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AFallenMindMusic
May 17th, 2016, 02:47 PM
Ok so I've been to 3 different high schools this year and 2nd semester has been at the current one. There is a boy a grade ahead of me (11th as of May 17, 2016) and I told him I liked him. We've been friends since I started this school (01/08/16) and he said "I'm attracted to you but we are best friends you know?". He flirts with me all the time and he never really talks to other girls. What do I do?

lemondrop
May 17th, 2016, 02:59 PM
You can say smth like: yes we're, because we feel connection and etc. and we might be a great couple?
This is just what i think and this is what i would do

ashdyn
May 17th, 2016, 03:01 PM
Maybe he's just not ready. I mean you've only known him like 5 months. Just keep everything like it is....maybe flirt back more. He knows you like him already so there's nothing else you can really do until he makes up his mind one way or another.

ChunkyTeen
May 17th, 2016, 03:20 PM
Keep on going, let's see !!!

kevenity
May 18th, 2016, 12:06 AM
Maybe he's afraid getting into a relationship might ruin the friendship if you were to break up. I say keep being around him and let him get to know you more and you him. Good luck!

Uniquemind
May 18th, 2016, 04:00 AM
Ask him point blank that if he likes you and vice-versa.

What's holding him back? If he states certain concerns say "well we can take it slow, and set some ground rules to respect both our spaces outside of each other as individuals and what will be shared."

If he still wants to play the field though, well maybe that's a good reason he's resisting.

Cadanance00
May 19th, 2016, 11:02 AM
Say, "You wanna be more than just friends?"

Supermeggs12
May 19th, 2016, 08:22 PM
Say, "I have feelings for you."