Confused about attraction

[JHenryF]

I'm physically (and possibly sexually, I'm not exactly sure) attracted to guys, but I'm emotionally attracted to girls. I could NEVER be in a relationship with a guy. So is it possible to want to spend your life with one gender but want to sexually interact with the other gender? How do I find out exactly what I want?

[Slashman1]

yes it is possible it sounds like your maybe bi or even just straight but curious about guys also and a way to find out i guess is to do something with a guy find out if you really do like it or not

[Just JT]

I'd say it is possible. I'm attracted to both guys and girls, but can't see myself being with a girl for a lifetime or anything. Sexuality is different for everyone
Only way to see if you like something is to try it

[Matryoshkasystem]

You may be a homosexual heteroromantic. This happens a lot with aces-no sexual attraction- with having clashing orientations.

[zaccary]

Yeah that sounds ok, you could get into a relationship with a girl, and if she was ok with it, have a threesome with a guy. I feel like stuff like this is becoming more popular so dont sweat it.

[JHenryF]

It's just so confusing to me... I understand that it's possible, and that I can't even really know because I've never done anything with anyone before, but I don't understand how I'm gonna find it out. Have sex with a guy and a girl at the same time? :-P

[the darkness]

I'm probably the same lol

[ValentinClarke]

I'm physically (and possibly sexually, I'm not exactly sure) attracted to guys, but I'm emotionally attracted to girls. I could NEVER be in a relationship with a guy. So is it possible to want to spend your life with one gender but want to sexually interact with the other gender? How do I find out exactly what I want?
You just described exactly how I'm feeling at the moment. It changes for me, sometimes I feel as if I'm bi, sometimes, straight curious, sometimes gay.
But, to be honest, FUCK LABELS. Just live your life, and it will come to you. Experiment, try things out, it's what being young is for.

[Bull]

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But, to be honest, FUCK LABELS. Just live your life, and it will come to you. Experiment, try things out.

I was never really curious about guys (played sports and saw naked guys in locker rooms and showers a lot) sexually until I was 17. Had a short summer fling with a guy and then back to girls. Now with a guy. Long range, have no idea with which gender I will end up spending the rest of my life. Not to worry, time will work it out. In the meantime enjoy life as it presents to you. :yeah:

[Tim987]

I'm physically (and possibly sexually, I'm not exactly sure) attracted to guys, but I'm emotionally attracted to girls. I could NEVER be in a relationship with a guy. So is it possible to want to spend your life with one gender but want to sexually interact with the other gender? How do I find out exactly what I want?

You are who you are

[Living For Love]

Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality and Gender.

[Zachary G]

I'm physically (and possibly sexually, I'm not exactly sure) attracted to guys, but I'm emotionally attracted to girls. I could NEVER be in a relationship with a guy. So is it possible to want to spend your life with one gender but want to sexually interact with the other gender? How do I find out exactly what I want?

Its a difficult situation to be in and very confusing to say the least. The only way you can truly find out the answer you are seeking is to put yourself in that situation and see what feelings you get.

[Just JT]

It's just so confusing to me... I understand that it's possible, and that I can't even really know because I've never done anything with anyone before, but I don't understand how I'm gonna find it out. Have sex with a guy and a girl at the same time? :-P

When the situation arises you'll see your way through it, it's just a matter of time is all. Just don't get yourself all stressed out over it. We've all gone through the same thing at some point in time in different degrees. Is fucked up, you think you'd know yourself so well, but can't figure out what seems like almost the most important identity of yourself.

Just let it go and be yourself and it'll resolve itself in time

I was never really curious about guys (played sports and saw naked guys in locker rooms and showers a lot) sexually until I was 17. Had a short summer fling with a guy and then back to girls. Now with a guy. Long range, have no idea with which gender I will end up spending the rest of my life. Not to worry, time will work it out. In the meantime enjoy life as it presents to you. :yeah:

Perfect example
See what I mean?