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ValentinClarke
May 28th, 2016, 01:53 PM
Okay, I'm going to explain about my feelings, and I want to know what sexuality you think I may be/
I have never had a relationship in my life, I'm 15 years old.
I have fancied about 3 guys in my life, 2 of whom I could say that I had loved. I have never had my love be requited. However, if I had had the chance, I would not have had sex with them, partially because a) I don't want to lose my virginity to a guy, and b) because I wasn't really interested in that.
I am kinda talking to this girl, and I smile when she sends a message to me, but she's going on about how she likes me, and we've only known each other a day, but it is moving too quick for me.
In the past, I've seen a vagina in the flesh, and I was kinda erect, but when I see a dick in real life, I don't get erect. But, I get erect if a guy talks about their pubes, or shows me them, or talks about a sexual experience.
I've kissed a girl, and after that I felt more straight, but then I didn't kiss anyone for ages, and felt confused again. I don't get erect really if I see a vagina in porn, unless it's like in certain situations. I really don't know. I could be aromantic, or asexual, cos it feels that way. I only get erections if I think of really hot guys in sexual situations, but I really don't know my sexuality. I don't think I could have a boyfriend. I could have a girlfriend, or a wife, and I really want to have a wife and kids. I really don't know what I am to be honest.

lemondrop
May 28th, 2016, 02:30 PM
Reminds myself :D , i would say that you're bi ,but screw the label... i used to think like that also "I don't think I could have a boyfriend. I could have a girlfriend, or a wife, and I really want to have a wife and kids",because i would always try to convince myself that i'm 100% str8 ,but this never really helped me. You need time , relationships. Just be yourself, whole life is a huge and tiring expedition towards discovery of something new. Don't rush ,you'll feel everything love,loss,sorrow,desire,happiness,confusion, anger ,sadness - everything . Try smth out with that girl, check if you like it ,you can be bi with a gf this doesn't mean you must stay with bf or even alone. Enjoy the life ,no one lives forever ;)

Cadanance00
May 28th, 2016, 06:09 PM
I'd say you're straight.

ska8er
May 28th, 2016, 06:10 PM
Dude u just retold my life-I would say ur
Bi-Curious-continue being friends with the
girl and c where that friendship goes but there
is no reason-if u meet a guy that u feel something
for that u can also start a friendship-take it easy
and just c where it all goes and later maybe u can
decide what ur sexuality is-that is how I'm dealing
with it cause I don't want to screw up my mind.

Just JT
May 28th, 2016, 06:29 PM
Do you need to label yourself?
Just follow your sexual desires, and have fun with it

Dalcourt
May 28th, 2016, 11:28 PM
You are 15 so you are still young and have time to experience and find out what you want. There's no need to think about it so much and try to find a label.