tinglykorv mos
May 18th, 2016, 11:20 AM
Well,
Im gonna try and make this short and simple. (Its probably gonna be long still)
When i started a new school (at the age of 15/16) there was 21 guys and 1 girl, yes 1 girl.
Now this girl wasn't the "hot" and "sexy" type but she knew alot of people and i didnt really think much of her the first year as i didnt find her appealing or attractive. But mid through the first year she approached me and my male friend (we hang out like 90% of the time during school hours), and she became a friend to both me and my friend and became a part of our group.
Now at this point I found her annoying, unattractive, lazy and crazy, so I literally tried to avoid her as soon as it became a bit awkward(when like only me her where left at a place i would make an excuse to go).
She however seemed to find me appealing, as she stared at me for long sessions and i tried not to see it but it was so obvious, she also called me on my phone/cellphone and also she tried reaching me through texts and she literally texted me like 50 times before i even bothered to reply. (but we spoke alot friend to friend in school, from my POV)
So as you can hear i did "reject" or "friendzone" her during the first year and half of knowing her. Now here's the problem:
I have come to realise that i actually really really like her now, much more then just a friend... And it's all gotten reverse, im the one texting her, trying to talk to her now but it seem that she just sees me as a friend just like I did with her before...
It's so f****d up, and all I think about is her :wub:, but I have no idea why she would have any intimate feelings for me as of now because of the way I treated her for the past year...
Am I completely wasting my time trying to become something more with her or should I grow some balls and just start to randomly flirt with her tring to get her to like me more then a friend again?
Im so lost... I know it's quite pathetic and ironic but please, if you have any advice, share them.
Thanks
Im gonna try and make this short and simple. (Its probably gonna be long still)
When i started a new school (at the age of 15/16) there was 21 guys and 1 girl, yes 1 girl.
Now this girl wasn't the "hot" and "sexy" type but she knew alot of people and i didnt really think much of her the first year as i didnt find her appealing or attractive. But mid through the first year she approached me and my male friend (we hang out like 90% of the time during school hours), and she became a friend to both me and my friend and became a part of our group.
Now at this point I found her annoying, unattractive, lazy and crazy, so I literally tried to avoid her as soon as it became a bit awkward(when like only me her where left at a place i would make an excuse to go).
She however seemed to find me appealing, as she stared at me for long sessions and i tried not to see it but it was so obvious, she also called me on my phone/cellphone and also she tried reaching me through texts and she literally texted me like 50 times before i even bothered to reply. (but we spoke alot friend to friend in school, from my POV)
So as you can hear i did "reject" or "friendzone" her during the first year and half of knowing her. Now here's the problem:
I have come to realise that i actually really really like her now, much more then just a friend... And it's all gotten reverse, im the one texting her, trying to talk to her now but it seem that she just sees me as a friend just like I did with her before...
It's so f****d up, and all I think about is her :wub:, but I have no idea why she would have any intimate feelings for me as of now because of the way I treated her for the past year...
Am I completely wasting my time trying to become something more with her or should I grow some balls and just start to randomly flirt with her tring to get her to like me more then a friend again?
Im so lost... I know it's quite pathetic and ironic but please, if you have any advice, share them.
Thanks