Am i bi? or just curious?

[hockeyboy2000]

I am 15 years old, and i have done stuff with guys like jacking off and blow jobs and stuff. but i have also done stuff with girls like handjobs blow jobs fingering and yea. does this make me bi? one of the guys says i'm gay but i really like girls i just was experimenting with the guys. what does this mean?

[lemondrop]

I think you're bi,because you want to do stuff....with both genders even after experimenting
It just depends what do you prefer more - girls or boys.. After that you can say where are you leaning towards: bi towards girls or bi towards boys

[Kyle37]

Definitely bi in terms of sexuality, even if you don't really look forward to an actual relationship with a guy.

[Bluebyrd]

TBH you're probably just curious if you weren't actually sexually attracted to guys and just wanted to see what it was like

[hockeyboy2000]

I think you're bi,because you want to do stuff....with both genders even after experimenting
It just depends what do you prefer more - girls or boys.. After that you can say where are you leaning towards: bi towards girls or bi towards boys

ok thanks maybe i am

[pjones]

are you romantically attracted to both boys and girls? if yes, probably bi. if not, probably horny

[ska8er]

I would say ur Bi and maybe confused
but enjoy urself-u have the best of both
worlds for experiences-I can relate but
I'm confused-Bro we will ride this out.
Don't worry bout it.

[FuTo]

Well if you are just experimenting then I'd guess you're still "straight" but if you are attracted to both guys and girls then you are bi.

[JohnJack]

I think it's whatever you determine you want it to be. You don't have to have an answer right now, and honestly i don't think anyone is 100% gay or 100% straight anyway. No one fits a perfect mold.

[Bull]

I am 15 years old, and i have done stuff with guys like jacking off and blow jobs and stuff. but i have also done stuff with girls like handjobs blow jobs fingering and yea. does this make me bi? one of the guys says i'm gay but i really like girls i just was experimenting with the guys. what does this mean?

It means you are normal! We are sexual beings.
We enjoy sexual activities, whether it is messing around with guys or girls or both. It is fun.
Now if you are into making out with both genders that pretty much indicates that you are bi. It is what it is and not something to obsess about. Only time will tell and there is absolutely no reason/need to don a label other than sexual. Have fun and enjoy it.

[Just JT]

It means you are normal! We are sexual beings.
We enjoy sexual activities, whether it is messing around with guys or girls or both. It is fun.
Now if you are into making out with both genders that pretty much indicates that you are bi. It is what it is and not something to obsess about. Only time will tell and there is absolutely no reason/need to don a label other than sexual. Have fun and enjoy it.


That's the best advise I've read here and couldn't say it any better
We're sexual being, so just flow with it, enjoy it, what ever it is
Just be you and don't be so hung up on labels, it just really don't matter

[JellyBelly31]

Too be completely honest with you, No on can tell you this about yourself. Keep on experimenting. If you're not attracted to guys at all you shouldn't get hard over them ;)

[DoodleSnap]

Your sexuality is never defined by your past sexual experiences: your sexuality is defined by how you feel.

My advice is this: forget worrying about the labels. Just be you. Sexuality shifts and changes and grows a huge amount over time, so don't force yourself into a box. Instead, work out who and what you like over time, as you gain more experience. Keep an open mind and you'll work out what you want to call yourself.

Good luck.

[SethfromMI]

I am 15 years old, and i have done stuff with guys like jacking off and blow jobs and stuff. but i have also done stuff with girls like handjobs blow jobs fingering and yea. does this make me bi? one of the guys says i'm gay but i really like girls i just was experimenting with the guys. what does this mean?

I wouldn't worry about putting a label on yourself man. if you really like girls sexually, your definitely not gay. whether your just curious about guys or just curious, it is ok either way. like who you want to like and don't worry about labels

[jamie_n5]

You are normal and just curious and experimenting don't worry about it you are a normal teen.

[thisguy505]

My best friend is pretty much in the same boat as you. He could never see himself being with a guy in a relationship but he's done the bj hj stuff with guys and girls. He considers himself bi-curious, which is purely sexual attraction to both but emotional to only one. Sounds like this may apply to you.

[Flapjack]

I would say you are deffo bi xD Depends if you have sexual feeling for both though

[Zachary G]

I think you're bi,because you want to do stuff....with both genders even after experimenting
It just depends what do you prefer more - girls or boys.. After that you can say where are you leaning towards: bi towards girls or bi towards boys

Exactly!

[damon_fl]

you get to decide what u are. u can be bi n think dicks r nasty, or u can be str8 n only have sex w guys.

i decided im bi bc i like doing stuff w boys n girls. whatever u decide u r, everyone shud respect that.

[hockeyboy2000]

you get to decide what u are. u can be bi n think dicks r nasty, or u can be str8 n only have sex w guys.

i decided im bi bc i like doing stuff w boys n girls. whatever u decide u r, everyone shud respect that.

Thanks man you should hmu

[RyderIsAMonster]

Ask yourself this.

Would I be comfortable kissing a male. Would I be comfortable dating a male. Would I be comfortable having sex with a male. Am I able to establish an emotional connection with a male? Would I be uncomfortable spending my life with a male.

Ask yourself the same questions in regards to females.

Maybe you can learn some boundaries and comfort zones you hadn't thought of before. You could be bicurious, you could be bisexual, you could be gay with an attachment towards being straight, you could be confused.

[jxxx_z]

Only you know... You'll work it out in time

[SeansLittleBro]

I am 15 years old, and i have done stuff with guys like jacking off and blow jobs and stuff. but i have also done stuff with girls like handjobs blow jobs fingering and yea. does this make me bi? one of the guys says i'm gay but i really like girls i just was experimenting with the guys. what does this mean?

I'm in the same sitaution Nic i have done things with both guys and girls i really amd more comfortable with guys but have sort of an interest in girls i believe I'm bi but time will tell if I lean toward gay