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Tesserax
May 18th, 2016, 01:52 AM
Yes, yes I know. It's shameful, don't need to hear it. But I'm on here for different reasons than most (aka not just looking for sex).

I just have one concern right now; I matched with a girl who, when I messaged, sort of threw a couple of pickup lines at me, seeming almost too eager for my dick. I know it's early to judge, but she sort of just threw that at me and then went to work.

How can I tell if she's serious? Hell, how can I tell if a girl is serious or not on Tinder? And what's up with all the girls that match but say literally nothing to you? Anybody have a sort of quick guide to the damn thing?

I'm asian by the way, Chinese, which might affect my... "qualifications" on Tinder, though regardless I want to know how people use the damn thing and how to understand people's actions on it...

kevenity
May 19th, 2016, 08:15 PM
I dont personally use tinder but like other sites: omegle, or grindr, many people just want to sext or hookup and not actually conversate. You can most likely tell if a girl is serious by her actions. Is she indicating she wants your dick? Is she seeming fake? It's an online thing so just dont be careless on it. If she actually wants to converse about important things, she is probably legit.

BlackParadePixie
May 20th, 2016, 01:29 AM
tinder is pretty much only for hooking up and fucking. If you're looking for conversation and a serious dating/relationship...you should try another site.

Body odah Man
May 20th, 2016, 03:47 AM
Yes, yes I know. It's shameful, don't need to hear it. But I'm on here for different reasons than most (aka not just looking for sex).

I just have one concern right now; I matched with a girl who, when I messaged, sort of threw a couple of pickup lines at me, seeming almost too eager for my dick. I know it's early to judge, but she sort of just threw that at me and then went to work.

How can I tell if she's serious? Hell, how can I tell if a girl is serious or not on Tinder? And what's up with all the girls that match but say literally nothing to you? Anybody have a sort of quick guide to the damn thing?

I'm asian by the way, Chinese, which might affect my... "qualifications" on Tinder, though regardless I want to know how people use the damn thing and how to understand people's actions on it...

Sorry man, but sounds like she's just out for sex. That's what Tinder has become

logan4sho
May 21st, 2016, 09:06 AM
I dont personally use tinder but like other sites: omegle, or grindr, many people just want to sext or hookup and not actually conversate. You can most likely tell if a girl is serious by her actions. Is she indicating she wants your dick? Is she seeming fake? It's an online thing so just dont be careless on it. If she actually wants to converse about important things, she is probably legit.

Plus you shouldn't see a lot of girls on grindr. ;)

SmileySui
May 21st, 2016, 09:35 AM
I have tried Tinder too, but it does not work for me fine. I have some matches, but anyway

Flapjack
May 21st, 2016, 11:04 AM
Yes, yes I know. It's shameful, don't need to hear it. But I'm on here for different reasons than most (aka not just looking for sex).

I just have one concern right now; I matched with a girl who, when I messaged, sort of threw a couple of pickup lines at me, seeming almost too eager for my dick. I know it's early to judge, but she sort of just threw that at me and then went to work.

How can I tell if she's serious? Hell, how can I tell if a girl is serious or not on Tinder? And what's up with all the girls that match but say literally nothing to you? Anybody have a sort of quick guide to the damn thing?

I'm asian by the way, Chinese, which might affect my... "qualifications" on Tinder, though regardless I want to know how people use the damn thing and how to understand people's actions on it...
Word of warning- I have only ever heard of girl acting like for if it is one of these 3 reasons.
1. You look like zac effron or are crazy rich (Go you if this is truexD)
2. They want something
3. They are a catfish

Sailor Mars
May 21st, 2016, 12:40 PM
My brother found his new girlfriend off of tinder, and a friend of mine met a girl off tinder. I think it's fine as long as you at least get to know the person and meet them to make sure they aren't 40 with kids

You should ask them when you match with them if they're looking for relationship, friends, or just sex. Then, like I said before just hang out with them and work w it. I'm sure you'll find out if they're serious or nah