Questioning your sexuality (guys only)

[Sanchez16620]

So recently I went to a party and there was a really nice guy (kinda cute) and he started talking to me it was just amazing he made me feel like I've never felt before and well long story short I ended up getting a boner. He noticed it and kinda poked I guess and he called me cute. I'm not sure if he's gay or what but he made me feel like no one else ever has. The thing is though I also like girls. I'm not sure if I'm bi or gay because of this guy . I guess my question is if you've ever questioned your sexuality because of one person if yes explain.

[drhalsey1]

Well, I know I'm gay now, but before I had figured out what gay was or that it described me I questioned my sexuality because of one person. I had grown up not knowing people could like the same gender, I had joined boy scouts when I was 9 and when I went I made a friend, I saw him every week pretty much and as I got to know him, become friends, and see him more over time I really started noticing I had liked him since I met him. I had seen him until I was 12, when I unfortunately moved but I certainly questioned it for a while before figuring out for sure I just plain liked him and fighting out what gay was. Hope that helps, somewhat at least

[ska8er]

The cute guy called u cute-lasso him before he finds another stud.

I'm best friends with my best bud and have had many jack off and
blow job sessions with him-I have a girl and so does he-totally but
I question myself cause of him but he wants to go a bit further with
me but I don't go that far-I get turned on by guys but want to mess
with girls-I guess u can say I'm F**ked up.

[alex67]

A year ago or so I'd say I considered myself as being straight but curious, but then this curiosity started to grow inside me until a point where it is greater than my straight feelings. Then I realized I was actually bi since I would feel nice having a gf but I am attracted to boys too. Once I was sure about my sexuality I started to look at boys from school until I fell in love with one. He is really cute and really makes me feel what nobody else has ever made me feel. I still have a crush on him but he doesn't know though.

[Just JT]

You might be bi, or gay, or straight. There's no way of really knowing, because it's how you feel. It's perfectly normal to question, and just because you find that guy attractive doesn't necessarily mean your bi or gay, it's just that your attracted to him. Straight guys have done stuff together before, not abnormal really.
Just go with it, maybe he's into you also. He said he thinks your cute, so go for it. Only way to find out if you like something is to try it

[ska8er]

A year ago or so I'd say I considered myself as being straight but curious, but then this curiosity started to grow inside me until a point where it is greater than my straight feelings. Then I realized I was actually bi since I would feel nice having a gf but I am attracted to boys too. Once I was sure about my sexuality I started to look at boys from school until I fell in love with one. He is really cute and really makes me feel what nobody else has ever made me feel. I still have a crush on him but he doesn't know though.

Bro-Can I relate to u totally-I know how u feel.
U have a crush but he doesn't know it-
U have a Straight Crush. :wub:

[Just JT]

Bro-Can I relate to u totally-I know how u feel.
U have a crush but he doesn't know it-
U have a Straight Crush. :wub:

Haha!! Yup!!
I think it's so weird sometimes when you listen to like an older adult talk about what it was like to be thought of being gay or bi or even the thought of questioning your sexuality when they were kids, it was so wrong then I guess.
And now, it's like so normal, straight, bi, gay, transgender, whatever, and it's all so normal ok and to me seems pretty confusing pain I the ass, but also pretty cool, because it is ok and normal...

[ska8er]

Haha!! Yup!!
I think it's so weird sometimes when you listen to like an older adult talk about what it was like to be thought of being gay or bi or even the thought of questioning your sexuality when they were kids, it was so wrong then I guess.
And now, it's like so normal, straight, bi, gay, transgender, whatever, and it's all so normal ok and to me seems pretty confusing pain I the ass, but also pretty cool, because it is ok and normal...

From what I have read-being different back long ago
was very difficult and more dangerous than it is now
but I think lifestyles r more liberal now-not that it is
not dangerous-it is to a point but I think there r more
people who have come out and a lot have come to
live with others who have a different lifestyle.

[Just JT]

sk8er I think your right. Idk where the change happened, but I think it's a good one, people are who they are, and shouldn't be in a unsafe situation because of who they are.
But still don't change the OP's situation, only helps to understand that it's ok to be questioning, we all go through it to some degree I'm sure

[Flapjack]

So recently I went to a party and there was a really nice guy (kinda cute) and he started talking to me it was just amazing he made me feel like I've never felt before and well long story short I ended up getting a boner. He noticed it and kinda poked I guess and he called me cute. I'm not sure if he's gay or what but he made me feel like no one else ever has. The thing is though I also like girls. I'm not sure if I'm bi or gay because of this guy . I guess my question is if you've ever questioned your sexuality because of one person if yes explain.

My friend, sexuality is a spectrum! You can be 90% gay and still like girls ya know?:) Wish you luck with the guy!!

[andyh007]

Like others have said sexuality is a spectrum and everybody is different. I personally havnt met a guy that I was sexually attracted to but that doesn't mean it couldn't happen some day. For right now though I just love boobs too much lol. Just do what feels natural and right and everything will turn out ok. Good luck

[Biomicro]

It doesnt matter he's gay or not just need to see feeling that the conversation and your feeling to him !

[Canadian Dream]

The same has happened to me in a bit of a different way, because it was sort of a weird encounter and it only happened once. Now it looks like you're sure of yourself about being attracted to other guys, and although you're the only one who ultimately knows what your sexuality is good questions to ask yourself would be how often you're attracted to girls, and if it seems like you are equally attracted to guys and girls. That should help you determine whether your are gay or bi.

[hairy balls]

I don't believe one or two boys can make you gay just as one or two girls will make you str8 . just be friends with him don't push your feelings to soon but also don't reject any advances he may make towards you and only do what you feel conferrable to do with him and keep an opened mind maybe a girl will come along and you might have the same feelings towards her .

[Catholic Guy]

There's a spectrum of sexuality and everyone is somewhere on it, some people may be more in to girls, more into guys, in the middle and so on but you just have to experiment to see what is good for you, if you enjoyed talking to him/hanging out with him then do it more and just see what happens and how you feel

[Living For Love]

The cute guy called u cute-lasso him before he finds another stud.
This is what I call "seizing the opportunity" :D

Also, Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[ska8er]

This is what I call "seizing the opportunity" :D

Also, Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality and Gender


:lol: Yeppers :yes: