my ex is stalking me...

[Jane Eyre]

hey i need some advice... I recently broke up with this guy whom I had dated for 7 months or so... he didn't want to break up and i really felt bad for him but the break up was necessary for us... anyway its been one month since all that but i think he hasn't got over me... but i don't blame him... he really became very much attached with me... but i think he's started stalking me ... i asked him not to do so and to move on... but my friends say they have seen him near my tuitions... i m kinda scared now... he doesn't directly come near me but i think he always follows me... and moreover he's stopped talking to me... of course I don't want to maintain any sort of friendship with him but its really annoying.... and I am also scared my parents may see him...

[Supermeggs12]

Okay, from what've you've described, it does indeed sound like he might be stalking you. Try to avoid him and not be alone around him. If he starts threatening you, contact the police immidiately.

[Body odah Man]

Agreed with above.

[Almostahero]

Okay, from what've you've described, it does indeed sound like he might be stalking you. Try to avoid him and not be alone around him. If he starts threatening you, contact the police immidiately.

I completely agree with this. Also at the same time he may not be stalking. It could all be just coincidence. I mean if he wanted to be close to you why stop talking to you? Keep an eye on it just like the quoted comment, but also don't jump to conclusions. It may make you look like bad.

[Croconaw]

It might just be a coincidence. Don't jump to conclusions. Is that the only evidence you have of him stalking you? I mean, seeing him at your tuition? That is not really proof of anything.

You said that you feel he is following you. How did you come to that conclusion?

[Jane Eyre]

It might just be a coincidence. Don't jump to conclusions. Is that the only evidence you have of him stalking you? I mean, seeing him at your tuition? That is not really proof of anything.

You said that you feel he is following you. How did you come to that conclusion?

I came to that conclusion because he hardly goes that side and now all of a sudden its like he hovers around that place for 24 hours... I mean I keep seeing him there nowadays....

[FuTo]

My suggestion is always have a friend with you. I had people who stalked me so I kept close friends near by. If he tries anything report him but just to be safe make sure you walk with a friend if you are going anywhere that he might jump you.

[SummerHaze]

maybe you have paranoia, or you still love him

[Jane Eyre]

maybe you have paranoia, or you still love him

well, if I was paranoid I would have had hallucinated about anyone else as well... like my dead grandparents who were dearer to me than any boy or friends ... and if i loved him I would have talked to him and not called him a stalker.