Why some people care about penis size ?

[Amy Wolf]

This is not the normal ''penis size'' post. I was wondering why some girls care about penis size, liking them bigger, if we can get an orgasm by just rubbing our clit or with our fingers. I, myself, love a big penis, but why, you know ?

[ClaraWho]

Well what constitutes a 'big penis'?

For every girl the answer will be slightly different. Some can painlessly take more than others.

It all comes down to sensation. Too short or too thin and it doesn't 'hit the spot'. Too big and it's uncomfortable, even painful - it hits against the cervix or stretches like giving birth to a baby, or doesn't fit elsewhere.

I think for most girls the answer would be that in an ideal world they'd want 'enough' and then maybe an inch extra overall, so as to always be over rather than underwhelmed.

All that means absolutely nothing if they don't know how to use it or care about your needs.

And I'm speaking from presumptions rather than experience. To me it all is irrelevant and means absolutely nothing if I do not love them and mutually want to express such.

~ Clara

[Carrie17]

I think just a medium size would be best but I definitely can't speak from experience. The really big ones look intimidating and would just be difficult to put anywhere. Lol

[ALEX_GEE]

I agree with Clara here, and personally while I love the feeling you get from being stretched by a big dick, my view has always been that the size doesn't matter - its what they're attached to thats the issue! It all comes down to personality for me and whether your hung like a horse or packing an average willy, you're not going to get anywhere near me if you act like an arsehole, so always go for personality over dick size - a good personality and sense of humour will get you off a lot quicker! :) Ax

[Katie NYC]

I like them big. The stretching and full feeling. It's just my preference. The visual of it too is really hot. It's just what I like. Pretty simple.

[Miss Ophelia]

Never really had anything big. Would love to try one though to see what its like.

[Claire Asteroid]

I've not had sex yet but is the stretching feeling much better if the guy's penis is really big? I think I wouldn't want it too big the first time.

[saxmatic16]

I've not had sex yet but is the stretching feeling much better if the guy's penis is really big? I think I wouldn't want it too big the first time.

We can't talk about techniques in here, but what I can say is each girl is different and won't feel or experience the same as any other girl. When your time comes you will determine whether it does or not and what you like better.

[Cangirl]

A problem with to big is that it's going to hurt more right? So bigger isnt always better lol but neither is to small because you have to feel 'full'

[Taryn98]

I don't care about size either way.

[Splashy Splash]

The only size I care about is my boyfriends penis size.

[marrisa]

I like them big. The stretching and full feeling. It's just my preference. The visual of it too is really hot. It's just what I like. Pretty simple.

I agree with Katie.You put into words perfectly.

[Laibachd]

I like them big. The stretching and full feeling. It's just my preference. The visual of it too is really hot. It's just what I like. Pretty simple.

Me too! It´s just better in my opinion xD

[saxmatic16]

Me too! It´s just better in my opinion xD

Now what would you say big is? big is different for every girl.

[Laibachd]

Now what would you say big is? big is different for every girl.

I would say for me 7+ is big

[saxmatic16]

I would say for me 7+ is big

Ohh ok same here! lol

[Laibachd]

Ohh ok same here! lol

:PPP

[saxmatic16]

:PPP

lol Great minds think a like hehehe :p

[Laibachd]

lol Great minds think a like hehehe :p
haha indeed!

[Amy Wolf]

and too small ?

for me, big is 8+

[LanaPole]

I like them big. The stretching and full feeling. It's just my preference. The visual of it too is really hot. It's just what I like. Pretty simple.

I fully agree!

[Haciryne]

Now what would you say big is? big is different for every girl.

I would say for me 7+ is big

Ohh ok same here! lol

I agree both of you :yes:

[SkyClad33605]

I have one friend who is a size queen but otherwise myself and my friends don't really care. Like, if he's big but doesn't know how to use it then what's the point? I'll take still over size any day.

But, I've always preferred girth to length, if I had to choose.

[Laibachd]

Like, if he's big but doesn't know how to use it then what's the point?

Yeah but the thing is, you can always teach them how to use it xD

[LucieP]

its not always about size! being stretched and filled can feel awesome if the guy is doing it right and your aroused but its waaay to painful if he doesnt have a clue about what he is doing. and forget about the back door for any guy over 6!!:eek::eek:

[deepthroat_tacos]

Ohh ok same here! lol

Agreed. Anything above 7+ is really nice. For it more about the girth though, the stretching sensation is amazing. Also, a guy with a very large penis is attractive to look at.

[saxmatic16]

Agreed. Anything above 7+ is really nice. For it more about the girth though, the stretching sensation is amazing. Also, a guy with a very large penis is attractive to look at.

yea I know what you mean girl yassss!!

[RachelBallet]

The only size I care about is my boyfriends penis size.

That's my thought too!
Are we talking hard or soft? LOL!

[Laibachd]

Agreed. Anything above 7+ is really nice. For it more about the girth though, the stretching sensation is amazing. Also, a guy with a very large penis is attractive to look at.

trueee

[LITTLEANGEL19]

It don't bother me.

[Alex1s]

I've never had sex with a guy with a really big dick before (biggest was probably 6.5) but bigger dicks are really visually appealing for some reason. I have to say though, I didn't thing size mattered before but I've just recently discovered it really does. My bf is way below average and it's just not as pleasurable as an average or above penis.

Have any of you had a penis hit your cervix during sex before? Was it as extremely painful as I imagine it would be?

[Uniquemind]

I've never had sex with a guy with a really big dick before (biggest was probably 6.5) but bigger dicks are really visually appealing for some reason. I have to say though, I didn't thing size mattered before but I've just recently discovered it really does. My bf is way below average and it's just not as pleasurable as an average or above penis.

Have any of you had a penis hit your cervix during sex before? Was it as extremely painful as I imagine it would be?

So is it a girth or depth issue?

Or is it a technique or position issue?


I'm also confused why the "rumors" you heard around school was all wrong, according to your personal experience. The word was he was "hung", or that's what your OP said.

[Alex1s]

So is it a girth or depth issue?

Or is it a technique or position issue?


I'm also confused why the "rumors" you heard around school was all wrong, according to your personal experience. The word was he was "hung", or that's what your OP said.

It's both but if I had to pick one I'd say girth. If he was thicker I think it would be easier to get more feeling out of it as opposed to if he just grew 2-3 inches longer although I'm sure that would help too. I also don't think it's a position or technique issue...it feels like he knows what he's doing but his size keeps it from being pleasurable.
Obviously the rumors were inaccurate to say the least. I had heard from a mutual friend that my boyfriend's ex knew he was a player but stayed because the sex was good until she found someone else and dumped him. I guess no one that he'd been with before challenged any of that so it was kind of accepted as fact.
In the end though I didn't date him because of the rumors that he was big or great at sex. I ended up dating him because I got to know him and found out he is super genuine and friendly and funny and we're so compatible in so many ways. I wouldn't have put up with the shit I got from my friends for dating a freshman if all he had to offer was a big dick. I would have probably just kept everything on the down low.

P.S if anyone is confused Uniquemind is referring to my thread in Relationships & Dating if you guys want to go check it out. ;)

[shy_indian_chick]

personally i love the big boys, especially if it's thick and has a prominent head... but small penises can be cute too =)

[NatteDroom03]

Well, I really couldn't say, since I've never had sex with a guy, but I can't really see why size makes a difference, since the "entrance" is where the action is. :P That being said, I must confess that I do enjoy images of men in their underwear who clearly have a big "package". :wub:

[shy_indian_chick]

Well, I really couldn't say, since I've never had sex with a guy, but I can't really see why size makes a difference, since the "entrance" is where the action is. :P That being said, I must confess that I do enjoy images of men in their underwear who clearly have a big "package". :wub:

i've also heard that most of the nerve endings in the vagina are near the entrance, and based on that, it does seem like a larger penis might not have such a huge effect on pleasure, but it doesn't really work like that in my experience. as many of the other girls in this thread have said, large penises provide a feeling of being "filled up" and "stretched" in a way that is extremely pleasurable, and can't really be replicated unless the penis in question is also quite thick (in which case you'd still feel the stretching sensation).

[saxmatic16]

i've also heard that most of the nerve endings in the vagina are near the entrance, and based on that, it does seem like a larger penis might not have such a huge effect on pleasure, but it doesn't really work like that in my experience. as many of the other girls in this thread have said, large penises provide a feeling of being "filled up" and "stretched" in a way that is extremely pleasurable, and can't really be replicated unless the penis in question is also quite thick (in which case you'd still feel the stretching sensation).

Greatly worded. and sex is all about friction as well. So if he is too small it's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. it will never cause friction or pleasure with the walls.

[TheSix25]

Cause I don't wanna get nailed by a cock the size of a toothpick!

[ceto2]

doesn't matter about the size of it i say

[Atlantis]

doesn't matter about the size of it i say

Don't bump old threads please. :locked: