I always start the conversations...

[Baseman]

So there's this girl I like, and I guess you can say were friends we only talk on Facebook and I always start the conversation. When we see each other at school we'll both smile but other than that nothing much else. Sorry if I'm unclear, I just don't know.

[AlexOnToast]

Some people just don't have great conversational skills, just how it is. It could also be a case of shyness. Maybe you should ask her on Facebook seeing as it seems she doesnt like real-life conversing?

[ksdnfkfr]

She is probably more comfortable with you initiating.
Sometimes the person who has to initiate wonders if he is just
pestering the other person and they only respond to be nice.
But thats usually not the case.

[Melodic]

I have horrible approaches in conversation as well.. Some people are like that.. Best thing to do is make her feel comfortable and like she can approach you.

[Synyster Shadows]

She's probably just a quiet girl and/or shy. I agree with madie - just make her feel like she can approach you

[chieko]

I'm sorry but I can't give advice on what should you do about this because I'm not sure what her reasons are why she can't talk to you first but I can tell you some possible reasons why she's like this.

A girl's mind is complicated sometimes. To some girls a "Hello" is not just a simple "Hello". I don't know her so I can't just judge and tell you that she's not good in starting conversation with everyone else. What IF she can't start a conversation with just you alone? (because she likes you...or NOT lol)

Personally I think if guys want to talk to me then they'll write first. If they don't then I think it means they don't need me to talk, so why should I bother and embarrass myself? Not in a million years. I'm a great conversation starter when it comes to girls because I find it more confident to talk with them. I know what kind of things they want to talk about and I don't have to be worried about making a good impression as much as I want to do with guys, and THAT'S IT. If some guy I like would talk to me of course I should be careful because I would be conscious of what he thinks. I have to say the right words to come into a sentence because I wanted to make a good impression. So, If I find it hard to start a conversation with guys how much more will it be to the guy I like? That's my point asking what if she can't start a conversation with just you because she might likes you.

I can maybe quite relate to your girl's situation. I liked a guy in my class before and we just talked on facebook. Even I badly wanted to talk with him I never wrote first because I was shy and paranoid at the same time. I don't know if it will be the same with the girl you like but here are my reasons why. First, I didn't want him to find out that I like him because I wanted him to say it first. I didn't want to look desperate just to talk. I was also scared to be ignored and I didn't want him to think that I'm the kind who chase guys. I never even smiled when he came by to greet me because I was so tensed when he's right there. I've felt so stupid that I didn't make any effort to talk to him in person even though I really wanted us to be close friends. It's all my fault! However when we talked I tried to keep the conversation going and talked to him like I knew him all his life and that I cared. I also stayed online for a long time in fb just to wait for his message (ofc he didn't know)

I can't really tell if your girl was being like me, probably not? lol but I know some girls who had done the same thing I did and thought the same brought by shyness and pessimism. If you see that she enjoys talking to you then maybe she likes you too. Goodluck on finding out!

[DarkHorse4eva]

What do you rather want? that you start a conversation or that you just walk around smiling once in a while??

[Basket]

Try one day to not talk to her on facebook but be online to see if she will start the conversation and maybe try being with her at school sometimes and chat.