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Cyclin
May 13th, 2016, 10:38 AM
Hi all,

What do you think about not wearing condom in the beginning of sexual intercouse when I am way far from cuming. I only wear it in the end before I have the urge sensation to cum. I am worried about the sperms that could be in the semen that come out in the beginning of intercouse. I am afraid to get my partner pregnant. Is that considered pulling out method ? Any thoughts about that. Thanks

Sports Boy
May 13th, 2016, 10:59 AM
I don't think that would be a good thing to do. You need to wear a condom from start to finish to avoid pregnancies and std's (if you don't really know the person). As you worry about, even pre-sum contains semen and all it takes is one sperm to get pregnant. And the pull-out method is not wearing a condom at all and pulling out right before you cum.

swimjoey1
May 13th, 2016, 11:54 AM
I heard that there is precum that comes out when you are having sex.

clarissanyx
May 13th, 2016, 11:56 AM
To prevent any chance of possible pregnancy please wear a condom

Zachary G
May 13th, 2016, 12:03 PM
yeah its called "pulling out" and its not a safe thing to do. You should wear your condom at all times during intercourse if you want to prevent pregnancy. Some live sperm can be in your pre-cum and you could get her pregnant before you even finish and youd never know until it was too late.

ska8er
May 13th, 2016, 02:26 PM
I don't think that would work and I don't
think that is very wise to interrupt urself
right before u get the urge to let it rip. It
is very awkward and ur forgoing any
pleasure u or ur partner experiencing.

NZPerson
May 13th, 2016, 03:38 PM
Sometimes there is spem in precum and such.

jen698
May 13th, 2016, 03:46 PM
like every one else here have said were a condom. only safe way of having sex. with out getting her pregnant

BlackParadePixie
May 13th, 2016, 04:09 PM
Not a good idea at all. Just use the condom!

Hermes
May 13th, 2016, 04:19 PM
Not wearing a condom for the first part and then putting one one when you start to get close will have a lower chance of pregnancy than not wearing a condom at all but a higher chance of pregnancy than wearing a condom from the beginning.

Pregnancy is serious stuff. If you (plural) are not in a position to look after the baby either because you are not in a long term, stable relationship or because you are in full time education then the girl getting pregnant puts her in a very difficult situation of having to choose between bringing a baby into the world who won't get off to a very good start or having an abortion. I wouldn't envy any girl this choice and, as a guy, you don't want her to be facing that choice so you really should minimise the chance of pregancy by using the condom as intended, i.e. from the start.

It is also worth bearing in mind condoms offer protection against some STIs but that would only work if worn all the way through, i.e. from the start.

TheLotus
May 13th, 2016, 07:05 PM
The main reasons for using a condom is to prevent the transmission on STDs and to decrease the chance of pregnancy. Beginning intercourse without a condom completely defeats the purpose of protection from STDs and is not really a smart way to go. You should always go with safe sex whenever you engage in the act

NickS
May 14th, 2016, 12:10 AM
you should be wearing it the entire time youre in her. if you aren't, you aren't protected from std's and some sperm leaks out as youre going at it no matter how close you are for cumming. remember, sex is like basketball, you dribble before you shoot lol

sweettayla
May 14th, 2016, 12:39 AM
Hi all,

What do you think about not wearing condom in the beginning of sexual intercouse when I am way far from cuming. I only wear it in the end before I have the urge sensation to cum. I am worried about the sperms that could be in the semen that come out in the beginning of intercouse. I am afraid to get my partner pregnant. Is that considered pulling out method ? Any thoughts about that. Thanks

lt's called Vatican roulette.
lf you're afraid of getting her pregnant, why would you have unprotected sex anyway?

Xiao.Z
May 14th, 2016, 02:11 AM
Hi all,

What do you think about not wearing condom in the beginning of sexual intercouse when I am way far from cuming. I only wear it in the end before I have the urge sensation to cum. I am worried about the sperms that could be in the semen that come out in the beginning of intercouse. I am afraid to get my partner pregnant. Is that considered pulling out method ? Any thoughts about that. Thanks

This not good idea as other say. How good you may feel no condom will not compare to how bad if STD or baby happen.

Doro15
May 14th, 2016, 10:00 AM
Try it out if the girl get pregnant, is your decision. And you have a baby.

Cyclin
May 14th, 2016, 01:28 PM
Okay, I learned a lesson now folks. Thanks for the heads up.

One more thing regarding STD's, if I always wear condoms, still not completely protected from STD's anyway, because I kiss her, and STD's could be transmitted through all body fluids including saliva I think. Am I right ??

Cyclin
May 14th, 2016, 02:00 PM
One more thing regarding STD's, if I always wear condoms, still not completely protected from STD's anyway, because I kiss her, and STD's could be transmitted through all body fluids including saliva I think. Am I right ??

kissban
May 14th, 2016, 02:02 PM
One more thing regarding STD's, if I always wear condoms, still not completely protected from STD's anyway, because I kiss her, and STD's could be transmitted through all body fluids including saliva I think. Am I right ??

yes, its true...

Cyclin
May 14th, 2016, 02:20 PM
So, what is the solution here ? not to kiss her ? empirically hard. What is the way to be fully protected form STD's ?

kissban
May 14th, 2016, 02:23 PM
So, what is the solution here ? not to kiss her ? empirically hard. What is the way to be fully protected form STD's ?


idk, but u to be very careful (w ur partner)

mikielikesit
May 15th, 2016, 10:25 AM
You need to wear the condom the whole time or there is really no point.

mattsmith48
May 15th, 2016, 03:55 PM
put the condom on before you start to be safe plus when your getting close to cum last thing you want to do is to take a break to put a condom on

weekend
May 17th, 2016, 06:28 AM
One more thing regarding STD's, if I always wear condoms, still not completely protected from STD's anyway, because I kiss her, and STD's could be transmitted through all body fluids including saliva I think. Am I right ??

no... most STDs cannot be transmitted from kissing; only a few can and it's very unlikely. just kiss her dude


i mean, if you're having sex then you should know simple stuff like this. does your school not have a sex education or health and wellness class? also, if a girl is having sex she should be on birth control meds. you have a 0.1% chance of getting pregnant if you're on the pill iirc. but yeah, you should use a condom from start to finish if she isn't on the pill. even if you don't precum from masturbating you might precum during sex without noticing it.

Emerald Dream
May 18th, 2016, 09:44 PM
OP banned. :locked: