What is wrong with me?

[Remora]

I am not sure where to post this, but hormones probably have something to do with it. I know i'm not allowed to put up sex stories but there was an exeption for resolving problems.

So anyways, this night when i fell asleep, i dreamt about my sister waiting for me in pur shed, naked (she's gay). So i walked in on her nasturbating and she said she was curious and wanted to experiment with me, i won't go into further details, but i agreed to and it had become a wet dream.

Why is this? The thing that disturbs me most is that i'd, until now, thought i was gay(not 100% sure), whereas what should disturb a normal person the most is the fact it's incest.

[LunarScorpio]

It is possible that you are infact bi, not gay. I don;t know how old you are, but you are probably still finding out your sexuality

[Living For Love]

Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality

[ksdnfkfr]

If you are trying to make sense out of a wet dream, dont bother.
I had one that made absolutely no sense what so ever.
They do not tell you anything about your sexuality and can involve anyone.

[JamesSuperBoy]

You cannot control your dreams wet or dry - it really is that simple.

[Ben101]

Dreams contain weird things, Dont worry about it.

[Remora]

But does it have anything to do with my initial sexuality? It was a wet dream after all

[Hermes96]

no it is most likely a random dream we all have them only is you continue to have the same type of dream should you think about it deeper

[noplanhere9]

It is a normal thing we all think about at least once.

[Obsidian]

But does it have anything to do with my initial sexuality? It was a wet dream after all

Just because what happened in the dream turned you on doesn't mean that it's something you'd actually have the desire to do. For example, it's possible to be a straight girl and become turned on by watching lesbian porn. I've known a lot of girls who have admitted to this. It doesn't mean that they're gay or have the desire to be with a girl sexually. Watching a sexual encounter, whether it's a heterosexual one or not, is more than likely going to turn you on. If you're gay straight sex can still turn you on. It doesn't mean that you'd have that kind of sex or that you're not fully gay. It just means it turns you on. I wouldn't read too much into it.

[Body odah Man]

I am not sure where to post this, but hormones probably have something to do with it. I know i'm not allowed to put up sex stories but there was an exception for resolving problems.

So anyways, this night when i fell asleep, i dreamt about my sister waiting for me in pur shed, naked (she's gay). So i walked in on her masturbating and she said she was curious and wanted to experiment with me, i won't go into further details, but i agreed to and it had become a wet dream.

Why is this? The thing that disturbs me most is that i'd, until now, thought i was gay(not 100% sure), whereas what should disturb a normal person the most is the fact it's incest.

Incest used to be totally fine in ancient Egypt-only in this present day society is it a 'bad thing' so if you have feelings for your sister you are not automatically unnatural.
As for your sexuality-does anyone ever know their sexuality one hundred percent?
As for the dream-dreams never make sense and all they seem to do is mess up our lives. Try not to let it worry you too much.

[myfoodisnotshared]

Nah, there are guys - and girls - who have loads of fantasies. Take the rape fantasy, very, very few people would ever want to do that but they still dream about the control. It's not wrong to think or to dream or to freak out, it can't be, it's your head and your body.

Dreams are dreams. Obviously if you develop true sexual feelings for your sister, you have a problem because a) she's gay and b) incest but for now don't worry. Maybe you're bi - maybe you just had a really weird dream. Either way, you don't need to worry.

[Karkat]

But does it have anything to do with my initial sexuality? It was a wet dream after all

I know female friends who have had (the female equivalent of) wet dreams about women, but they're straight as an arrow.

I've had dreams that I was having sex with women, and it caused me to question my sexuality. I've also had romantic dreams about women that caused me to question my romantic view of women.

It doesn't have to change things, but it can.

[Luminous]

A dream doesn't mean anything about your sexuality. Dreams come from what you've been thinking about that day, and you have many dreams each night, each only last a few seconds. For example, you could have been thinking about: 1. Your sister (sexually or not. She is a part of your life and I will assume she crossed your mind at some point during the day), 2. What it is like for girls to masturbate (even if you are gay, you could be curious. Sometimes I wonder about guys.), 3. Maybe a friend told you about experimenting or you watched straight porn. Just these three things could have resulted in that dream. The point is not to worry about what caused that dream, but that it doesn't mean anything. If you're gay, you're gay, and one dream about a girl/your sister cannot change that.

(Rereading this I think it may be gibberish. It's almost 1 in the morning and I am exhausted. Sorry if this doesn't make any sense.)

[NickCollins]

dude dreams are the worst thing to base sexuality off.
A dream is manifested from your subconscious mind and they are often your subconscious's way of relieving stress
and it was found sexual dreams occur no more than 10% of the time and are more prevalent in young to mid-teens so this shouldn't happen to often
and trust me i've had some strange dreams so i get where your coming from