Getting comfortable with jerking off

[Just a Guy]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?

[mattsmith48]

Ive never felt guilty after jerking off

[kevenity]

I've used to be guilty of masturbating bc i was aftaid of my mom finding out.

[ska8er]

I used to feel guilty when I first started but
to tell u the truth-Idk y-its like phantom guilt.
Now I just let it rip and enjoy the feeling.

[Dead Account]

I remember feeling incredibly dirty and wrong when I first started masturbating, but ya get over it!

[nwtnguy]

Don't feel guilty. It's natural and everyone does it

[Just JT]

I think it's pretty normal for guys to feel some guit when they first start. Probably cause they don't completly understand it yet, and may feel afraid for getting caught by family or friends. Or maybe for religious reasons.

End of day, pretty much every kid learns it's pretty much normal healthy and ok to do, eventually.

[Bluebyrd]

I didn't used to feel guilty as such but more awkward for some reason. Not anymore though as I've gotten more used to it.

[jake1214]

I don't think I ever really felt guilty, but I do feel self conscious. I'm not very comfortable with my body so I guess it's more the thought that somebody will see my privates. That's kind of my fear. So yeah, not guilty, but nervous.

[Hermes]

...and may feel afraid for getting caught by...

And this is part of the problem. It's all too easy to equate something being done in private with in being inherently wrong which, in this case it is not. It might be better to refer to being walked in on, rather than being caught.

[Just JT]

And this is part of the problem. It's all too easy to equate something being done in private with in being inherently wrong which, in this case it is not. It might be better to refer to being walked in on, rather than being caught.


I think that's a pretty common thing tbh. Young kids who don't know think they are doing something wrong, when they aren't. Reality is, they (parents) should be happy about their kids engaging in self pleasure. It's a form of self expression, maturity, growing up, and if caugh, they are showing they are doing it in private as it should be. So they are being mature and responsible for their own actions as well

I'll never get a parent diciplining their kid for masturbation. It just makes no sense to me. It's like you getting grounded for growing or something. It's just guna happen and it's part of life so get used to it lol!!

[Biomicro]

Never feeling guilty before !

15-Straight

[Second Chance]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?

I know what you mean, and I felt really guilty when I first started jerking off. I felt like I was doing something wrong by jacking off and that I should not have been doing it. Once I found out that jerking off is normal and that it is a natural way to deal with sexual feelings, then I was all right.

I would not freak out about jerking off because it really is something that is totally natural and normal. It may seem like you are doing something "adult" or "forbidden," but the reality is that one way or the other semen is going to come out of your penis. It is far better for it to come out on your own terms and when you're ready rather than it coming out on its own. As long as you keep control over your sexuality and masturbate in private and do not do so to anything illegal (like child porn), then you're fine. Masturbating is fine as long as it does not get in the way of your responsibilities, and it is simply a way of controlling your body.

[Body odah Man]

I've used to be guilty of masturbating bc i was aftaid of my mom finding out.

My babysitter caught me once. That really sucked. I don't think my mom ever realized I do it tho. I'm worried about it, tho, so I get ur fear.

[GoGoDiego]

Nowadays, I overcame that tinge of guilt after cumming

[andyh007]

I don't ever remember feeling guilty but more like nervous or anxious like wondering what someone might think if they found out. Now with my raging hormones its pretty much necessary for me to do if i dont wanna embarrass myself somewhere

[logan4sho]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?

Mostly i was scared someone would catch me doing it. But I'm smart enough to lock the door now. :P

[Zachary G]

when I first started to jo I used to have major guilty feelings, but once I learned I wasnt the only boy who did it the feelings of guilt started to to be as much.

[Ricky.h]

I never had guilt because at an early age, my dad kept it honest and told me...I will need to jack off and it's cool all people do it

[DannyC]

i used to feel guilty but then i talked to my older brother about it, he said every boy does it and it only gets more intense as we go through teens and maybe older.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

I've got used to enjoying it now. It's hard (pun intended) when you want to buy can't

[jerrydevo2]

Yea I think that every guy after jerking off for the first time feels guilty afterwards

[Thirdie]

Ive never felt guilty after jerking off

Neither have I

[Jtyler]

After the first year I felt I could do it anywhere and I did lol

[bubba734]

Your Mom already knew it! We all jerk off! And our parents know it! No big deal!!!

[ValentinClarke]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?
I used to feel guilty a bit each time. But literally I could do it like 5 times today and the day after that and so on and would not feel a thing ( except from like over 10 orgasms and probably chafing and puffs of air as ejaculations but you know what I mean)

[Xman31]

Lol I wasn't guilty at first for like a year I didn't know what masturbating was yet I was doing it. Then after sex ed I was like o shit I'm masturbating... Felt normal after a while though

[VTGEEK14]

It's normal I felt the same way

[Vyktor]

I used to, but now it's gone

[Chris298]

Like the whole first year I started jerking off I felt kinda weird and guilty after I would do it, at first because I didn't really know what masturbating was and I thought I was doing something weird, and then I just felt weird because it just seemed like since my body was now able to make kids I wasn't a kid anymore.

[JHardy9]

i never feel guilty after jacking off

[Jsss]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?
I used to get really guilty when I masturbate but now I do it every day and the good feeling it gives me out weighs any gulit I may have.

[nekid]

I've never felt guilty. Doesn't every boy do it?

[RiHouse]

i just stopped caring about literally everything in the world, so i've never felt guilty

[JohnC]

Yeah I have felt guilty too when I first started. I was worried my mom or sister would find out or catch me doing it. And when I got "the talk" from my mom she said it wasn't healthy to do. I know she is wrong now. This site has helped me feel better about it.

[Justin569]

I used to feel guilty after jerking off, which was quite hard to explain why, But after a while, I kinda learnt that it was normal for my age and basically got over it.

[chasechris63]

I felt guilty early on, but now Ik every guy does it and it's natural

[Falcons_11]

I've never felt guilty. Doesn't every boy do it?

I feel the same way. So, I have never felt guilty cause it's normal to j/o.

[pjones]

my dad told me when I was younger that masturbating is something most boys do and is perfectly natural. so i've never felt it was something to be guilty about doing.

[Andrew02]

I never felt that guilty about it really. Was fun :) I'd feel really embarrassed if I was caught though but doubt parents would care

[ThomasD]

No need to feel guilty, I don't

[Justpassing12]

You will begin to get over it as you do it more. I usedto get very guilty, and still occasionally do, but as jerking off becomes more of a normal to you, you will feel less guilty.

[ValentinClarke]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?

I used for feel guilty each time, but after doing it a couple times a week or even a day, ti was easier

[Jameson9]

I used to be super guilty, but eventually grew out of that faze

[rynoblue]

i feel bad bout it. i dunno why. i try not to but i cant help it sometimes.

[HiImBen]

It feels good! I love it!

[Jericho14]

I used to feel guilty until my friends told me they also masturbate...Im still hoping that my parents doesn't know i jack off everyday

[NoahNoah]

I used to feel guilty just because, then one day i just changed and i do it fucking constantly now

[loki2000]

I used to have some guilt when i first started masturbating ..but only when i did it at home.... The guilt dident last to long...after i figured places to do it and not to get caught ....Think it was more the fear of getting caught doing it at home...

[Trevorkid]

I don't feel guilty. I just enjoy it. I think our penis is the best toy we'll ever have!

[SeansLittleBro]

I've jerked off multiple times in a day and never have felt guilty. There is no reason really to do something as normal as masturbation.

[Niceguy17]

I never felt guilty. It was like my only way to unwind.

[ThekidErik]

I have felt guilty before when I realized what I was doing but now I don't feel guilty at all

[mark_r100]

when my dad had the talk with me he was very open and told me not to be ashamed that all guys did it even him

[Hankster65]

Never felt guilty. There's not a reason to feel guilty.

[Don Giovanni]

Ive never felt guilty after jerking off

[teenboyNathan]

I used to feel guilty when I first started but now I don't ever feel guilty

[Space]

I've never ever felt guilty. I've only felt nervous of getting caught cause it's unknown what my parents think of anyways. Shouldn't feel guilty or anything it's like a massage.

[steellord321]

Yeah even talking of jerking off is taboo here and since i would think of guys, i felt super guilty about it. So i tried not to at all, or to think of girls and neither worked. Then on top of that was the stress of pretending to like girls since i was one of the first to start puberty.

The only way to get over it is to keep doing it. Coming to sites like this helps too. I found out i'm certainly not alone

[ZKS142002]

I used to feel guilty when I first started but now I don't ever feel guilty

Same here. I used to feel guilty but now I think it's fine, just do whatever feels good.

[bonbon]

Never felt guilty about it. No reason to feel like that anyway, that's a perfectly normal thing to do anyway.

[Devinsoccer]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?

I always feel guilty when I masturbate. I think its due to my asexuality though.

[Curious_Guy]

I always feel guilty when I masturbate. I think its due to my asexuality though.

There's no need to feel guilty about it, everyone does it and it's 110% normal to do. So no need for the guilty feeling dude.

I've never felt guilty about jerking off, it feels great so why would i feel bad about doing it? Makes no sense to me for people to feel guilty about masturbating regardless of gender or sexual orientation, to put it simply IT FEELS AWESOME! and also everyone does it, and if they say they don't they're lying. I mean my dad gave me the talk and was open about it, even answered Q's I had so that helped also. It's totally normal and natural to do it, just remember that the first time you get busted. Just remember everyone does it, and it will help you get through or over your being caught.

I used to feel guilty until my friends told me they also masturbate...Im still hoping that my parents doesn't know i jack off everyday

Talking with your mates does help heaps, I remember telling my best mate the first time i actually cummed, and I got news dude. Your parents know, every parent knows there kid jerks off. How could they not, they were kids once also with raging hormones going through puberty.

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[dude_g]

Don't feel guilty we all do it!

[Jsss]

I was one of the most uncomfortable and guilty feeling people
After jerking off for like a whole day after but I've jerked off once a day for the last two days (the first time I've ever done two days in a row) and the feeling of guilt is almost not there and I've finally gotten over it like everyone said lol. So if anyone feels guilty, you'll eventually get over it can other people relate?
I still get a feeling of guilt but masturbating is a rely healthy thing so there should be no need for guilt

[Muddy Sneakers]

When i first started doing it, I felt self-conscious about it and wanted to hide it. I don't have a brother so maybe that explains why at first i felt awkward about it. Maybe that's normal to feel that way. Anyway, now I know it's natural and there's nothing to be ashamed of.