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[heylo]

Hi (again). Yesterday in locker room happened something really really really bad. I'm big and I'm a show-er, so sometimes I catch other boys looking at it. Yesterday I caught one of my friends just sitting and looking at it and when I looked at him I smiled (I was happy because of the win). He smiled back. Today he told me that he likes me, and when I said ''But I'm not gay'' he told me ''Then why did you smile at me'' I said that I was just happy and there's nothing between me and him, after what he became angry. Now all his gay friends tell ''sup big cock'' when they see me somewhere. How to stop them?? I don't want others to think I'm gay, because I'm not and I don't want my gf to feel bad and disgusted of me. Hopefully, she wasn't at school today and didn't hear them, but I'm sure tomorrow they will tell this again every single minute. Please help

[mattsmith48]

you go to school on sundays?

[heylo]

you go to school on sundays?

In my country it was working day

[mattsmith48]

In my country it was working day

Why do mind them telling people you have a big dick? i wouldnt

[Harrier]

You did nothing wrong, it was the other guy's fault for assuming, so you don't need to do anything really. You could remind the guy, that you did nothing wrong and to tell his friends to please back off.

[ska8er]

Whats the prob? Id b happy not worrying
bout what others think-So ur not gay-take
the ribbing and walk away-don't encourage
them and they will back off.

[Zachary G]

1) you should be flattered
2) you did nothing wrong
3) tell your gf what happened, she should understand and not think youre gay
4) youre not gay, so dont stress it
5) accept it as a compliment and keep it moving

[Bluebyrd]

I agree with Zack completely.

[Bull]

Whats the prob? Id b happy not worrying
bout what others think-So ur not gay-take
the ribbing and walk away-don't encourage
them and they will back off.

Good advise.

[GoGoDiego]

Let them say what they want to say. As for your gf, tell what happened.

[vboy]

If your not your not


Why do you need to be so bashful. If they dont believe your str8 then they r the stupid ones.

And if ur gf dosent take your word for it then honey you can do soo much better
But if you act all shy or irritated they will think you have something to hide

Just tell the truith

[Dead Account]

No one believes retards. and besides, there is nothing to be ashamed of if your gay or not. though art whom though art.

[tomjaron]

I totally agree with the others, but nevertheless I would go to him and tell him that he misunderstood your smile. Try to stay calm and nice and ask him to stop his friends telling lies about you. Say that YOU don't like the situation and that it isn't a nice move. You respect his feelings, but what he is doing isn't okay. Apologize for being misunderstood.

If you tell him what YOU are FEELING, he can't say anything against it.
This way you show him that it isn't ok what he is doing and it may helps to stop him.

After that it's the best way (as the others said) to ignore him and his friends.