Is my Best Friend fake, or I'm just over reacting?

[crazyBoyjJ]

Yesterday, Sunday I was feeling good in the morning I had no problems. I was texting my friend and I saw this funny video online so I decided to send it to my best friend, and my friend who I was texting. I sent it through snapchat because I was on it at the time. I normally show my best friends funny videos. Here's the thing he told me to just post it (not knowing what I was sending) because apparently he's too busy with his online girl on snap. I then realized if I actually had a problem or wanted help with a girl he wouldn't care, he would just tell me do whatever the F I want. But the day before he had problems with the girl and was calling me for advice and stuff, and I gave the best advice I was thinking of in the meanwhile. (Note I was with my other best friend and I didn't tell him, call back cause I need to spend time with her, which it was our time at the time). I helped as I possibly can, and listened to the problem.

I just felt hurt that a person only cares about themselves and didn't even try to know what I was talking about before jumping to conclusion. I must admit I do get jealous when he talks about his girl online, because I feel like everyone is getting a girl and I'm still struggling. Plus sometimes he only calls when he has a problem but when I have a problem he doesn't really care.

[Bewiggedroom43]

There are many reasons why things have played out as they have.
I wouldn't call them fake, they probably do see you as a friend but people all have their own definitions of a friend.
They could believe that they aren't of any use to you in terms of giving advice or they just don't realise that you want their assistance. If you really have an issue with this it's probably best that you just try and talk it over with them although i personally think that you are overthinking.

[crazyBoyjJ]

There are many reasons why things have played out as they have.
I wouldn't call them fake, they probably do see you as a friend but people all have their own definitions of a friend.
They could believe that they aren't of any use to you in terms of giving advice or they just don't realise that you want their assistance. If you really have an issue with this it's probably best that you just try and talk it over with them although i personally think that you are overthinking.


I guess I am overthinking, I'm just really stressed out about it and I can't stop thinking about it, I just don't wanna to say something to the person and make situations even worse than it actually is.

[Body odah Man]

Yesterday, Sunday I was feeling good in the morning I had no problems. I was texting my friend and I saw this funny video online so I decided to send it to my best friend, and my friend who I was texting. I sent it through snapchat because I was on it at the time. I normally show my best friends funny videos. Here's the thing he told me to just post it (not knowing what I was sending) because apparently he's too busy with his online girl on snap. I then realized if I actually had a problem or wanted help with a girl he wouldn't care, he would just tell me do whatever the F I want. But the day before he had problems with the girl and was calling me for advice and stuff, and I gave the best advice I was thinking of in the meanwhile. (Note I was with my other best friend and I didn't tell him, call back cause I need to spend time with her, which it was our time at the time). I helped as I possibly can, and listened to the problem.

I just felt hurt that a person only cares about themselves and didn't even try to know what I was talking about before jumping to conclusion. I must admit I do get jealous when he talks about his girl online, because I feel like everyone is getting a girl and I'm still struggling. Plus sometimes he only calls when he has a problem but when I have a problem he doesn't really care.

I don't think he's fake; just that he's so into his girl friend that that's the only thing on his mind right now. Guys are weird when they've got a chick. I'm sure things will improve after a while

[Just JT]

Yeah, I agree. See, if he like didn't like or trust you, he'd never call on you for advise. So he does like you and all, it's just his little head it telling his big head who to talk to more right now

[crazyBoyjJ]

Yeah, I agree. See, if he like didn't like or trust you, he'd never call on you for advise. So he does like you and all, it's just his little head it telling his big head who to talk to more right now

He was just giving her more time since he got to know her now. I was a bit jealous it's all good now

[jamie_n5]

I don't think he's fake; just that he's so into his girl friend that that's the only thing on his mind right now. Guys are weird when they've got a chick. I'm sure things will improve after a while

I think this is the case too. Hopefully you will find a girl and get into her like that too. Hang in there.

[TheFutureDoctor]

Yesterday, Sunday I was feeling good in the morning I had no problems. I was texting my friend and I saw this funny video online so I decided to send it to my best friend, and my friend who I was texting. I sent it through snapchat because I was on it at the time. I normally show my best friends funny videos. Here's the thing he told me to just post it (not knowing what I was sending) because apparently he's too busy with his online girl on snap. I then realized if I actually had a problem or wanted help with a girl he wouldn't care, he would just tell me do whatever the F I want. But the day before he had problems with the girl and was calling me for advice and stuff, and I gave the best advice I was thinking of in the meanwhile. (Note I was with my other best friend and I didn't tell him, call back cause I need to spend time with her, which it was our time at the time). I helped as I possibly can, and listened to the problem.

I just felt hurt that a person only cares about themselves and didn't even try to know what I was talking about before jumping to conclusion. I must admit I do get jealous when he talks about his girl online, because I feel like everyone is getting a girl and I'm still struggling. Plus sometimes he only calls when he has a problem but when I have a problem he doesn't really care.
Well, I can't really say but I have a lot of fake friends. Used to depress me so much 2 years back, I used to cry at the things they said behind my back. Of course, now I realize I don't give a f*ck. They mostly were just friends with me for my homework and stuff( I am the class topper, no bragging). SO you see, they were just using me. I didnt really fight with them or something but I stopped hanging out with them. Personally, I don't really consider anyone my friend now, I stay alone and I'm okay with that. Don't need those assholes.

But man, I really don't know if yours is fake or real. You may be overreacting a bit,I think, but I am nobody to decide. Your call.

[Just JT]

crazyBoyjJ
How'd you make out on this?

[crazyBoyjJ]

Idk lol