend to not get a Girlfriend until he was 14 but I'm pretty sure he'd ditch that. Opinions?

[Merk]

Well how old is he now?

[Cadanance00]

I don't see anything wrong with asking him out.

[Mattlol]

Ask him out, see what happens. if he's a good friend you won't lose him over something like that :)

[Uniquemind]

Just don't rush sexual things too fast, but strengthen that bond with a couple dates.

Nothin wrong with that.

[Zachary G]

nothing wrong with asking him out on a date or two as friends to see how things go. I find that geetting to know someone as a friend makes things better when dating them

[Tim987]

If he likes you then great if not its a shame but you can still be friends what sucks is that we think if we ask someone out and they don't like ys back that you cant be friends anymore and that just isnt the case

[Tesserax]

Okay, so I've known this boy for 4 years (weren't extremely close during the 2 first) but got chatting on our 3rd year of knowing each other. I like him and everyone does say that he likes me back but I'm never sure. Our relationship is strong (very) and I don't want to lose it by asking him out. He also mad a bet with his friend to not get a Girlfriend until he was 14 but I'm pretty sure he'd ditch that. Opinions?

To be honest, this sounds great. Many don't have the luxury of knowing their partner for a long time, and those who do more often than not find that this can strengthen their relationship. Go for it, chances are he's feeling the same was as you and is just too shy to ask you. Just go for a movie or something, see how it goes, and find an opportunity to hold his hand for some reason, hug him, something to break the physical contact, and then if you're lucky a kiss may become a possibility. Don't rush things though, you don't want to ruin it or get too attached too quickly, you'll want to get to know him even better first. Good luck!