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Onlyfaith
May 20th, 2016, 05:05 PM
Hello everyone! Well, there is a guy that I like. Before um about a week I send him on Facebook to ask him about a teacher ans we started talking... we've talked about 5 days... maybe a bit more... and I see him very positive talking to me on Facebook. Today I sent him goodnight and he told me we'll talk, goodnight.
Anyway, that's not the point. I am feeling very good talking with him, and I have not felt like that for months. The teacher that teachs us both told me that he stays about less than 100 metres away ( I kinda knew it, was not sure) but I guess he does not. We gotta go to school in Thursday and we both go from the way -it's the only one anyways- and I was thinking to tell him that we live close and if he likes go to school together... BUT I'm afraid that I'll lost the chat with him... even if he says no would it be good text him again? I don't really know what I should do. Yeah that chat is great but god damn we live 100 metres away and we go in the same school, he is also 17... at least I wanted a chance to talk to him face to face... but I'm scared way too scared... what's your opinion guys?
P.S if you wondered about the title, he is the only guy that has ever treat me well even in that way.
lemondrop
May 20th, 2016, 05:26 PM
Go for it,what could happen? Everything is cool.
Onlyfaith
May 21st, 2016, 12:19 PM
Go for it,what could happen? Everything is cool.
and if he tells me no? :(:( Continue talk to him on facebook?
Body odah Man
May 21st, 2016, 12:40 PM
and if he tells me no? :(:( Continue talk to him on facebook?
I'm sure he won't say no, based on the conversations you have with him. If he does say no, you can still text him and I'm sure he'll reply. Also, Greece is a beautiful place with a beautiful culture (Homer, Athens, etc.) It's cool that you're from there
NeuroTiger
May 21st, 2016, 01:57 PM
Don't you have any idea when he leaves home to go to school?
You can try to leave at the same time as him without telling him you want to go to school with him.
Onlyfaith
May 21st, 2016, 02:54 PM
I'm sure he won't say no, based on the conversations you have with him. If he does say no, you can still text him and I'm sure he'll reply. Also, Greece is a beautiful place with a beautiful culture (Homer, Athens, etc.) It's cool that you're from there
I hope you are right... thanks!!! Do you live in a beautiful country too ?
Onlyfaith
May 21st, 2016, 02:55 PM
Don't you have any idea when he leaves home to go to school?
You can try to leave at the same time as him without telling him you want to go to school with him.
No I have not got any idea :( :'(
Porpoise101
May 21st, 2016, 08:33 PM
No I have not got any idea :( :'(
If you guys are friends, then you should really ask. In that case, he will say yes unless there is some logistic issue (he has to leave early for something, etc.). Since he treats you kindly, I feel that he will not let you down. He seems to be a good person, so even if he does not particularly like you, he will feel somewhat obliged to please you.
Body odah Man
May 22nd, 2016, 02:15 AM
I hope you are right... thanks!!! Do you live in a beautiful country too ?
I live in Holland. It's somewhat beautiful, yeah.
Onlyfaith
May 22nd, 2016, 03:55 AM
If you guys are friends, then you should really ask. In that case, he will say yes unless there is some logistic issue (he has to leave early for something, etc.). Since he treats you kindly, I feel that he will not let you down. He seems to be a good person, so even if he does not particularly like you, he will feel somewhat obliged to please you. yesterday he was out for coffee and I told him ok have fun send me later if you want and he send me okay. After at around 1 am he sent me goodnight! ( HE REMEMBERED MEEEE) I send him too
And he send me a smile emoji. That's good right?
Onlyfaith
May 22nd, 2016, 03:57 AM
I live in Holland. It's somewhat beautiful, yeah.
Holland is a very beautiful country!! You are lucky leaving there! Ιf you host me, I am coming
Onlyfaith
May 22nd, 2016, 11:02 AM
Ι just failed. I send him Hey, he answered the same and I asked: How are you? Am I annoying? He said: I've got lesson in 5 minutes so if it is see u later
And what I answer? The most dumbest answer. Me: Send me later if you want, I'll watch a match ��
He read it and then log off
upgrade: He texted meeeeeeeeee
Flapjack
May 22nd, 2016, 02:35 PM
Ι just failed. I send him Hey, he answered the same and I asked: How are you? Am I annoying? He said: I've got lesson in 5 minutes so if it is see u later
And what I answer? The most dumbest answer. Me: Send me later if you want, I'll watch a match ��
He read it and then log off
upgrade: He texted meeeeeeeeee
Ooooo wish you luck!!:)
Body odah Man
May 23rd, 2016, 02:07 AM
Ι just failed. I send him Hey, he answered the same and I asked: How are you? Am I annoying? He said: I've got lesson in 5 minutes so if it is see u later
And what I answer? The most dumbest answer. Me: Send me later if you want, I'll watch a match ��
He read it and then log off
upgrade: He texted meeeeeeeeee
Good luck
Onlyfaith
May 23rd, 2016, 07:39 AM
Good luck
Ooooo wish you luck!!:)
If you guys are friends, then you should really ask. In that case, he will say yes unless there is some logistic issue (he has to leave early for something, etc.). Since he treats you kindly, I feel that he will not let you down. He seems to be a good person, so even if he does not particularly like you, he will feel somewhat obliged to please you.
Don't you have any idea when he leaves home to go to school?
You can try to leave at the same time as him without telling him you want to go to school with him.
Go for it,what could happen? Everything is cool.
Well I told him and he answered: I have not got problem but my friends come to my place everyday and we go together that's why.
So universe told me a big noo you are not gonna talk to him face to face. I failed once again
lemondrop
May 23rd, 2016, 10:31 AM
Well I told him and he answered: I have not got problem but my friends come to my place everyday and we go together that's why.
So universe told me a big noo you are not gonna talk to him face to face. I failed once again
Everything is fine don't be sad,if not him then other one
Body odah Man
May 23rd, 2016, 10:46 AM
Well I told him and he answered: I have not got problem but my friends come to my place everyday and we go together that's why.
So universe told me a big noo you are not gonna talk to him face to face. I failed once again
You could always ask him if he wants to have drinks with you some time? or perhaps try to run into him during school? sorry he said no.
NeuroTiger
May 23rd, 2016, 05:59 PM
No I have not got any idea :( :'(
As Porpoise said, you should ask him.
I'll be pleased to be walking to school and on the way back with a nice girl anytime.
I live in Holland. It's somewhat beautiful, yeah.
I've been to Amsterdam in March this year. Wow! I want to go back. where are you in holland?
Body odah Man
May 24th, 2016, 03:51 AM
As Porpoise said, you should ask him.
I'll be pleased to be walking to school and on the way back with a nice girl anytime.
I've been to Amsterdam in March this year. Wow! I want to go back. where are you in holland?
Used to live n Amsterdam, but then I moved to Leiden. It's nice there
Onlyfaith
May 24th, 2016, 05:17 PM
Go for it,what could happen? Everything is cool.
I'm sure he won't say no, based on the conversations you have with him. If he does say no, you can still text him and I'm sure he'll reply. Also, Greece is a beautiful place with a beautiful culture (Homer, Athens, etc.) It's cool that you're from there
Don't you have any idea when he leaves home to go to school?
You can try to leave at the same time as him without telling him you want to go to school with him.
If you guys are friends, then you should really ask. In that case, he will say yes unless there is some logistic issue (he has to leave early for something, etc.). Since he treats you kindly, I feel that he will not let you down. He seems to be a good person, so even if he does not particularly like you, he will feel somewhat obliged to please you.
Ooooo wish you luck!!:)
One last question and I will not talk about it anymore, I promise! Well... send him that tomorrow? (After hello and so on) so here it is:
Yesterday, I was talking with a guy and he told me that from here (facebook) you can't always know the other and you don't really have a real contact with him, in which I agree. With no misunderstanding, would you want to meet each other whenever u can? For a coffee maybe?
Body odah Man
May 25th, 2016, 01:37 AM
One last question and I will not talk about it anymore, I promise! Well... send him that tomorrow? (After hello and so on) so here it is:
Yesterday, I was talking with a guy and he told me that from here (facebook) you can't always know the other and you don't really have a real contact with him, in which I agree. With no misunderstanding, would you want to meet each other whenever u can? For a coffee maybe?
I would, yeah, but only if I felt real connection to the girl/guy I was going to meet.
Tesserax
May 27th, 2016, 11:11 PM
Words of advice from a wise man: You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
When a basketballer has a chance at a shot, he doesn't say "What if I miss?" before dropping the ball
A soccer player wouldn't run the entire field before thinking "What if I miss?" before falling down in despair
Go for it. What can you lose? You ask him, if he says no, then whatever. Your life hasn't changed at all. You're still you, you're still single, and you still have the same options minus one. If he says yes, then the rewards will be entirely worth the small risk of rejection.
tl;dr: Go for it. Just do it. Don't let your dreams be dreams.
Insert more corn here
Good luck!
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